Managing Dental Drama
Owning, operating, and managing a dental practice can be difficult and sometimes wrought with drama. Meet Dr. Kuba, a private practice owner, and Bethany, a dental consultant, who take real-life examples and talk through issues in an open, honest, and sometimes hilarious manner. Topics are relevant to current dental and employment trends and range from “The Art of Retaining Good Employees” to “The Marriage of Dentistry and Insurance Ending in Divorce” and everything in between. Each episode provides dental leaders with various tips and tricks as well as common mistakes to avoid. Enjoy the unscripted conversation between Dr. Kuba, Bethany, and various dental practice owners!
Managing Dental Drama
How to Get the Most Out of a Dental Conference
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A dental conference can be so incredibly exciting and ALSO so incredibly overwhelming. It is such an investment of time, money, and energy. So, it is critical to get an excellent return on your investment. In this episode, Bethany gives a specific strategy to ensure that every course attendee (includes ALL team members) gets the most out of the conference. In this episode, she tells course participants to set aside a couple of hours to organize course content into actionable items with specific timelines. If you have had or are going to a dental conference, this episode is a MUST listen!!
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Are you looking for a podcast where you
can hear from real people regarding
their real dental drama? If so, then
you've come to the right place. Join
hosts Bethany Penny and Dr. Reena Kuba
as we dive into the solutions we've
created and the mistakes we've made
while managing dental
drama. Let's get started. Happy Memorial
Day everybody. I hope you are enjoying a
wonderful day off to rest, relax, and of
course reflect on all that we have to be
thankful for. Speaking of all that we
have to be thankful for, I am coming off
of a few amazing days at the AAPD
conference. I met so many amazing people
and had such a fun time. I was lucky
enough to have my oldest daughter with
me who helped to get the word out about
the podcast and the subscription and it
was just so fun to be there and I had so
many great conversations and as I sat
and watched that exhibit hall floor I
thought of this subject for today
because a conference can be overwhelming
in so many ways. You're in good ways.
1:17
You're meeting new people. You're
1:20
interacting
1:21
with representatives and teachers and
1:25
trainers that you've never met before.
1:28
You might be hearing some repeated ideas
1:31
that you already knew but you were
1:33
reminded of. Or you might be hearing
1:35
brand new ideas and it can be
1:38
overwhelming.
1:40
But a conference or a CE course is such
1:44
an investment of not only money but time
1:48
and energy that you want to make sure
1:50
that when you come back from a
1:53
conference you are doing your very best
1:56
to get a good return on that investment
1:58
of time and money. So, I wanted to talk
2:01
about the subject matter today so that
2:03
those of you that I were was able to
2:05
meet at the AAPD conference, hopefully
2:08
this will help you to
2:11
really just focus in, just rein it all
2:14
in, focus and make some very practical
2:17
steps. And for those of you that were
2:20
not at the AAPD conference and are our
2:23
regular listeners, this is the season of
2:26
seminars and conferences and CE uh
2:30
spring through fall are kind of the big
2:32
the big months for all of those. So if
2:34
you've got a conference or a seminar on
2:37
your schedule, I hope these tips will
2:40
help you as well. So, I want you guys to
2:44
take a minute and get ready to focus
2:47
because I'm going to ask you to do
2:49
something that's very simple and yet is
2:52
going to take a little bit of your time.
2:54
I know you're just coming off of a
2:57
conference or for those of you who have
2:59
conferences scheduled in the future,
3:02
when you come home, you want to just
3:03
kind of get back to normal life and move
3:06
move forward. But I'm going to ask you
3:09
to invest just a little bit more time to
3:12
make sure that you really get a return
3:14
on your investment. So schedule some
3:17
time today, this
3:19
week. You probably need a couple hours
3:22
to do this activity and I think it's
3:25
going to be very very helpful for you.
3:28
So, what I want you to do is schedule
3:30
some time and then we are going to
3:32
organize the information that you
3:34
received into three categories. You're
3:38
going to go through these three
3:40
categories multiple times. Okay? This is
3:43
a way of prioritizing the information
3:46
that you received, but you're going to
3:49
prioritize it by what's most important.
3:52
Second, third, fourth. You're going to
3:54
get through all of these things, but I
3:57
want you to really rein it in to
4:00
organize into three categories, okay?
4:04
And of course, they're alliterated to
4:06
make it easy for you, but you are going
4:09
to organize the information that you've
4:11
received into.
