Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast (Formerly The Matadoras, No More Bull Podcast)
Two Women, One Narcissist, and the Journey to Freedom
In this raw and gripping podcast, Lizzie and Deana—two women who share the painful bond of having been married to the same narcissistic abuser—pull back the curtain on the devastating cycle of manipulation, betrayal, and gaslighting that they endured. Together, they unravel the dark truths of sexual addiction, financial abuse, trauma bonding, and double lives, while sharing how they found the courage to escape and reclaim their power.
Through candid storytelling, heartfelt conversations, and practical insights, Lizzie and Deana shed light on the devastating ripple effects of narcissistic abuse, not just in their lives but in the lives of others who followed. More importantly, they offer hope, empowerment, and tools for healing to those who may feel trapped.
This podcast is not just about survival—it's about rising above the pain to build your best self and your best life. A must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration, solidarity, and the strength to survive or break free.
Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast (Formerly The Matadoras, No More Bull Podcast)
Episode #52; Forgiveness vs Reconciliation: Why You Can Let Go Without Going Back
In this episode, Lizzie and Deana explore the critical distinction between forgiveness and reconciliation, emphasizing that forgiveness is a personal choice that can occur independently of the other party's actions. They discuss the importance of healing from emotional trauma, the necessity of setting boundaries, and the significance of surrounding oneself with supportive individuals. The conversation highlights that forgiveness is essential for personal peace, while reconciliation requires mutual effort and safety.
Takeaways
Forgiveness is a personal choice to release resentment.
- Reconciliation requires mutual effort and safety.
- Healing from trauma takes time and is a personal journey.
- Being angry is a natural part of the healing process.
- Forgiveness does not mean condoning the harm done.
- Setting boundaries is crucial for self-preservation.
- Surround yourself with supportive people during healing.
- Forgiveness can happen without the other person's involvement.
- You can forgive someone and still choose not to reconcile.
- True love involves accountability and change from the person who caused harm.
Chapters
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Forgiveness vs. Reconciliation: Understanding the Difference
09:44
The Process of Healing: Moving Beyond Anger
18:57
Setting Boundaries: The Importance of Self-Preservation
26:41
Choosing Your Circle: Surrounding Yourself with Supportive People
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