High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm

Ep 7: Disrupt the Pattern! | 10 Ways You’re Destroying Your Marriage (And Don’t Even Know It)

Chelsey Holm Season 2 Episode 46

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 Most marriage problems aren’t “new.” They’re patterns. Cycles. Scripts. And if you don’t disrupt them intentionally, you will repeat them — and eventually pass them down. In this episode, Chelsey exposes why wives stay stuck in destructive cycles, how generational patterns show up in conflict, and what it takes to stop reacting and start walking in Spirit-led self-control. 

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I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."

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2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)
10+ years coaching experience
NASM-certified in Personal Training and Nutrition
Mom of 5, Army wife 16 years

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