Coffee With Hilary and Les from State of Mind Hypnosis and Training Centre

Channeling In Daily Life: Learning To Trust Yourself: Part 2

Hilary & Les Season 4 Episode 38

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We explore how to trust guidance, read synchronicities without forcing meaning, and keep your choices sovereign while inviting help. Stories of art, cards, cars, and quiet impulses show how welcome and wonder strengthen the signal and turn doubt into practice.

• weather and moving chat that sets a grounded tone
• what channeling is and how trust powers it
• noticing inspired thoughts vs habitual mind chatter
• the Spirit Bear art and matching tarot card moment
• rethinking coincidence through probability and intention
• using wonder and welcome to invite guidance
• asking better questions that preserve choice
• listening practices, journaling, and reading back
• real-world signs: tires, license plates, and savings
• forms guides can take and why they never coerce


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Weather, Moves, And Mud Season

SPEAKER_04

We are on the line.

SPEAKER_01

We're gonna get rain, the first time in a long time that the sky is gonna send water down, and then it isn't frozen. It's gonna be just water. And we've already lost a fair bit of snow. Like, not but there's still lots of snow, but there was lots and lots of snow. So now there's lots of snow. But today I think the rain's gonna start. It's supposed to rain hard for a couple of days. Yeah. And I think then suddenly the page will be turned and it will be spring.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah. In the chat, it is gonna get muddy. Absolutely. It's gonna be fun trying to keep the house clean for showings. Oh my gosh. Yeah, tomorrow, like 15 degrees. What is that? Yeah, out in our bikinis. Like you'll have to dig yourself.

SPEAKER_00

It's like a 30-degree buried.

Setting The Stage: Channeling And Trust

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, that's that's not huge. So as you can tell, this morning's a little slow. Uh oh, we're just getting our bearings together. But I wanted to talk, uh we're we're gonna continue our chat about uh channeling. And I wanted to talk a little bit, just for a few moments this morning about trust. So for anyone just joining, if you haven't listened to yesterday's podcast, we started the podcast talking about channeling and how channeling is this just a lesson add to this because my brain's a little fuzzy, but just this connection that we start building with our guidance system, our guides around us, the energy around us, sort of this one consciousness. And we can build that connection through writing, through some people speak channeling through cards when we pull Oracle or tarot cards through muscle testing, all kinds of different ways to develop channeling. But I think, and I said this yesterday, the biggest part of channeling is actually trusting what's coming through or what kind of synchronicities are happening in your life. Because if we didn't trust them, it would just be nothing, right? It would be, oh yeah, that was interesting. And it you you wouldn't feel that connection, maybe to what happened or what came through. Am I missing anything? I'm sure I'm missing lots of things.

Spotting Inspired Thoughts Versus Noise

Synchronicity As A Starting Point

SPEAKER_01

Well, I you know what I would repeat what I said yesterday, which is it's already happening. You already have dozens and dozens of thoughts or impulses during the day that seem to just come out of nowhere. Thoughts are like that. We do that to ourselves, and that's why we get confused if some of those thoughts are inspired or maybe they're they're a gift to us, because we go, Oh, is that me or was that you? I ask that question all the time. So I think that noticing thoughts is a great first step. I mean, you you don't have to make a commitment to becoming a channel or doing channeling per se, to just open your mind to the idea that you've had thoughts come to you. And the thoughts that are loving and supportive or curious or fun, thoughts that are inspirational, thoughts that might be unique or new, thoughts you haven't had before, thinking about things differently. I think these are all thoughts to pay attention to. You're still gonna have your subconscious mind chatter, it's still gonna chatter, you know, scary negative things to you. And and and it's important, I think, to distinguish those kinds of thoughts because they're the kinds of thoughts that you can say that they don't even come from you, they come from somebody else in your past who has put them there in this world. So thoughts about fear or concern or judgment or anger, these kinds of thoughts are really sort of self-generated and they really come from our programming. It's good to notice them because you might not want them and you might not want to continue to engage those kinds of thoughts, and you might actually engage the idea that I'm not my thoughts, I'm the thinker. And so just the process or the practice of now being aware of your thoughts and noticing that there are thoughts that are different than those habitual thoughts, and they're really quite curious and they're quite supportive and they're impulsive in some ways. These are the kinds of thoughts that uh come from, as I called it yesterday, the team. And again, you don't have to do anything other than notice them in the beginning. Be aware of them, notice that, oh, I had this, I was driving down the street, and then I had this remembrance that I needed to go pick up my dry cleaning, and I was so happy that I remembered that. And maybe that was just you know a helper, you know. And so when these kinds of thoughts come to us, we can start to just be grateful for them, regardless of where they come from. And in being grateful for them, whether they're the positive thoughts that come out of your mind or the positive thoughts that come from your guidance team, you're gonna get more of them because you're gonna pay more attention to them and you're going to see them as warm and comfortable. And that's that's really a beginning. For those who are out there saying this is nuts, you know, I say, well, pay attention, conduct your own experiment. And if you find that some of this stuff is going on, then maybe there's more to this than you think there is. And for those who are already aware of that, and I think a lot of us are already aware that we get thoughts come to us from time to time that we don't think come from us. And they're loving and they're caring, forgiving, and they're encouraging, and they're supportive in all of those ways. That's the beginning of you recognizing and potentially engaging your team. So if we if we just start there, I think good things are gonna happen. And if we're already there, then I think what Hillary's gonna talk about, I think is really sort of some good steps towards getting there where you feel like you're now engaged in a collaborative effort moving forward in your life.