4:14
Tip is the first
4:17
category. Tool is the second
4:22
category. Touch point is the third
4:25
category. Okay? So, tip, tool, touch
4:30
point. You're going to bring all of your
4:33
notes, all the information that you
4:35
received either via u powerpoints or
4:39
notes that you received. You're going to
4:42
take your exhibit hall bag and you're
4:44
going to pull all the information out of
4:47
that. I would recommend laying
4:50
everything out into one space. That
4:52
could be your living room floor, that
4:54
could be your kitchen table, that could
4:55
be your office desk, but you're going to
4:58
lay it all out. And I want you do to do
5:01
a brief overview of everything. As
5:03
you've got it all laid out on your
5:05
kitchen table, you're just scanning and
5:07
you're trying to remember from your
5:10
notes or from the handout or from the
5:13
exhibit hall. You're just browsing
5:15
through everything again. And you want
5:19
to start to organize it into kind of
5:22
your top category, your middle category,
5:25
and your last category. So when you do
5:28
your first sweep through, you may be
5:30
looking at notes that you took from your
5:33
seminar from one of the classes that you
5:35
were in and you are scanning back over
5:39
your notes or scanning back over that
5:40
handout, you need to have a highlighter
5:42
in hand and you're just highlighting in
5:46
a certain color the things that really
5:48
stood out to you. It may have been one
5:52
treatment presentation technique that
5:54
you were like, "Oo, that was really
5:55
good." Okay, go back to that that slide
5:58
on your handouts or go back to that note
6:01
that you took and highlight that. Okay,
6:03
so you're going back through your notes,
6:04
highlighting the most important things.
6:07
You're going through the stuff from your
6:09
exhibit hall and you're pulling out the
6:11
flyers or the name of the company that
6:14
you knew you were interested in and
6:16
you're organizing that into a pile.
6:19
Honestly, I would take the tangible
6:22
piles of things and put it into your
6:25
most important category.
6:27
Okay, the notes that you have, they're
6:30
the most important category should be
6:32
highlighted in a certain color. So maybe
6:34
that's blue. Maybe that's your favorite
6:35
color. You're like, "Okay, these are my
6:37
most important notes." So organize your
6:40
notes with highlight and organize the
6:42
things from the exhibit hall into a top
6:45
priority pile.
6:48
Then you're going to go back through and
6:50
you're going to do the same thing into
6:52
your second most important pile. Okay?
6:55
So maybe you've got an orange
6:56
highlighter. This time you're going back
6:58
through your notes. You're highlighting
7:00
things that were still important but
7:01
maybe not as important as the first
7:03
things you highlighted. And you're
7:04
highlighting those in orange. And then
7:07
you're going back through all of your
7:08
exhibit hall things and you're all the
7:10
samples that you got and you're
7:11
prioritizing those into a second
7:14
category, your medium priority category.
7:17
Then you're going to go back through one
7:20
last time. You're going to do this three
7:22
times. And maybe you take a yellow
7:23
highlighter this time and you're
7:25
highlighting the third most important
7:27
things from your notes or from your
7:28
handouts from the classes. You're
7:30
highlighting those in yellow. You're
7:32
going through your exhibit hall items
7:34
and you're putting those into a pile.
7:37
You're literally taking the cards and
7:39
putting those into a pile for your third
7:42
category.
7:44
Now, at this point, you have a high
7:48
priority pile or highlight. You have a
7:50
medium priority pile or highlight. And
7:52
you have a low priority pile or
7:55
highlight. Everything at this point
7:57
should be organized into one of three
8:01
piles or one of three highlights. Okay.
8:05
What we're going to do is we're going to
8:07
take that third category and we're going
8:11
to act like it never existed. It's low
8:14
priority. Chances are we're never going
8:16
to get to those things. So, you can take
8:19
your uh yellow highlights and you can
8:21
completely ignore them. You can take
8:24
your pile from the exhibit hall that was
8:26
third priority, the lowest priority. You
8:29
can gather all that stuff up and throw
8:31
it away. And then we are going to do our
8:34
hard work in those top two categories.
8:37
Okay? Starting with your top category.
8:40
That was the blue highlight and your
8:43
first priority from the exhibit hall.
8:45
You're going to go back through these
8:47
items and you're going to arrange them
8:49
into those three categories. A tip, a
8:55
tool, and a touch point. Let's talk
8:58
about those three. A tip is some kind of
9:02
information that you gained, some kind
9:05
of technique that you might want to try
9:07
in your practice. That could be
9:10
something clinically that just captured
9:12
your attention and you're like, "Ooh, I
9:14
really want to try that technique." Uh
9:18
maybe you went all in and bought a laser
9:22
at the conference and you're like,
9:23
"Okay, that's my obviously my top
9:25
priority. that is a tip that I really
9:28
want to incorporate into the practice.
