Talk Sex with Annette
Talk Sex with Annette
Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power.
Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment.
From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure.
Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
Episodes
333 episodes
Dismissive-Avoidant in Bed: Why They Pull Away (and What Actually Works)
If they finish… then shut down, this episode is for you. Today we break down dismissive-avoidant attachment in the bedroom—why someone can crave the physical but avoid the intimate—and what actually works to make connection (and f...
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Gentle FemDOM 101: 5 Steps to Domination He Secretly Craves
FemDom doesn’t have to be scary, it can be soft, playful, and insanely hot.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 5 simple steps to Gentle FemDom, so you can explore dominance without latex, whips, ...
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Butt Stuff 101: The Beginner’s Guide to Pleasure (Without the Awkwardness)
Curious about butt stuff but don’t know where to start? You’re not alone. In this beginner-friendly guide, I sit down with Tim Lagman, certified sex educator and host of Sex Ed With Tim, to break down how to make backdoor...
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3 Moves That Make You Last Longer in Bed (No Pills, No Sprays)
Want to last longer in bed—without numbing creams, pills, or awkward distractions? You’ve been told to count backwards, think about baseball, or change positions… but none of that actually works. And worse? It disconnects you ...
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When Kink Gets Complicated: Relationship Struggles No One Talks About
Kinky couples are some of the most communicative, consent-savvy lovers out there—but that doesn’t mean their relationships are drama-free. Sometimes the same power dynamics that light you up in the bedroom can throw things off outside of it.
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The #1 Move That Turns Routine Sex Into Obsession
Is your intimacy starting to feel predictable? You’re not alone. Most couples fall into the same positions, the same rhythm, and the same script — and that’s when connection can start to feel routine instead of exciting.In this episode,...
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Can Kink Heal Religious Trauma? The Power of Pleasure After Purity Culture
What happens when kink becomes the key to healing religious shame? In this raw and redemptive episode I sit down with Lauren Elise Rogers, a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator who grew up in a high-control religion. Together,...
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How to Make Any Quickie Feel Like the Best Sex of Her Life
Quickies don’t have to be rushed, sloppy, or forgettable. In fact, when you know what to do, a 10-minute quickie can be hotter, more intense, and more memorable than an all-night session.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette,...
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Sex Questions Men Secretly Google at 2 a.m. -- Answered!
What’s the “right” size to satisfy a woman? How often should you really be having sex—or masturbating? And is it weird if you’re into something like ball-busting? Today, I’m joined by certified sexologist Dr. Susan Milstein to tackle the ...
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What to Do Before Sex So She’s Already Craving You
Before you even touch her, you can have her thinking about you, craving you, and pulling you closer. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I reveal the exact blueprint for what to do hours before sex so she’s already tur...
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Best Best Sex Positions for Real Bodies & Better Pleasure
Looking for sex positions that actually feel good—not just the ones you see in magazines or corn?In this episode , I’m joined by therapist, and author Suzannah Weiss to break down the truth about what makes a sex position great—for your...
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The #1 Mistake About Female Orgasm And How to Actually Fix It
Most people think the secret to the female orgasm is a technique. But the truth? The biggest mistake is a mindset.In this episode, I reveal the #1 reason she’s not finishing—and it’s probably not what you think.&nbs...
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Should Your Doctor Be Prescribing Sex Toys? Vibrators Should Be Part of Your Health Plan
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re diving into the surprising ways sex toys are revolutionizing sexual health—and why more medical professionals are finally taking pleasure seriously.You’ll learn:Why vib...
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How to Plan a Threesome (Without Making It Weird or Wrecking Your Relationship)
Ever fantasized about a threesome—but worried it might get… complicated? In this episode, I break down exactly how to plan a threesome without turning it into an emotional mess. From red and green flags when choosing a third...
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How My Ex-Boyfriend Turned Me Gay: The Truth About Queer Fluidity & Bad Sex
What happens when bad sex, emotional labor, and a complete lack of foreplay push you to swear off men altogether? In this spicy and unfiltered Pride Month episode, I’m joined by three of my closest queer friends to unpack a rising trend: women ...
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The Ultimate Hand job Guide (For Every Body)
Most people treat hand jobs like a throwaway move—a lazy warmup or a teenage fallback. But done right? A hand job can be more intimate, dominant, and orgasmic than penetration or oral.In honor of National Hand Job Day, I'm breakin...
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Arousal Gap: Why She's Not Turned On—And How to Fix It
Ever wonder why she’s not as turned on—or as fast—as you are? You're not alone. And she's not broken.In this episode, I’m joined by sociologist, intimacy coach, and TEDx speaker Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus to unpack one of the most misu...
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Why She’s Not Craving Sex—And How Getting Naked Fixes It
Is body shame secretly killing your sex life? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're diving into one of the biggest (and most overlooked) blockers of desire and orgasm—body image anxiety.If you're hidi...
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Is Sex Addiction Even Real? What the Science Actually Says
Is sex addiction even real?In this bold and much-needed episode, I’m joined by Dr. Sue Milstein and her co-host Charlie for a raw conversation that takes on the myths and misinformation around hypersexuality and so-called “sex addiction....
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How to F*ck Him With Just Your Feet, Voice & Eyes
You don’t need to touch his penis to turn him on. In fact… you don’t even need your hands.In this how-to episode, I’m teaching you how to seduce and dominate a man using nothing but your feet, your voice, and your eyes.We...
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How Women Can Own Their Sexuality—And Blow His Mind Doing It
What happens when a woman truly owns her sexuality?The s*x gets better. The spark comes back. And trust us—he’ll feel it too.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Dr. Bonnie Comfort—psychologist, author, and expert...
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Yes, You Can Spank Her Like That—Here’s How to Make It Hot (Not Awkward)
Let’s talk about one of the most craved beginner kinks—spanking—and why most people are doing it completely wrong.In this episode, I break down the art and psychology of erotic spanking: how to build anticipation, ...
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How to Come Out Polyamorous Without Wrecking Your Life
Licensed clinical social worker and poly coach Emily Lambert Robins joins me for a no‑fluff guide on coming out as polyamorous—gracefully. We unpack the most common slip‑ups, why it can feel scarier than coming out LGBTQ+, and the essential con...
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How to Fuck From The Bottom And Still Dominate Him
We’ve been taught that power is all about being on top. But I’m here to show you why missionary—yes, missionary—is a secret dom move when you know how to work it. This episode is all about owning the position we were told to just lie there in. ...
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