The Spirit Bear Art And Card Story

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, I think, I think for the most part, almost everybody can think of a time in their life when something, some sort of synchronicity happened, you know? Wow, if I didn't do that, which I wasn't gonna do, that wouldn't have happened. And that that happened, that was amazing. That changed my life. Just these little synchronicities. I mean, they can look like anything. And so that might not look like channeling at first, right? When we think about channeling, it's usually watching YouTube and you know, for us at least, watching YouTube, and there's these big channels that we talked about yesterday. Not channels of YouTube, but channels channeling on YouTube, people bringing through information from their guides, spirit, consciousness, whatever. So I wanted to share a little story just to give you context about like where channeling can start. And this happened to me recently, like in the last few days. And I think it's sort of a way of thinking about thinking about channeling not as spoken words or writing on paper, but just developing that connection with your guided system, your guides or oneness. And I think the biggest part to take from what I'm about to show you is just trust, right? Because I could have easily just fluffed it off as nothing and gone on through my day. So just to give you a little bit of background, just to give you a little bit of background, six years ago, before moving into the office downtown Lindsay, before even having an office, I was on Facebook and I saw this this beautiful piece of art, just this gorgeous piece of art. And it was just a print, but a big print. And it had like really amazing clouds moving through it and colors, and it was just just amazing. So anyway, I I immediately started to imagine this in my pretend office that we didn't have yet. And so I ordered the print and every day sort of imagined this in an office, and it sat in our in our in one of the rooms in our house. But the day that we got the office, it it was like the first thing to go through the door. And it was the most commented on thing in the office throughout the years. So I decided to make it a habit. Now, the habit is only on number two right now, but when we decided to move a few months ago, I thought, you know, I'm going to do the same sort of thing. I'm going to decide to buy a piece of art that I could imagine in wherever we're going. And I just know that that art is going to carry the energy of where we're going. And I know that we'll get there and there will be a wall exactly for that piece of art. And it's just going to make sense when that when I hang it. So I'm going to I'm going to show you. I'm going to share my screen and show you the piece of art that I that I bought. Um can you can you guys see that? Can you drop it in the chat if you can see it? Okay, perfect. So this is a piece of art. I've bought art from this woman before. I actually bought a piece from my mom a couple of years ago for Christmas. She does art like this, so painted art. And she also does these beautiful, like, I don't know, like uh sculptures, sculptures of of fairy type, like medicine women, small sculptures. So I bought one from my mom a couple years ago. But anyway, she uploaded this on Facebook, and immediately when I saw it, I thought that's the piece. The name of this piece of art that she named it is called Spirit There. And I just I just love it. You can feel the energy off of it, right? And so I've got it, you know, I didn't want to tuck it away until we get to wherever we're going. So I've sort of got it out in our in our kitchen area. Yeah, I'll I'll get you the name of the artist. I won't do it just right now, but I'll I'll do it. Absolutely. I'm just gonna write that down. Okay. So the other day I was at yoga with a couple girlfriends of mine. And in this yoga, in this particular yoga class, we pull cards at the end of the class. And it was actually a really nice class because we also burned, like we wrote something that we want to let go into the universe, and we burned it in a little cauldron after yoga. So I burned something that said house selling, just to let it go. And then I pulled the cards in terms of letting go of the house. Like that was my intention, selling the house. So I'm gonna share the cards that I got. Okay. So what do you guys notice as the conclusion of these cards, if they're read left to right, right? There's the spirit bear. Now I could have easily, easily just said, meh, okay, well, that's nice. But I immediately made the connection that that was sort of a conclusive card. Yeah, and I always I get the world a lot. And so I found this just amazing. And the feeling of connection to my guides just grew a little stronger that day. And I held that and I and I want to keep holding that because sometimes, yeah, sometimes it feels like who's out there? Who's taking care of me? Is there any you know there's any energy around me that's supporting me? And this was just really felt supportive. So the big takeaway from this, besides the beauty of the art and the card and all that, is trusting what comes through, trusting synchronicities. So yeah, does anyone anyone have any questions along the way? Just drop it in the chat. Well, I'll go, I'll go back to the the spirit bear painting, actually. Just so I remember to drop the artist in the chat afterwards.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. So that's the fun part of coming to be part of the uh the podcast is you get the whole multimedia experience.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, I guess for people listening, they're pointing, they're probably like, what?

