High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm
Welcome to High Level Wife Podcast, where we reclaim our true identity as women, wives, and daughters of God. Hosted by Chelsey Holm, this podcast is all about living boldly, breaking free from limiting beliefs, and stepping into your God-given purpose.
Join Chelsey for authentic conversations on marriage, faith, and personal transformation. With real, unfiltered insights, powerful interviews, and actionable wisdom, this podcast will help you rise above the status quo and embrace the life God has uniquely designed for you.
If you're ready to shed the old, embrace your true calling, and walk confidently in the life and marriage you've always dreamed of—this is the space for you. Tune in and get empowered to live fully, authentically, and on purpose, according to God’s plan.
Episodes
346 episodes
Attention Shapes Affection: What You Notice Is Forming You
What has your attention right now?Because whatever consistently has your attention is shaping your heart.In this episode, we’re exploring one of the most powerful principles in spiritual formation: attention shapes affection. We’l...
The Principle of First: Why God Says “Seek First”
Why does God care so much about being first?Because whatever comes first shapes everything that follows.In this episode, we’re unpacking the biblical principle of first—from Genesis to Matthew 6—and discovering why seeking God fir...
FIRST: You’re Asking the Wrong Question
What if God isn’t withholding an answer… what if He’s building your foundation?So often we bring God questions about decisions, timelines, relationships, parenting, or the future, while He’s inviting us into something much deeper: seekin...
The First 15 Minutes of Your Day Reveal Your Real Lord
What you reach for first every morning reveals what is leading your heart. In this short episode, we’re talking about why right order isn’t a religious routine- it’s the foundation for daily surrender. If you’ve been feeling reactive, overwhelm...
The Blueprint: Marriage God’s Way
START HERE: Learn the Biblical Feminine Methodology.Go from carrying it all to freeFrom exhausted, stressed & overwhelmed to relaxed, present and flourishingFrom disconnected & hurt to deep intimacy and healing<...
You Can't Ask God to Bless What You Refuse to Bring Under His Authority
Communication isn't the deepest issue in most struggling marriages.Repentance is.In the final episode of this series, we're talking about the uncomfortable but freeing truth that transformation begins when we stop asking God to ch...
Right Order: The Foundation of a Flourishing Marriage
God is a God of order, and when our lives drift out of His design, we often experience unnecessary overwhelm, frustration, resentment, and exhaustion.In this episode, we're talking about what right order actually looks like in everyday l...
Abide: You Cannot Medicate Your Way Into the Fruit of the Spirit
Peace isn't something you buy. Joy isn't something you chase. Self-control isn't something you white-knuckle.They're all fruit.In this episode, we're diving into John 15 to discover what Jesus actually meant when He said, "Abide i...
You Don't Want Peace. You Want Relief.
What if the reason you keep feeling stuck isn't because you lack peace—but because you've been chasing relief instead?In this episode, we're unpacking the difference between temporary relief and the lasting peace that only Christ produce...
The Counterfeit Peace That’s Keeping Christian Wives Stuck
What do you reach for when life feels overwhelming?For some wives it’s scrolling. For others it’s shopping, food, busyness, wine, supplements, endless productivity, or simply staying distracted.This episode isn’t about condemning ...
The Modern Martha Wife: Anxious, Distracted, and Out of Order
Do you love Jesus, love your family, and still feel anxious, overwhelmed, overstimulated, and like you’re constantly carrying the weight of everyone else’s world?In this episode, we’re diving into the story of Martha and Mary in Luke 10—...
Naked and Unashamed: God’s Design for Intimacy, Oneness, and Mission
This vulnerability series isn’t ultimately about communication.It’s about the Gospel applied.In this episode, Chelsey Holm unpacks God’s design for intimacy through vulnerability—not just so couples can feel closer, but so they ca...
The Vulnerability Framework That Rebuilds Intimacy
You want to be vulnerable… but what do you actually say?In this episode, Chelsey gives you the practical framework to express hurt, loneliness, rejection, overwhelm, and disconnection in a way that creates intimacy instead of conflict.
Feminine Side of Vulnerability
Women often think they’re being vulnerable because they’re talking.Explaining.Processing.Venting.Sharing every detail.But sometimes all those words are keeping the real heart hidden.In t...
Masculine Side of Vulnerability
Learn how male vulnerability often shows up in unexpected ways—and how understanding the heart underneath your husband’s behavior can help rebuild intimacy, connection, and oneness.What if your husband is more vulnerable than ...
Why Vulnerability Feels So Hard…
Discover why vulnerability feels so difficult, what you’re actually protecting, and how trusting God allows you to move toward deeper intimacy, healing, and connection.If vulnerability is the pathway to intimacy, why is it so difficu...
Vulnerability Isn’t What You Think It Is
Discover why vulnerability isn’t sharing more information- it’s revealing what’s true, and why that is the foundation of intimacy, connection, and oneness.You can talk for hours and still feel disconnected.You can share yo...
When the Wounds Go Deep: Trusting God With the Places That Still Hurt
Some wounds didn't start in your marriage.They started years earlier.Childhood rejection, abandonment, criticism, betrayal, disappointment, neglect—and then marriage has a way of exposing what was already there.In this epis...
From Self-Protection to Oneness: 5 Ways to Tear Down Walls in Marriage
Learn the five shifts that help couples tear down walls, rebuild trust, and move from self-protection to true oneness in marriage. 🔥Most couples don’t wake up one day disconnected.The distance happens slowly.One hurt.&n...
When Your Past Keeps Interrupting Your Present
Have you ever found yourself reacting more strongly than a situation seems to warrant?Maybe it’s fear, frustration, anxiety, defensiveness, or discouragement. You know what God says, yet you still find yourself stuck in the same patterns...
Old Receipts When Your Past Keeps Interpreting Your Present
Learn how old receipts from your past may be shaping your present reactions—and how God uses surrender, renewal, and new experiences to rewrite the story and create lasting transformation.What if you’re not reacting to what’s happening r...
The Gas and Brake in Marriage: When You Want Connection but Your Body Wants Protection
Learn how to identify the subconscious self-protection keeping you stuck, surrender it to God, and move toward deeper intimacy, healing, and oneness in marriage.“I forgave… so why do I still react this way?”Many couples find thems...
The Opposite of Intimacy Isn’t Conflict: It’s Self-Protection
Most couples think conflict is what destroys intimacy.It’s not.Self-protection is.A husband jokes instead of admitting he feels rejected.A wife withdraws instead of admitting she feels hurt.One purs...
Reigniting Emotional Intimacy: From Blame to Oneness
Many couples think they have a communication problem when they actually have an ownership problem.When hurt, frustration, loneliness, and disappointment go unnamed, it's easy to fall into blame, defensiveness, criticism, and distance. Bu...
The Biblical Art & Practice of Remembering by the Spirit
It’s not challenging for our brains to remember all the times we were hurt. Why? It’s a self protection mechanism. But self protection and oneness cannot coexist. So the world says cut off what hurt you and forget about it! That’s not ...