The Skill That Makes Penetration Unforgettable (and It’s Not Size)

Not all orgasms are created equally.
There’s a world of difference between a quick release… and the kind of deep, full-body orgasm that makes her melt into you. And here’s the kicker: it’s not about going harder or faster.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down how to create deeper, more connected pleasure through rhythm, pressure, and body awareness. We’ll cover what most people get wrong when they try to “go deep,” the science of how the body responds during arousal, and step-by-step techniques to help your partner experience more intense, unforgettable pleasure.

This is part two of last week’s episode on how to read her body—but this time, we’re going deeper. Literally.

✨ What you’ll learn:
• Why “harder” isn’t the answer
• The science behind deeper sensation and vaginal tenting
• How to use rhythm and angle to your advantage
• How to read her body for real-time feedback
• The one mistake that kills deeper pleasure—every time

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Chapters

• 1:30 New Name, Same Locker Room
• 3:36 The Skill That Makes Penetration Unforgettable
• 5:16 Myths About Depth, Speed, And Angles
• 6:47 Why Deep Orgasms Feel Different
• 8:54 Step-By-Step Technique Guide
• 12:32 Presence, Rhythm, And Aftercare
• 13:40 Demos, Coaching, And How To Connect

Transcript

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I'm Annette Benedetti, host of the podcast formerly known as Locker Room Talk and Shots. The show has a new name, Talk Sex with Annette. But at its core, this is still your locker room. It's where we strip away shame, get curious, and speak the unspoken about sex, kink, dating, pleasure, and desire. Around here, nothing's off limits. These are the kinds of conversations we save for our boldest group chats, our most trusted friends, and of course, the women's locker room. Think raw, honest, and sometimes unapologetically raunchy. If you've been here from the beginning, thank you. And if you're new, welcome to my podcast where desire meets disruption and pleasure becomes power. Now, let's talk about sex. Cheers. Right low. Today's talk sex with the net topic is the skill that makes penetration unforgettable. And no, it is not size. Last week I taught you how to read her body, how to spot the exact moment she's turned on, open, and ready to be taken somewhere unforgettable. But here's the thing: not all big O's are created equally. There's a world of difference between a quick release and the kind of deep, full-body big O that transforms her mind, body, and soul, and guarantees she'll look at you in an entirely new light. And that difference, it's not about size, it's not about speed, it's about rhythm, angle, pressure, and how well you move with her body, not against it. This episode is part two of last week's body reading master class. Last week was about finding the door. This week I am teaching you how to walk her through it and make the kind of pleasure she'll remember. Not all orgasms are created equally. This is how you give her the kind she never forgets. But before we dive in, I want to remind you that I am over on OnlyFans, and there I am giving you my sex and intimacy how-tos, demos, audio guided self-pleasure meditations, and even mini coaching experiences. If you are not ready to fully commit to a full regimen of sex and intimacy coaching, you can ask me your one-off questions there, and I will answer them. So you can find me also over on Substack doing a whole lot of the same, minus the demos and the coaching. And you can find me in both places with my handle at TalkSex for the net. You can also scroll down to the notes below, and you're gonna find links to everywhere you want to find me there. I'm looking forward to seeing you in all of the places. So now let's dive in to how to make penetration unforgettable and give her big O's that will change her life. Cheers. So let's start with the big mistake. The big mistake is equating deep with hard. Too many people try to create intensity through speed and force, missing the most sensitive zones entirely. When the vaginal canal tense or opens, and I talked about that in my last video, pounding actually works against her body. A 2018 study found that gentle, consistent pressure on deeper erogenous zones like the A-spot and interior fornex produces more intense pleasure than fast, shallow movements. So translation is deep big O's are about precision, rhythm, and timing, not impact. If she feels like you're trying to jackhammer your way to pleasure, her body will tense up instead of opening up. Now let's address three big myths that are sabotaging you in the bedroom. The first myth is that harder equals deeper, more intense big O's. False. A body actually pulls away from overly forceful thrusts. Myth number two: one angle works for everyone. Wrong. Everybody is different. Upward angles stimulate the ace spot, the front wall. Downward angles can hit the posterior fornex. Which one gets her there? Every woman and vulva owner is unique. And what's going to work for one isn't going to work for the other. And even though these are general locations, where they are specifically placed on each body can vary. So that angle is going to depend on her unique