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#90- Dr Nadia Khan-Part Two: Children and Life Lessons

Clinton Shum

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In this episode, we explore how emotional presence, trauma, and playful engagement shape both health and human connection. Nadia, a pediatrician and mother, shares profound insights on balancing professional dedication with personal life, emphasizing how mindfulness and intentionality can transform our approach to children, ourselves, and our work.In this episode:

  • How reflecting on meaningful patient stories deepens medical practice and personal motivation
  • The critical role of humility and avoiding pride in healthcare encounters
  • Strategies to balance demanding careers and family life, including asking for help and systematizing support
  • The importance of being fully present with children and its impact on their emotional well-being
  • The neurobiological links between emotional trauma, physical symptoms, especially in children
  • Insights from Gabor Mate on early childhood bonding and long-term health effects
  • How children’s honesty, resilience, and wonder teach adults about living fully
  • The significance of curiosity, play, and nature in maintaining mental health and joy
  • Practical tips for cultivating presence, mindfulness, and intentional living amidst responsibilities
  • Reflection on trauma, responsibility, and the importance of surrendering to life’s flow
  • The special beauty of witnessing new life and the deep emotional impact of caring for children
  • ⁠Atomic Habits by James Clear⁠
  • ⁠Victor Frankl - Man's Search for Meaning⁠
  • ⁠Gabor Maté - The Myth of Normal⁠
  • ⁠Rockjumper Birding Tours⁠
  • ⁠Eckhart Tolle - The Power of Now⁠
  • ⁠Instagram⁠
  • ⁠LinkedIn⁠


Chapters

(00:27) The Impact of Motherhood on Medical Practice

(09:14) Emotional Trauma and Physical Health

(17:46) Lessons from Children: Curiosity and Play

(37:34) The Emotional Toll of Pediatric Medicine

(43:25) Finding Meaning in Suffering

(51:26) Understanding Adult Behavior Through Childhood Trauma


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Much love, 

Clint