Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast with The Matadoras
Surviving Toxic Relationships is a Christian podcast for women who are ready to break free from toxic, emotionally abusive, or narcissistic relationships and step into healing, clarity, and truth.
Deana and Lizzie are two women whose lives unexpectedly crossed when they were married to the SAME manipulative, cheating, financially abusive partner.
Their combined passion is to provide women with the tools to avoid, escape, or heal from toxic, harmful, or confusing relationships.
If you’ve been searching for faith based wisdom that goes deeper than surface-level advice, this show is for you. We talk honestly about trauma, emotional wounds, spiritual confusion, and the process of rebuilding your identity through faith.
Our esteemed guests consist of Therapists, Authors, Doctors, and Survivors. Together, we explore topics that include self-discovery and healing, narcissistic abuse, boundaries, discernment, and learning to hear God’s voice clearly in relationships.
Whether you’re trying to avoid early red flags, are in the middle of a toxic relationship, or recovering from one, this emotional and spiritual healing podcast offers real conversations, practical insight, and biblical encouragement to help you move forward into hope, restoration, self worth, and renewal.
Remember beautiful friends: You are not alone, You are not crazy, and You are deeply, deeply loved.
Deana & Lizzie
Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast with The Matadoras
Episode #72: From Toxic Patterns to Self Love; Jonathan Aslay on Healing After Loss
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In this deeply moving and insightful episode, relationship and self-love coach Jonathan Aslay shares his powerful journey of healing after the tragic loss of his son. Through vulnerability and wisdom, Jonathan explores how grief can become a catalyst for growth, why self-worth is non-negotiable in midlife, and how to build meaningful, lasting relationships rooted in authenticity—not just chemistry.
Whether you're navigating midlife dating, recovering from emotional loss, or seeking deeper self-understanding, this episode offers tools and heartfelt truths to help you embrace self-love, develop emotional resilience, and reconnect with purpose.
What you'll learn:
- How grief can lead to profound self-discovery
- Why self-esteem is essential for healthy relationships
- How midlife challenges can become pathways to empowerment
- The impact of attachment styles and self-image on dating
- Why building love on friendship creates deeper connection
Check out Jonathan's Book: "What the Heck is Self Love Anyway?" https://a.co/d/08975RR
Chapters:
00:00 – Opening Reflections: Self-Love and Grief
02:44 – Rediscovering Identity Through Personal Loss
05:53 – Grief as a Catalyst for Self-Love
08:43 – Why Self-Worth Matters More Than Ever in Midlife
11:43 – Personal Growth: The Foundation of Healthy Love
14:32 – Midlife Dating & Self-Perception in a Filtered World
24:41 – Friendship First: A New Model for Relationships
28:00 – The Power of Emotional & Heart-Based Connection
30:53 – Understanding Attachment Styles & Inner Needs
35:52 – Choosing Empowerment Through Radical Self-Love
39:20 – Closing Thoughts: You Are Worth the Journey
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Disclaimer: The views expressed by our guests are their own, and this show is for educational purposes only. It is not therapy, medical, or professional advice, and listening does not create a therapeutic relationship. If you need personalized support, please reach out to a licensed professional. If you’re in crisis or immediate danger, please call 911 for help.