body. Myth number three is speed is what she wants. Fast can be fun, but when you're trying to get her to that deep, big O place, speed is your enemy. But slow, consistent pressure is what makes her body bloom. Precision beats pounding every single time. Why do deeper big O's feel different? This is about what happens once she's already there. Shallow penetration tends to hit more surface nerve endings. It's immediate and buzzy. Emotional connection matters too. When her body feels safe and seen, pelvic floor tension softens and deeper pleasure becomes possible. Deep penetration, especially with slow controlled rhythm, stimulates the a spot and the anterior fornix, which connect to the pelvic plexus nerve pathways tied to full body O's. This kind of stimulation often creates sensations described as melting waves or emotional releases. It's less friction and more depth of feeling. So the big O's that we're talking about here go beyond just the physical spasming that women will experience in your basic climax. Here we are searching for deep, full-body, mental, physical, soul-bending orgasms, which are truly possible. Deep big O's aren't just physical, they're neurological as well. When you are slow and intentional, her parasympathetic nervous system stays engaged, meaning her body relaxes, opens, and rides the sensation instead of just bracing or even clinching through it. A study found that the same areas activated during a big O also light up during emotional bonding. So this is part of why you are going to be memorable, desirable, and sought out again after you give her this kind of big O. You can't force her body to open. You can only make it feel safe enough to open for you. And you don't need to go harder to go deeper. You need to go smarter. So now let's talk about how to give her deeper, stronger big O's. Here's a step-by-step guide. First of all, warm up like it matters. The goal isn't just arousal, it's expansion. Start with emotionally setting the stage for depth and intensity. I'm talking the pregame. Talk with each other, touch, hold hands, kiss, hold each other, sink your breathing, and build the electricity between you before initiating genital touch. Then we're going to move on to clitoral stimulation and outer touch to help the vaginal canal tent naturally. Think of this as opening the door, not knocking it down. So step two is slow pressure is better than fast thrusting. So start shallow, ease deeper, use a rolling or rocking motion, not just jackhammering. Whether you are using your hand, a dildo, or a penis. Keep the rhythm steady so her body can meet you. Step three is angles are everything. Tilt upward to stimulate that A spot or the front wall. Tilt downward to explore the posterior fornix. Adjust gradually and watch how her body responds. Her breath, her pelvic tilt, soft moans. These are your real-time feedback loops. And again, if you want to know more about what to look for, you're going to go to last week's episode and I walk you through all of those signs you should be on high alert for. Step four is follow her body. Don't reread it. This isn't about finding the signs. You already have them. Now it's about staying on them. Lock into the angle or pressure that makes her hips rise and keep your rhythm there. Consistency is your superpower. Once her body shows you the door to the big full body O's, stay there. Don't wander off. Step five, break the script. Build unpredictability in with micro pauses, slow grinds, or subtle angle shifts. That contrast is what pushes intensity higher without going harder. And then finally, step six, ease her down gently. So once she has the big O, your job isn't over. Your role is not done. Don't pull away the second she climaxes. Ease up slowly. Keep contact soft. Let the wave taper down naturally. This deepens intimacy and it also can lead to a surprise second wave, which is always a plus. So here's the real secret: Deep big O's don't come from tricks, they come from presence, rhythm, and timing. Once you've learned to read her body, this is the part that makes her feel you in a way she won't forget. So whisper encouragement. Match your breath to hers. Stay connected afterwards. Reading her body gets you to the door. Rhythm is what walks her through it. Here's the truth: making her climax deeper isn't about being bigger, harder, or faster. It's about angles, rhythm, and what you do once she's already opened up to you. If last week was about decoding the signals, this week is about riding the wave. If you want to see what this looks like in real time, I've got a spot and rhythm demos over on my OF page. And if you want more step-by-step technique breakdowns like this one, hit subscribe and turn on the notifications. Now, if you're looking for a sex and intimacy coach, my books are open. You can find out more by going to my website, talksexwithanet.com. If you have questions about this episode or you have a comment, or you have experience after you give it a try that you want to share with me, make sure to drop a comment below the video on my YouTube site. That's at talksexwithanet on YouTube. Or you can send me an email at Annette at talksexwithanette.com. I'm looking forward to hearing about your experience. So until next time, folks, I'll see you in the locker room.