SPEAKER_01

Well, they can find the pictures on the school.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah.

Beyond Coincidence: Probability And Mind

Wonder And Welcome As Practices

SPEAKER_01

There's a there's a concept that exists in the world that I have never understood. My whole of my life, I've always thought that's a silly way of looking at things. I've always thought it was mathematically illogical. And it's the concept of coincidence. You know, I consider you know probabilities. Probabilities were one of my favorite things to do in math. It sounds silly, but it was fun to me. And probabilities are about, you know, the chances of a chance, right? What are the chances of a chance? I have a one in 52 chance of pulling the ace of diamonds out of the deck of cards. One in 52. But that's to me not a really accurate way of looking at it. Because I'm likely going to pick my card out of the middle, right? I'm likely going to put no intention whatsoever in picking that card. So my chances are really not one in 52, but they're a lot more fluid than that. They're not so mathematical. We have been conducting experiments in the last five years with random number generators and putting meditators in the room with random number generators. A random number generator is going to pick a zero or a one, and it's going to do it continuously. And so the probability is that we'll pick one just as often as it will pick zero if it's truly random. And so these random number generators, and I'm not sure if you can really create a random number generator because you're still putting into the machine, right, cut parameters through which it should choose. But anyway, they take these random number generators that are generally choosing zero 50% of the time and 150% of the time, they put meditators in the room, and the meditators try to make it pick one number, pick the number one, let's say, or pick the number zero more. And then you turn on the machine and you let the people go, and after 10 minutes, you know, a significant change in the randomness of the numbers happens. It is, for all intents and purposes, within the system that we use today, would be called scientific proof that thought can affect the outcome. And this is really consistent with modern, you know, quantum physics theory, that the collapsing of the field of something that we would have called before reality is affected by thought. And we're only now just uh thinking of thought and the mind as being more of a collective thing and more of a field, right? So that you can start to look at all of the things that take place in the world that are very, very consistent. You can ask yourself, well, is that only happening because we all agree? Right. And so for me, you know, I think of things like gravity that way. We all have such absolute trust in gravity, right? We all have such absolute trust in the physicality of the floor. We never get up and wonder, am I going to float off the floor or am I going to sink through the floor? This is just what we expect. And is it possible then if I can use a random number generator in a group of people to change the randomness of the numbers? How can I, using the same ideas in quantum physics, not believe that gravity is only gravity because everybody believes in it and that things actually change over time? You know, people talk about the the Mandela effect and things like that. But we have we all have had experiences where our reality seems to go through shifts. They talk about an idea having met its time, an idea has reached its time and it's it's happened all over the place. There's people who talk about the the hundredth monkey, right? That idea that when when enough, you know, like the example used is that monkeys never used to wash their food. And then monkeys started to wash their food, and then other monkeys saw that and started to wash their food. And pretty soon all the monkeys in that group were washing their food, and at the same time, all around the world, monkeys started washing food, and that an idea comes. The whole idea of quantum physics was going on all around the world at the time that it was really our mind was giving birth to it. And different scientists not talking to each other were coming up with similar ideas, ideas of the quantum, ideas of the non-physical of physics. You know, an idea has its time. And to go back to my point, my point is that of all the unlimited possibilities to happen, unlimited possibility, right? Like we're talking about trillions and trillions of possibilities to happen in a moment and two things happen at the same time is mathematically impossible. And so when people say, well, it was just a coincidence and they want to dismiss it, I think, are you nuts? Like, don't you understand math? Don't you understand that the world is being created by your mind? And when you believe in something, it is, and when you don't believe in something, it isn't. And when you are making up your mind that you want to create something in your future and it happens, and then you want to call it a coincidence? I don't mean to be mean, but I think, are you nuts? Like, like, how is that possible in the trillions of possibilities, right? The randomness of the world, how is that possible? Except that your mind has that kind of power and that we're proving it all around the world with new physics models, with new scientific models, that when you receive an idea, you know, any idea, take a left turn here, or make sure you buy coffee, or you know, whenever you receive an idea, that's just that's just the beauty of the mind at work. And if we collectively create our reality and we have all this evidence, like there's so much evidence that birth and deaths are not really beginnings and endings, right? And that we have so much help on a day-to-day basis to dismiss something as a coincidence, I think is illogical. I think it doesn't make sense to me if you really take the time to understand the world and understand mathematics, right? And so it's it's it to me is beginning to listen to that. Some people I've seen in a lot lately, people talking about signs. And you know, I I don't I I don't think they're coincident. You know, I didn't get a great sleep last night. Uh I got up this morning, and the first thing I thought when I got up is I hope Hillary's ready to run the podcast today. And she was. I don't think that's a coincidence. I think that there's something else going on. It's a miracle, and whether it's well, it is a miracle, it never happens. It's it's so random. But that the point that I'm trying to make is that we want to explain it. And so for me, I explain it and gives me peace to explain things because uh, you know, I I'm like everybody else, and I I live in a world that scares me a little bit. You know, I uh it might be my guides helping her guides, helping her. It might be her guides telling my guides, telling not to worry about it. It could be both, it could be an awareness of both of us not really having a very good night's sleep. And, you know, it could be just simply Hillary's decision, but to be honest with you, like I thought what she was talking about was so incredibly deep and well thought out. I don't think that's you know, just suddenly anyway. So to me, you know, trust, openness, paying attention, listening, which is the other thing I wanted to talk about today. Listening. If you embrace those, and I guess there's one more thing that comes to me from a channel. His name is Paul Sellick. He's a very meaningful teacher to me today. His guides are meaningful teachers to me. He's written a bunch of books. I'm still working my way through the first four. I just keep going through the first four over and over and over. I probably listened to them five, six times. But anyway, uh at one point in the book, they talk about two ideas that I try to use. The first idea is wonder. Not wonder as in, I wonder if it's going to rain today, but wonder as in, isn't the rain amazing? Isn't it amazing how water makes its way into the sky and then turns into drops and then falls back down? And as the mountains push up, the rain washes the mountains into the plains and the rivers flow and they all fill with life. And having wonder. I think that's an important part of this.

