Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast with The Matadoras
Surviving Toxic Relationships is a Christian podcast for women who are ready to break free from toxic, emotionally abusive, or narcissistic relationships and step into healing, clarity, and truth.
Deana and Lizzie are two women whose lives unexpectedly crossed when they were married to the SAME manipulative, cheating, financially abusive partner.
Their combined passion is to provide women with the tools to avoid, escape, or heal from toxic, harmful, or confusing relationships.
If you’ve been searching for faith based wisdom that goes deeper than surface-level advice, this show is for you. We talk honestly about trauma, emotional wounds, spiritual confusion, and the process of rebuilding your identity through faith.
Our esteemed guests consist of Therapists, Authors, Doctors, and Survivors. Together, we explore topics that include self-discovery and healing, narcissistic abuse, boundaries, discernment, and learning to hear God’s voice clearly in relationships.
Whether you’re trying to avoid early red flags, are in the middle of a toxic relationship, or recovering from one, this emotional and spiritual healing podcast offers real conversations, practical insight, and biblical encouragement to help you move forward into hope, restoration, self worth, and renewal.
Remember beautiful friends: You are not alone, You are not crazy, and You are deeply, deeply loved.
Deana & Lizzie
Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast with The Matadoras
Episode #49: Toxic Dating & Red Flags: An LMFT's Survival Guide
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In this conversation, Carla Litto, a marriage and family therapist, discusses the signs of narcissism in romantic relationships. She explains how narcissists often present themselves charmingly at first, but their true nature reveals itself over time. The discussion covers the importance of recognizing red flags, the dynamics of love bombing, and strategies for approaching loved ones who may be involved with narcissistic partners. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-awareness and careful observation in relationships to avoid emotional manipulation and abuse. In this conversation, Carla Litto and the hosts discuss the complexities of relationships with narcissists, focusing on how these dynamics affect friendships and family ties. They explore the manipulative behaviors of narcissists, the importance of recognizing these patterns, and strategies for protecting oneself and loved ones. The discussion emphasizes the need for awareness and self-protection in the face of emotional abuse, while also recommending resources for further understanding and coping with narcissistic relationships. To contact Carla, or access her book, click below!
https://www.carlalittotherapy.com
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Podcast Takeaways:
- The honeymoon phase can last from three to six months.
- Love bombing is a tactic used by narcissists to gain control.
- Recognizing red flags early can prevent deeper emotional harm.
- It's important to slow down relationships when red flags appear.
- Approach loved ones with finesse when discussing concerns about their partners.
- Planting seeds of doubt can help loved ones see the truth.
- Not all love bombing is indicative of narcissism; context matters.
- Pay attention to how a partner treats others, especially friends and family.
- Self-reflection is crucial for healthy relationships. It's important to get to know friends and family interactions.
- Narcissists often charm those close to you to build alliances.
- Recognizing manipulative behaviors is crucial for self-protection.
- Narcissists can use your loved ones against you.
- It's essential to protect your close relationships from narcissists.
- People may not see the harm in a narcissist until it's too la
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