9:31
So, let me figure out now how I'm going
9:33
to do that. Maybe it's not something
9:36
huge like that. It could be that you
9:38
were in a insurance class and you
9:42
learned a narrative that works really
9:45
well and you want to try that narrative
9:48
in your next batch of claims. Okay, then
9:50
prioritize that. It's some type of
9:53
practical technique that you want to now
9:56
apply into your practice or onto your
9:59
team. Okay, so that's
10:01
tip. The second thing is a tool. a tool.
10:06
And one of the great things about not
10:09
only the exhibit hall, but even the
10:10
seminars that you sit in, sometimes they
10:13
are promoting a
10:18
particular fluoride varnish or proy
10:21
paste or proy angle or maybe it's a
10:27
website design that can be a tool that's
10:30
in your hands now to utilize. It could
10:32
be that you saw a I heard about a remote
10:37
business
10:39
team business that you were interested
10:41
in and you've had trouble staffing and
10:43
so that's a tool that you could really
10:45
use in your practice. So, the tool is
10:48
some something tangible, some kind
10:52
of need that you know you have or maybe
10:56
you didn't even know that you had until
10:57
you heard that seminar seminar or
11:00
entered that exhibit hall or as you were
11:02
sitting and having lunch with a random
11:04
stranger, you learned about something
11:05
that they use that you think would be
11:08
very helpful. So, tool is your second
11:12
category. Touch point is your third
11:15
category. touch point is somebody at the
11:18
conference that you met. Um maybe it was
11:21
a speaker that you heard and you were
11:23
able to ask him or her some questions
11:25
afterwards and it was a great touch
11:27
point and you want to uh foster that
11:31
relationship or or even just thank them
11:33
for the information that they provided
11:35
in their class. Maybe it was somebody
11:37
that you met randomly in one of your
11:40
classes and they were a really great
11:42
resource of information and you were
11:44
able to collect their contact
11:46
information. Maybe it was somebody in
11:48
the exhibit hall that you met that was a
11:50
wealth of information or you had a great
11:54
conversation but didn't get to finish
11:55
it. So a person a touch point is related
11:59
to a person. So tip is some kind of
12:02
practical implementation. A tool is a
12:05
tool, something that you want to bring
12:08
into your practice, whether it's
12:11
technology, an actual piece of
12:13
equipment, or um some type
12:17
of service product out there. And then a
12:20
touch point is a person that you'd like
12:23
to either thank or continue the
12:25
conversation with. Okay, so those are
12:27
your three categories. Now you're going
12:29
to go through your high priority pile
12:32
and your medium priority pile and you're
12:35
going to organize into those three
12:37
things. Which things in your top
12:41
priority pile are tip related, which
12:45
ones are tool related, and which ones
12:48
are touchpoint related. So within that
12:51
top pile, you're going to organize those
12:53
into three smaller piles. Okay? And then
12:57
you'll do the same thing for your medium
12:59
priority list of things. You're going to
13:02
organize them into tip, tool, and touch
13:04
point. Now you'll shift back over and
13:07
you're going to go to your high priority
13:09
pile. And you are going to go to your
13:12
tip category first. Within that tip
13:17
category, I want you to organize those
13:20
tips from top to bottom. What if you
13:23
could only pick one tip that you would
13:25
take away from that high priority tip
13:28
pile? What would it be? What's the
13:30
second most important thing, third most
13:32
important thing, etc. Okay, so within
13:35
your high priority pile, you're now
13:38
looking at your tip pile and you're
13:40
organizing those from one to 50. I don't
13:44
care how many you have. You're going to
13:46
organize them top to bottom. You're
13:48
going to do the same thing with the tool
13:50
category. You're going to organize those
13:52
from the most important tool to the
13:55
least important tool. And then same
13:57
thing with your touch point. All of
13:59
these do not have to have the same
14:01
amount in them. You might have six tips.
14:04
You might have two tools and you might
14:07
have four touch points and that's
14:09
totally okay. Or you might
14:12
have 19 tips and four tools and two
14:16
touch points and that's okay. So these
14:18
don't have to be even. You're just
14:20
organizing them into what's most
14:22
important. You'll do the same thing for
14:25
your medium priority pile. You'll go to
14:27
your tips organized from 1 to 10. Your
14:30
tools organized from 1 to 10 or 1 to 20,
14:33
whatever. And then your touch points.
