Proven Not Perfect
Proven Not Perfect
Quit Breaking Your Neck: The Art of Fitting vs. Forcing with Denise Thomas, The Effective Communication Coach
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Have you ever found yourself breaking your neck to be in spaces where you simply don't fit? That's the powerful question at the heart of this spontaneous yet profound conversation with communication coach Denise Thomas.
What began as a casual catch-up call transformed into a masterclass on recognizing your gifts, embracing divine timing, and understanding the crucial difference between fitting and forcing. Denise shares her journey as "a little Black girl growing up in a small Midwestern rural town" with extraordinary communication abilities, and how her mother's unwavering support helped her embrace rather than suppress her natural talents.
The wisdom flows effortlessly as Denise unpacks how our environment—defined as "the people, places, and things that have access to you"—shapes our gifts and purpose. She challenges listeners to move beyond merely being "products of their environment" to consciously deciding who deserves access to their energy and space.
Perhaps most striking is the conversation around networking and authentic connection. "Am I going into this room to chase or to attract?" Denise asks, offering a transformative perspective on how we approach relationships and opportunities. Rather than arriving with predetermined scripts and targets, she advocates for showing up authentically and trusting that you'll connect exactly with who you're meant to.
Faith emerges as the foundation for this trust-based approach to life. As Denise puts it, faith provides "the strength to move forward, even when the path isn't fully visible." This perspective allows you to replace "why me?" with "use me," shifting from questioning to purposeful action.
Listen in as these two friends share genuine insights that will help you strip away societal expectations, embrace your gifts, and find the spaces where your presence is truly valued without explanation. And stay tuned—there's already a Part Two in the works!
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Proven, not perfect. I am so excited to share this conversation with you when I tell you I'm so excited because we're talking today to Denise Thomas, who is the effective communicator, she is a coach, she is a keynote speaker, she is a consultant, she is an advisor. She is so many things. She's the girlfriend you want to have because she is always going to the amazing fly places around this world. She's always full of joy and life and purposeful movements. I can't say enough about my friend Denise Thomas, but here's what I'm going to share with you about my friend Denise Thomas, but here's what I'm gonna share with you.
Speaker 1You know you are onto something really good when you have a catch-up call, a catch-up Zoom with your girlfriend and it turns into a full-on coaching session. Yes, a full-on coaching session affirmation, prayer, meditation, manifestation. I don't even have another shun to tell you the conversation that you are about to listen to and watch if you choose you to. But look, this is one you do not want to miss, because I'm sure that just through our catch-up call and the conversation themes that we touch on, you are going to learn so much about how you move, and how you move with intentionality, and how you actually make the big leaps and bounds that you are seeking to make, but not understanding why you're doing all the things that people say you need to do, and it's just not translating. So that's what we're talking about today. I don't want to spoil anything.
Operating in Your Gift
Speaker 1Like I said this was a catch-up call that happened to be on Zoom and I happened to press record because the drip just started from the moment we said hello. Let me tell you this You're going to love this conversation. You're going to DM me, You're going to ask me for more and you're welcome because we're already planning it. Here we go. Proven, not perfect. The effective communicator, Denise Thomas. Enjoy.
Speaker 2Well, someone will approach you whether it's in person, virtual, whatever and say something to the effect of how do you do this, chantra, or can you teach me how to do this? And anytime another human being asks you that question, that is a validation, and not that you're looking for that, but that is let me say it differently that is an affirmation that you are truly operating in your gift and that's what I, when I, when I share with people from a coaching standpoint, because I will have people call me, reach out and say can you teach me? And I'm like look, it's not about me teaching you to do anything.
Speaker 1Yes.
Speaker 2You've got coaches. As coaches, we do like professional athletics coaches. We bring out the best that's already in you. So we have these layers and we have. You know what I'm saying. And so when, when, when you start running away from your gift, you'll know it, because you'll start waking up asking questions like man. I got to reach out to so-and-so and find out how I can do this. And let me be clear.
Speaker 2I'm not talking about mentoring or coaching. I'm talking about seeking validation from others that you don't need to see. You got to get rid of the noise, you got to get rid of the layers, because what happened to your to your initial question is from the time that I was three years old, and this is according to my mother. You know your mother that's the one person you know ain't gonna lie to you Not gonna lie.
