Reflect Reclaim & Liberate - with Sallyanne Hartnell
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Reflect Reclaim & Liberate - with Sallyanne Hartnell
The Quiet Cost Of Quitting On Yourself
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There's a pattern that shows up across almost every stage of the divorce journey - in those questioning whether to stay or leave, those in the thick of it, and even those rebuilding on the other side.
It's a quiet, self-protective voice that whispers: what's the point?
In this episode, Sallyanne unpacks the psychology behind that voice:
- why we sacrifice our own hopes and dreams rather than risk disappointment, and
- what it actually costs us when we quit on ourselves before we even begin.
This one is for anyone who has ever let fear, apathy, or self-doubt talk them out of the life they know - on some level - is waiting for them.
In this episode:
- Why "not trying" feels safe but still carries its own grief and loss
- The role of ego and risk tolerance in keeping us stuck
- How we globalise, personalise, and make fear bigger than it needs to be
- Practical steps to break through the "why even bother" mindset
- How taking one small action can start to shift everything
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