14:35
Then you go and your focus is going to
14:38
be in that high priority
14:41
pile. You're going to put a timeline to
14:44
each of those things. So, you're going
14:47
to look at your tips and go,
14:49
practically, how long might it take for
14:52
me to implement tip number one? And then
14:56
you set yourself a
14:57
deadline. Practically, how long is it
15:00
going to take for me to implement tip
15:01
number two? And then once again, you set
15:03
yourself a deadline. I would say you
15:05
want to really balance those deadlines.
15:08
If you set them too far into the future,
15:10
you're never going to get it done. If
15:12
you set them too soon, you're going to
15:14
get frustrated because you're never
15:16
accomplishing things. So, it depends on
15:19
the tip, but most times you want to aim
15:21
for 1 to 3 weeks is usually a reasonable
15:25
timeline, but not everything can have
15:27
the same timeline. Keep in mind, you
15:29
organize these into 1 to 10 for a
15:31
reason. So, tip number one might have a
15:35
1 to 3 week timeline, but tip number two
15:38
might have a 2 to 5 week timeline. Tip
15:40
number three might have a 4 to six week
15:42
timeline. So you want to lengthen it as
15:45
you go down the list. You'll do the same
15:48
thing for the tool. And then you'll also
15:51
do the same thing for the touch point.
15:52
Now sometimes the touch point can have a
15:54
shorter timeline. You might uh realize
15:58
that it's a just a quick email that you
16:00
want to send or you want to arrange a
16:03
lunch date with this person or whatever
16:05
the case may be. Sometimes that touch
16:07
point is an easier technique that you
16:10
can get done or an easier task that you
16:12
can get done. Um, so you'll organize
16:15
your high priority into that 1 to 10 and
16:18
you'll set deadlines and then you'll do
16:19
the same thing with the moderate
16:21
category. If when you get to the end of
16:24
your high
16:25
priority tips, tools, and touch points,
16:28
you're like, "Oh my gosh, this is enough
16:31
to get me through the next 6 months."
16:33
Then just gather up all your medium
16:35
priorities and get to it later. There's
16:37
no rush on that. You'll get to it, but
16:40
keep it in an organized folder, either
16:42
an electronic folder or a actual folder
16:46
and put it all together and make
16:49
yourself a deadline 6 months from now.
16:51
We're going to come back around to this
16:52
in November and I'm going to re-evaluate
16:55
my medium priority. If your high
16:57
priority is only two or three things
16:59
that you wanted to implement, then
17:01
absolutely do the same level of
17:02
organization with your medium category.
17:05
The main thing is you do need to give
17:07
yourself time to get through this
17:10
activity. Don't rush through it. Going
17:13
back and looking at all the information
17:16
that you absorbed over these last few
17:18
days is critical to retaining that
17:21
information. If you just drop back into
17:25
busy life and don't go back and really
17:28
reflect and think through things, you're
17:30
going to lose a lot of what you learned
17:32
during these few days. So, it is highly
17:37
important that you give yourself the
17:39
time to do this organizational activity.
17:41
Okay. So, for those of you at the AAPD,
17:45
hopefully these will be some good
17:46
organizational tips to kind of get
17:48
through. For those of you that went to
17:51
the TAPD or you've got some other
17:53
conferences coming up this summer, go
17:55
ahead and plan your time. Uh when you
17:58
come back from the conference, you're
17:59
like, "Okay, I get back from the
18:01
conference on Saturday. I'm going to
18:03
plan from noon to 2 on Sunday to go
18:06
through and organize or I'm going to
18:08
give myself a few days and on Wednesday
18:10
I'm going to extend my lunch and I'm
18:12
going to organize it all." Then you can
18:15
encourage your team members. Uh this is
18:17
not just for doctors and and providers.
18:20
This is for everybody that attended the
18:23
conference. In fact, it's almost more
18:25
important team members for you guys to
18:27
do this because your doctor or your
18:30
practice invested in you. So make sure
18:33
that you're really bringing back some
18:35
great information. Okay. Now, I do want
18:38
to talk to our guests that met us at the
18:42
AAPD. We have a fantastic AAPD special
18:47
that is still going on through the end
18:50
of this week. So, it's Memorial Day
18:52
today. On Saturday is when this offer
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expires. So, this is for um anybody that
18:59
we met at the AAPD conference. And fun
19:02
fact for our listeners, we can't tell if
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So, you can get on this in on this
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amazing people that I had the
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