Your Environment Shapes Your Gift
Speaker 2That's the one person you know. Your mother, that's the one person you know, ain't gonna lie to you. Not gonna lie. That's, that's one person you know. And so she told me, or she informed me, that at the very young age of three, I was reading and speaking fluently, like I was way ahead of what in terms of societal you know terms and criteria. And so she at that moment said OK, let me just observe and see where this is going. Now, keep in mind, chantra, I'm a little black girl growing up in a small Midwestern rural town, evansville, indiana. Yes, and just keep me, cause I'll, I'll go. Just keep me focused here, because one of the biggest influencers or amplifiers of your gift is your environment.
Speaker 1Yes.
Speaker 2And if you are in, if you are living in an environment because your environment is your environment, yes, and if you are in, if you are living in an environment because your environment is three things it's the people, it's the places and it's the things that. Are you ready for this, chantra, because I got to say it this way for it to hit?
Speaker 1I love it.
Speaker 2That have access to you.
Speaker 1Girl Conscious.
Speaker 2Chills Conscious. Yes, it is a conscious decision Because a lot of people become addicted and they'll say things like you know, you're a product of your environment, I'm a product of my environment. Well, at some point you have to take a step back and say who am I giving access to me?
Speaker 1you have to take a step back and say who am I giving?
Speaker 2access to me? Yes, because I get it. Sometimes we inherit things that we just inherit. But then there comes a time in your life and I'm a witness I did it and so, wow, in that environment, okay, I set the scene up. Chantra, little black girl, small Midwestern rural town, wasn't a lot of folks look like me?
Speaker 2And I'm going to tell you right now. So, chantra's audience, even though I'm a communication coach, when I'm speaking I'm going to say some slang, I'm going to speak from the heart. So if you're somebody who's looking for eight syllable words, that's probably not they should be used to it. That's the not perfect part. Yeah, I was like cause I'm, I'm, I'm literally. Chantra just has that impact on on people Like you. You bring out the best in people. So here's the thing you get to a point where you you realize that people that aren't used to you, they're not comfortable. The traditional images of how you should be behaving are not matching. Yes, which is what makes you extraordinary, which is what makes you a child of the most high. Yes, but what we tend to do is we allow and let me give you the personal story.
Speaker 1So break it down, sis, because this is so good yes.
Speaker 2Thank you People. Whether it was educators at the time, yeah, this is. You know, in the early 80s, throughout the mid, early to mid 90s, educators, family members, friends not all of them, but enough to where it was. Denise talks too much, she's a distraction in the classroom, she disrupts all these. You know and I'm not saying that I wasn't, but here's the kicker If my mother would have said you know what? You're right, denise, be quiet, Denise, don't speak I would have been. And here's where it hits home. You really about to be like what? See, that's the thing with human beings. Yes, because we allow society to tell us what should be accepted and what shouldn't be. But thank God that my mother, who is Chinese, who was an immigrant, who came to the, to the United States, in the late sixties, early seventies, she was already ready for that and so she was like because she knew, she, knew, she, she.
Speaker 1She had first of all all credit that she was a mom who understood the assignment first of all and she knew that it was, from the moment, bigger than her. And I believe that when you have a woman of intention that way, they are clear, they're clear always and they will not let anyone, anyone, disrupt what they see, because it's a responsibility when you understand the assignment, responsibility when you understand the assignment.
Speaker 2And here's the thing again when you understand and you obey, a lot of us have that awareness. We have the awareness and understand, but then we, we let society. That's the noise.
Speaker 2Yes, what? So here's the crazy part. So, growing up in Evansville you know it was a small town population at that time Probably was around one hundred and ten, one hundred twenty thousand feet, very small. Southern Indiana, yeah, and we would have every year, this big during Black History Month, a big talent show, this big during black history month, a big talent show, and most of the talents were either singers or dancers. People from all over the tri-state, people from all over southern indiana would come to this event. It was the uh, evansville I want to say evansville, indiana black history month talent show. Things were pretty simple. You didn't have to have all these you know, extraordinary titles. It was what it was. That's right. My mother entered. That's like the parties I would go to with my Things were pretty simple.
Speaker 1You didn't have to have all these you know, extraordinary titles. It was what it was, that's right, my mother entered. That's like the parties I would go to with my family in New Orleans growing up, where every party, every adult party, had a dance contest. Just saying it's cultural, it is.
Speaker 2You don't say it, it's just either you're singing or you're dancing, which is a good thing, because a number of the people that competed were actually talented. Yes, that was shade. So my mother answers me looking, shot your my mother they were actually talented, they could yes, girl say no, you know what they call it uh robot, I don't know anyway.
Speaker 2So my mother had me recite a poem written by the great Maya Angelou. Dr Maya Angelou. When I tell you, shandra, wasn't nobody trying to hear me. I was what? Probably 10 years old, but my mother was backstage. And prior to that, when I tell you, my mother had me practicing, practicing every like I'm a, I'm 10 years old, I'm going to school, I want to be outside with my friends. No, no, no.
Speaker 2That's the whole part of being obedient yes and understanding that any gift that you have, it is a craft that you have to have to continuously develop. There is no expiration to excellence that's right on there is no.
Speaker 2You will never get to a point in life where you will say done, I'm here. No, no, it is. And and technology teaches that every day. It reminds us that it is a constant evolution, is a constant journey. So back to the talent show. People were getting up. I didn't get booed because I'm 10, but you know, people were getting up. They're like why wasn't this talk? Where is the guy that sings? Don't be cruel about Bobby Brown, bring him out. And you know that's the one, one of the many things that is so great about being innocent. When you're a child, you know you don't have all this noise about. You know well, at least I didn't based on you know, my upbringing. I wasn't really worried about whether or not I was going to get booed or not. I was worried about all this time I practiced my mother making her proud, I believe, was intentional Like she, she trained me that way. So any who fast forward, I, I get it Like I didn't.
The Power of Genuine Kindness
Speaker 1And I think that's one thing too, chantra, that I hope you and others, your, your audience, understands when you have a gift yes sometimes it's a blessing and a curse, because you are just preaching today, like out the door, like preaching, and I truly believe that this drip, this drip is special, yes, and it's intended to fall on good soil, oh yes. And the folks that are really really getting it and receiving it, which I can tell you my heart is man it is, and we have to be okay.
Speaker 2Well, let let me not say okay we have to have that awareness, chantra, I remember the first time I met you. Yeah, which, what is this? 2025? That would have had to been.
Speaker 1I feel like it was 2000, between 2010 and 2014, like that's where my mind is going.
Speaker 2That's where I was thinking too, and so I remember the first time I met you. My immediate thought was my God, this woman is gorgeous, Like, oh, my, she's like perfect, she's like a like girl. Stop, Like, somebody took a time when they made this one.
Speaker 1Thank you so much, and you're beautiful too Well thank you.
Speaker 2Then I see your husband and I'm like, oh, this is like, this is like black excellence, the huckstables. I'm like this is like a picture, it's like a card, right that you put up when you go to the department store and they already have the picture in the frame. You're a mess, you know you're tripping, Then I see your kids and I'm like okay, but then this is what I really appreciate about you.
Speaker 1Yes.
Speaker 2Because oftentimes when we see physically beautiful and attractive people, you know, then we start to have like these kind of like stereotypical thoughts. Then you open your mouth to speak and I'm like doggone it she's brilliant and beautiful. But here's the third characteristic that what I love about you, chantra, is, no matter what, you're a kind person, thank you. Let me say that one more again because that word right now is something that man.
Speaker 1Thank you.
Speaker 2When I went, you know, when I went to Japan a couple of weeks ago, everybody, you know, keeps asking me now, what was your biggest game, what was your biggest, your greatest experience? Yes, and it's exactly what you are, shantra, and that's what we need more of, is my. I told you all the time it was a transformative experience. However, in addition to that transformation, it was also so incredibly needed to experience kindness.
Speaker 2I don't care what, nobody says people in in Japan, one of the most kind, yes, and so, bringing that back to what we were discussing, you know, when you you, you are attracting what you're putting out.
Speaker 2But you're also reminding people because you know there's people that are doing podcasts and blogs, but what I love about your brand with this platform is that you come in the gate just kind thank you, and I watch a lot of podcasts. I listen and watch a lot of podcasts and it's no, it's no discredit to others in terms of their style and their format and their delivery. However, I feel like you know there's you know these like icebreakers that people. Your icebreaker is your kindness and it's crazy because it's been consistent like you have not changed. It's even more proof that that is genuinely who you are Like. You are a genuine kind person and I hope that people will say you know, during this moment of being on Chantra's podcast or during this moment of having Chantra pal time, whether it's coffee, dinner, brunch, you know, vacation, whatever. You know. What am I taking from this moment of kindness?
Speaker 2But I don't want you to feel like you can't ever have a bad day. Yes, yes, because I feel like sometimes, chandra and that's where a lot of us that have gifts like, we feel like if we're not operating in it, then, man, you know, are we doing something wrong. There are days where I am not the effective communication coach. I don't have anything to give. Don't ask me for nothing. I need to go in my room, hallelujah and close the door. Yes, and receive and receive, Replenish, restore, which is what I love about my faith, because that is what God does.
Speaker 1Yes.
Speaker 2He's a restorer, he's a renewer.
Speaker 1Yes, talk about it.
Speaker 2He's, you know he recovers all of that, All the re's, the R-E's that we see, and but it has to. That's why my favorite scripture, one of my favorite scriptures, is peace, be still and know that I am God, Because sometimes you've got to sit your butt down and be reminded and see when you start to feel like Psalms 4610, girl, I'm telling you, I've been rocking with that one since 2020.
Speaker 1It grabbed me. It will not let me go. What's the scripture again Say it again please, 4610. Be still and know that I am God. Be still and know that I am God. But I think you also were saying peace, be still what he commands to the water. I'm not the Bible historian in such a way that I can just rattle off all the scriptures, but I know the words. I know the words that are coming off the pages.
Speaker 2Yes, that's how I am too, and so think about that.
Faith Gives Leaders Strength
Speaker 1If the scripture is teaching us to be still and know that he's got everything in control. Because think is there's such a spirit amongst us right now that has incited a lot of fear, a lot of anxiety, and people are, quite frankly, preferring to just shut in, lock the door, close it up, which worries me Because you think about 2020, that is exactly where people got feel called to a mission of doing. It's time for us to get on that mission and do, and I think where we were starting to talk before I press record foolishly, but I won't do that again is understanding. Part of the assignment is to lean into the surrender of what's already there. So I break that down one more level.
Speaker 1I find that I get in my own way. I am drawn to an assignment, I can see it and then the thinking comes in and I start overthinking, out thinking and just messing that thing up. And you know what the root of it is. It's comparison. It's when I'm listening to XYZ conversation well, they do these 10 things and I listen to me and I'm like, well, you laugh crazy all the things. And what is really hitting my heart is let that go. I am uniquely and perfectly made for this season and for this work, and what's going to make this the beautiful work that God intended it to be is when I let go. The book of me has already been written. I've already had these experience, I've already been exposed to these things, and while I thought it was intended to have me do a thing, it was to have me do a thing, but it's a different thing than what I thought it was intended to have me do.
Speaker 2Girl, listen you preaching too. Let me tell you something Anytime I start to get in the mindset of why me, I then ask God to get in the mindset of why me. I then ask God, please, god, use me. So replace the why me with use me.
Speaker 1Use me ooh.
Speaker 2Seriously like why me God? How about?
Speaker 1this Use me God.
Speaker 2Use me God, yes, and the using the utilization like this is why you gotta go back to like Ruth Mary.
Speaker 1Esther.
Speaker 2Joe.
Speaker 1Yes.
Speaker 2Yes, read the. I mean, and I don't want to turn this into, but I'm telling you, like this is good, this is whatever lanes girl.
Speaker 1There are lanes and I'm clear on them. There's leadership, there's networks, there's faith and family. Then there's the, the self-care, mind, body and soul. I'm clear on.
Speaker 2Those are the four lanes so as long as it's in one of them four lanes, you're getting it good, okay, good, thank you for that, because because one of the things that faith gives me and let's just for the for the purpose of your audience this is why I love faith, because it gives those who see themselves let me not say themselves, because you know, when you know those who see themselves or know that they were put on this earth to be leaders, faith gives us the strength to move forward, even when the path isn't fully visible. I'll say that again, because with leadership sometimes we kind of put ourselves on this like pedestal. Like you know well, it's easy for the people that just you know have to tell, have to be told what to do, but for leaders, and it is.
Speaker 1Leadership is not easy.
Speaker 2And it is very lonely and very thankless. But when you operate as a leader, with faith, I promise you it will provide you the strength to move forward, even when that path isn't visible, it seems shaky, it seems uncertain, because that's what's gotten me through yes, no, I'm a single woman when I say single, I don't mean in terms of I'm lonely, I'm just like. You know, I'm not. Yes, romantic, monogamous, you know, committed relationship so with all that.
Speaker 2A lot of times, you know, people say do you ever get lonely? I mean, you know, after a long trip, when I come home, it would be nice to have sometimes, but that's where then I know that God has already promised me yes, and he knows exactly what's best for me, and he knows where I'm at right now, what I can and what I can't receive, because a lot of us got to stop praying for stuff that we ain't ready to receive yet.
Speaker 1That part, that part, that part. Yes, it is those doors shutting, it is those no's, and it is the right timing. It is the right timing I love that you pointed that out, because somebody needs to be reminded of that because they're spending so much time asking for the same thing over and over and over and over again that they are missing all the time on the thing that they could have been progressing and moving forward and, quite frankly, the space was being made for them to do it.
Speaker 2You just laid out the blueprint Chantra. What you just said if you're listening to this podcast, hit pause, hit rewind, because that right there was a mic drop. Let me tell you something. You know it's summertime, yes, so there's a lot of stuff going on. There's a lot of events, signature events, and you'll have people that man, how come I wasn't invited?
Speaker 1or I need to be there.
Speaker 2Yes, something else I've adopted as it relates to peace and faith and the power of that. I know without a doubt, even when I reflect on God's grace and the favor and the blessings I know. Anytime I'm somewhere, it is exactly where I'm supposed to be, because I've already prayed, I've already manifested, I've already did my daily devotion and I trust God. Yes, so, wherever I'm supposed to be, because, remember, I start my day off saying something amazing is going to happen today.
Speaker 1Yes, yes.
Speaker 2It doesn't have to be this. You know, magnanimous like I'm not looking to go to a convenience store and scratch off and win a million dollars. Now, if that did happen, I wouldn't be mad. I'm with you. You know what I'm saying, but I'm saying like, wherever I'm supposed to be, I'm going to be. So if I'm not necessarily invited to a certain event. That is like you know the.
Speaker 1It's okay because it wasn't part of the plan.
Authentic Networking vs. Chasing Connections
Speaker 2Cause I'm telling you right now you talk about doors opening and closing, when you trust and just let go, like you mentioned, just trust. There have been some doors shot for pal that I have been invited to and it was so. When they tell you when, when you hear that it is so true that have been beyond my imagination and came, when I tell, when the phone rang, you know like hello, this is Denise, and it's just like yes, I'm here, yes, I'm here, yes, and you hang up and that just happened. You're like what was that? And then you know, because if I was too busy trying to create and put myself in rooms that I naturally wasn't invited to be in, and then I, then I'm exhausted and I feel by myself saying you know, it really wasn't worth, the juice was not worth it, the juice was not working. What?
Speaker 1But, denise, okay, so we've got to go here because early on in career season I can remember the heavy emphasis that was on get your networking list network with all the people, line them out, lay them out. And while I do believe networks are important and it's important to put yourself in a situation to meet and develop and grow, I do believe that the overachievement of that act oh yeah.
Speaker 1Ooh yeah, makes you down pathways that are wasteful, because, to your point in that story, if you are ordered and you're praying to be ordered and you're praying to be clear thinking, you're going to be exactly where you're intended to be talking to, who you're going to talk to. And the only other thing that I would point out again as it relates to that, is think of those moments where you are in a networking environment. There are two types of people that go to those environments. They're the ones who go with the pre-read list of who's there and they walking around trying to figure out and they got their handy dandy script and all the things right, and I know that this is taught by so many people. And so please continue to do you and do you right. But what I'm going to share, my learning on the back end of this, the people and experiences that were the most useful for me, was when I gave a yes, I showed up as myself.
Speaker 2Yes.
Speaker 1And then I allowed myself to be in an experience and go through the experience naturally and organically. So that means I'm not chasing who else to talk to next. I'm sitting in this Retracting Ret're attracting, I'm attracting, and whoever I'm attracting, I'm believing that that's who I'm intended to get to know, and spend time with no assumptions, no expectations, no overdoing the thing. Some people overdo the thing. I try not to overdo the thing, but just allowing To me, what you're saying is exactly right there.
Speaker 2Can we just pause for a second For those that are listening again? Chantra just dropped the blueprint on networking, so you may want to pause, bookmark this timestamp and go back to where she just left off. Over and over again. Because, seriously, if you don't have that, mindset that you just so eloquently laid out for us. You know they say networking is just one letter away from not working, and so what you just described are the two ways of whether it's going to work or whether it's not. And here's the thing.
Speaker 1I love that.
Speaker 2To be fully, you know. Thank you To be fully transparent, Chantra. I believe in networking, yes, and quite frankly, I pretty much am the queen of it. That's one of my gifts.
Speaker 1It's natural, though it's natural, I've watched you, yes.
Speaker 2It's natural, I mean, here's the thing, though Sometimes, in order to elevate, you have to separate, and so my elevation has has assigned me to get to where what you just described, because 80% of my networking like when I did it, it was all about titles, yes, versus spirits and integrity. You know like, oh, I got to meet with this.
Speaker 2But I was just like what you said the list and the script, and you know it's a great way to bond, it's a great way to connect, it's a great way to adopt mentors and coaches. However, there will come a time in your life and that's not for me or you described to your audience but there will come a time where you've got to take a time out and ask yourself why am I doing this? And when I go into this room, am I appreciating who I am, exactly who I am as I am, as I? I walk into this room and will I go into this room chasing or will I go into this room attracting? Hello Boom, am I going into this room to chase or am I going into this room to attract? And that right, there is a principle that I've applied in any relationship, because, at the age of 49, yeah, chandra, I'm too old, looking, looking, 19, but all good, thank you, you know, like our women of our age and everything we've been, through and we've overcome us.
Speaker 2It's like, hey, I've got a networking opportunity like you can miss me with that, because I'm all about now Now being in rooms where, when I walk in, people light up, people make me feel like I belong there and I'm valued. Quit breaking your neck. That's what's wrong, actually, with a lot of us. I love this conversation and you know what I got to wrap up in about four minutes. We're going to have a part two. Yes, we will have a part two.
Fit vs. Force: Finding Your Place
Speaker 2I don't know if you're gonna use this as content or not, but here's the, here's the crazy part. I'm dropping this tomorrow, sis, tomorrow tomorrow.
Speaker 1This is dropping, so when the people hear this, they're gonna see this, they're gonna see. She said real time. This was a catch-up call that ended up being podcast today because the people need to hear this. I believe that this is good and it's ready to be dropped on good soil. People need to hear this. Yes, okay, give it, give it to us.
Speaker 2So, really quick to finish this thought. And again, chanterelle, god bless you for this because, again, your your kindness and your, in addition to your kindness, your your level of responsibility, because a lot of people need to revisit the definition of that word. But anywho, you know there's got to come a point in your life where, if you're doing things that are exhausting, that is your body telling you this is not part of you know the energy, the sync. So you've got to tell yourself am I going into rooms where, whether they know me or not, they're going to value my presence?
Speaker 2Yes, there was a saying I think it was shirley chisholm, the first black person to run for president. Yes, you know, there's that saying where you know, um and I'm totally messing this up but if you don't have a seat at the table, bring a folding chair. Yes, I agree with that to a certain extent, because nowadays I'm okay with you. Let me say it differently I'm okay with me bringing a folding chair, but that seat at the table better put some respect on it, that part, because I'm no longer walking in rooms where I have to convince someone.
Speaker 1That part. So this is where this will have to wrap, because this is a whole other part too.
Speaker 1I want to unpack that because I call it fit, right and versus force, and I think it's really important in the season of being our better selves that we get really clear on where we fit and when we're forcing on where we fit and when we're forcing because it's time out for the force, and that goes back to the networking approach. It goes back to accepting your gifts, all those things. How do I get really clear on where I fit and then show up and receive and be be?
Speaker 2We please let's have a part two.
Speaker 1There will be a part two for the people. If you want to hear part two, let us know.
Speaker 2No, so seriously, after. So, before this day is over, I'm going to send you dates for part two. Perfect, because we really got to unpack that in terms of I love that, are you? Are you? Are you in rooms where it's forced, or are you fitting those rooms Because I'm so done, like you know all this talk about? You know, if you're not invited, then you go to Honey. If I'm not invited.
Speaker 1Bye, y'all have fun.
Speaker 2Because y'all gonna miss me way before I miss y'all, but anyway, all right. I gotta go, chantre, I love you. Part two is coming out. Thank you, sis, love you. Thank you so much.
Speaker 1Yes, I love you. People are excited. I hear them. Yay, talk to you later, love, all right, bye.