Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast (Formerly The Matadoras, No More Bull Podcast)
Two Women, One Narcissist, and the Journey to Freedom
In this raw and gripping podcast, Lizzie and Deana—two women who share the painful bond of having been married to the same narcissistic abuser—pull back the curtain on the devastating cycle of manipulation, betrayal, and gaslighting that they endured. Together, they unravel the dark truths of sexual addiction, financial abuse, trauma bonding, and double lives, while sharing how they found the courage to escape and reclaim their power.
Through candid storytelling, heartfelt conversations, and practical insights, Lizzie and Deana shed light on the devastating ripple effects of narcissistic abuse, not just in their lives but in the lives of others who followed. More importantly, they offer hope, empowerment, and tools for healing to those who may feel trapped.
This podcast is not just about survival—it's about rising above the pain to build your best self and your best life. A must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration, solidarity, and the strength to survive or break free.
Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast (Formerly The Matadoras, No More Bull Podcast)
Episode #55: Spotting Manipulation in Conversations; How to Trust Your Gut Again
In this conversation, Lizzie and Deana explore the complexities of manipulation within faith-based relationships, particularly focusing on how women of faith may be more susceptible to manipulative behaviors. They discuss various manipulation tactics, including passive-aggressive humor, emotional guilt, and triangulation, while emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and healthy communication. The conversation concludes with practical tools for recognizing manipulation and affirmations for those feeling confused or overwhelmed in their relationships.
Takeaways
- Women of faith are often taught to be people-centric, making them vulnerable to manipulation.
- Toxic empathy is not reflected in the Bible; we must be wise as serpents.
- Gut feelings can be a form of guidance, often overlooked in faith contexts.
- Manipulation can manifest through passive-aggressive humor and emotional guilt.
- Triangulation involves bringing in a third party to avoid accountability.
- Recognizing patterns in relationships is crucial for understanding manipulation.
- Healthy communication requires mutual respect and acknowledgment of feelings.
- Confusion in conversations often indicates unhealthy dynamics.
- Self-awareness tools can help identify manipulation signs.
- You are not alone in your experiences; validation is important.
Chapters
00:00
The Vulnerability of Women of Faith
02:35
Recognizing Manipulation Tactics
04:48
Understanding Emotional Guilt and Obligation
07:22
The Impact of Triangulation
10:02
Healthy Communication Strategies
12:37
Discernment and Self-Check Techniques
15:17
Conclusion and Affirmation
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