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Talk Sex with Annette
Talk Sex with Annette
Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power.
Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment.
From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure.
Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
Talk Sex with Annette
How to F*ck Him With Just Your Feet, Voice & Eyes
You don’t need to touch his penis to turn him on.
In fact… you don’t even need your hands.
In this how-to episode, I’m teaching you how to seduce and dominate a man using nothing but your feet, your voice, and your eyes.
We’re diving into the art of foot play—how to use your toes to tease, your arches to apply pressure, and your whole body to command his attention.
You’ll learn:
- How to give a beginner-friendly footjob (that doesn’t feel awkward)
- How to use your gaze to control the moment and keep him locked in
- The seductive power of verbal domination—and exactly what to say
This is your step-by-step guide to flipping the power dynamic, igniting his desire, and taking total control of his arousal—without ever taking your clothes off.
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Cheers!
Do the sex pleasure and desire Around here. Nothing's off limits. These are the kinds of conversations we save for our boldest group chats, our most trusted friends and, of course, the women's locker room. Think raw, honest and sometimes unapologetically raunchy. If you've been here from the beginning, thank you. And if you're new, welcome to my podcast. Where desire meets disruption and pleasure becomes power. Now let's talk about sex Cheers.
Speaker 1:Today's Talk Sex with Annette topic is how to fuck him with your feet, voice and eyes. Did you know that nearly half of all body part fetishes are about feet? That isn't a niche, that's a phenomenon. And today we are turning that desire into power. Because here's the truth you don't need penetration to fuck someone. In this episode, I'm going to show you how to seduce, tease and utterly captivate a man or a penis owner using nothing but your feet, your voice and your eyes. This episode is for every person who's ever wanted to flip the power dynamic and keep him coming back for more. We're diving into the art of footplay and worship, the hypnotic power of voice-led seduction, and why your gaze can become an erotic leash he doesn't want to escape. And yes, foot fucking is on the menu. I'll walk you through how to do it like a goddess. But before we dive in, I want to remind you that I'm over on OnlyFans, where I am sharing my sex and intimacy how-tos, audio guided self-pleasure meditations and so much more all designed to help you start experiencing more pleasure and better sex. Tonight you can find me there with my handle at TalkSexWithAnette. You can also find me on Substack, where I'm doing a whole lot of the same by the same handle at TalkSexWithAnette. And of course, you can scroll down to the notes below this episode and there you're going to find links to everywhere you might want to find me. But for now, let's dive in and talk about footplay Cheers. So before we get to our how-to, let's talk about why feet drive him wild.
Speaker 1:Let's bust the myth that foot fetishes are rare or weird. They're actually the most common sexual fetish tied to the body by far. A 2007 analysis of 5,000 plus fetish forums found that 47% of all body part fetishes. Foot-related porn searches rank in the top 20 globally and top five for men over 35 in the US. Why? It's partly neurological. The areas of the brain that control foot sensation and genital arousal sit side by side in the somatosensory cortex. For some folks, those wires get cross-connected, and that means foot touch equals erotic overload. But even beyond science, feet carry symbol. They're humbling to touch, sensual to worship and incredibly intimate to play with, especially when paired with eye contact, teasing talk or power exchange. So here's how to use your feet to fuck his brain. Look, you don't need a foot fetish to love foot play. You just need curiosity and control.
Speaker 1:So here are some steps to make foot play exciting for everyone, regardless of whether or not they have a fetish. Step number one is let him look, prop your feet up, stretch your legs, dangle your shoe off your toe and say I catch you looking at my feet a lot, want a better view, watch his eyes. Own the intention. Step two is invite, touch, rest your foot on his thigh, drag your toes along his chest or lips and say be gentle, they're sensitive and I'm watching. Step three is make him wait. Don't give him access too quickly. Say if you want to touch them, you'll have to earn it. You'll have to earn it. Make the moment part of the tease. That's where the tension lives.
Speaker 1:Step four is foot worship. Guide him, let him kiss the arch, nibble the toe, massage the ball of your foot. Say softer, slower, show me how much you like this slower. Show me how much you like this. A great way to launch into this is with a foot massage. Step number five is your bonus move. It's a sensory tease. Use your foot to trace along his inner thigh, his shaft, over clothing, or press it to his lips, while keeping eye contact. This isn't just touch, it's play, it's anticipation. You're not just giving him something to feel, you're giving him something to remember.
Speaker 1:Now let's talk foot fucking. Yes, it's thing, and here's how you're going to do it. It's also called a foot job or arch play. This is where pleasure meets novelty, and it's more intimate than you might expect. So to get started, prep the scene Use high slip lube Silicone works best and coat your feet and his cock.
Speaker 1:Next is the position Sit opposite of him on a bed or floor, legs extended, knees slightly bent. Flexibility really helps here, but putting pillows under your hips can help support you as well. Next, you're going to use your arches. Press your soles together around his shaft, use a gentle, rocking motion and let your toes stroke the tip. You can also alternate feet stroking with one, cupping with the other, and you have two free hands, so use them. You can caress his thighs, rub his chest, guide his eyes to yours. You can also touch your own body, so he's watching you. Touch yourself your nipples, your neck, your clit, while your feet are on his cock.
Speaker 1:Now that your feet are in play, try adding your voice. Say things like feels good, doesn't it? Or I love watching you like this, or you're not allowed to come yet. If you want to be a little more dominant, keep it playful, not performative. The power here isn't in being perfect, it's in being intentional. When he knows you're doing this for him because you enjoy making him feel this kind of pleasure, he'll crave it again and again and again.
Speaker 1:Next, let's talk voice and eyes Seduction without touch. Touch is just one tool. If you really want to lead him deeper into pleasure, use your voice and your eyes. Here are some of my top voice tips Slow your pace, lower your tone, let silences stretch between words and then give simple, confident instructions. Some examples are keep still, look at me, let me enjoy you. Use your voice to describe what you're doing with your feet. Use it to praise. Use it to command. Now let's talk about the eyes. Eye contact creates intensity. It says this moment is just us. Use it when you tease him, use it when he moans. Use it when you say you love this, don't you? You're mine right now. Let your gaze hold him while your feet work their magic. Finally, let's bring it all together.
Speaker 1:This episode is about power, attention and pleasure, not penetration. You can leave a man completely blissed out using the slow sensual press of your souls, the controlled rhythm of your voice and the fierce intimacy of your gaze. And when you combine them, you don't just arouse him, you anchor his memory in a way that feels mysterious, addictive and unforgettable. So here's your intimacy challenge Tonight don't ride him, don't blow him, don't even take your panties off. Just sit back bare your feet and tell him exactly what he's going to do for you. Use your feet to tease, use your voice to control, use your eyes to hold him in place, because when you learn to fuck someone with your gaze, with your words and with your toes, you don't just give pleasure, you leave a mark. Give it a try. Tell me how it goes. Comment below this video.
Speaker 1:If you're on my YouTube channel, if you are listening on my audio channel, head over to my YouTube channel at TalkSexWithAnette and let me know how it goes for you below in the comment section. If you are looking for a cheerleader, a hype girl, an intimacy coach, my books are open and I would love to help you on your own pleasure journey, either with yourself or someone else. And if you're interested in that, you can find out more about it on my website, talksexwithanettecom. You can always email me at Annette at TalkSexWithAnettecom, or you can scroll down to the notes section below and you're going to find a link to SpeakPipe where you can send me a voicemail and I will do my best to get your questions, comments, whatever, answered as soon as possible. So get out there, bear your toes, go buy some sexy shoes. I did this weekend and I have a feeling they're going to serve me well in the future. So until next time I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers.