Reflect Reclaim & Liberate - with Sallyanne Hartnell

5 Harsh Truths From a Divorce Coach That Might Actually Set You Free

Sallyanne Hartnell

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This episode isn't the easiest listen, but the key messages are important.

If you're navigating divorce, separation, or even just sitting with the question of what comes next, these five truths are the ones I see come up again and again with my clients. 

And I'm sharing them, not to make the process harder, but to stop you from making it longer than it needs to be.

Because it's rarely the divorce itself that keeps people stuck. It's the hope that something different is going to happen, when all the evidence suggests it won't.

In this episode I cover:

  • Why closure is something you create internally, not something "they" give you
  • How divorce changes so much, and what stays the same
  • What to do when you're healing faster than they are (and the guilt that comes with it)
  • Or, when they move on fast
  • What the need to be understood can cost you
  • The quiet grief of letting go of who you needed them to be

If one of these lands for you while you listen, pay attention to that data. That's usually where your work is.

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