SPEAKER_04

Is wonder the same, what you say as curiosity, or is it something extra?

SPEAKER_01

I'm not using it that way right now.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

I'm not using it that way. I'm using wonder as in the the glorious nature of life, noticing the glorious nature of life. I think that that's important. I think it's important to recognize the signs. I think it's important to celebrate the spirit bears. I think it's it's beautiful to look at yourself and see how you think and how you desire to create and how some of that comes about and feel the wonder and the joy attached to that. I think wonder has an element of gratitude in it, has an element of joy in it. The second concept that they have taught me that I use now when I try to channel is the concept of welcome. None of us wants our friend showing up at our door, banging at the door, saying, Hey, let me tell you how you should be living. You know, it doesn't matter how much we love that friend. We doesn't matter if it's our spouse and we love them to bits, right? We don't want them saying, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, here's how you should be living. And in fact, that's that's a recipe for disaster. But it's the same with your guides. You can quickly and easily say to your friend, come on over. I want to talk to you about some stuff that's going on in my life. And they'll be there for you as quick as they can, and they're gonna listen and they're gonna offer you their thoughts, and they're gonna be a friend, and that's beautiful. And it's the same thing with your guides. You have to welcome them and they will come, but they have to be made welcome. You have to invite them, you have to ask them, and the more you ask, the more they'll they'll be there. And then your relationship, of course, will change with them, right? You meet a new person and you welcome them into your home for the first time, and they start to become friends. And pretty soon you've welcomed them into your home a hundred times, and they're important friends and they're deep friends, and that relationship grows and that relationship expands. So I think welcome, noticing, being aware, having some wonder, and then actively welcoming signs like that into your life. Saying, I want this, I want to feel like I'm living an inspired life, I want to feel like I can read the sign and I can act on the sign. And when you see the sign, just say thank you, and then follow it and then welcome more. Thank you for that. I'd love some more. You know, thank you for that, I'd love some more. And especially if you act on those signs, if you act on those inspirations, you're very definitely building the energy of hearing and acting. So I'll let Hillary talk before I go on.

Listening Beyond The Mind’s Chatter

SPEAKER_04

Or had a sign, a sign being like not a road sign, although it could be a road sign. A lot of people think of signs as a feather or a dime or something that leads you to just thinking, okay, yeah, maybe I'm supported in this. I think I mentioned this on the podcast a while ago, and I I know she won't mention she won't worry about me mentioning this, but we have a lovely friend that six years ago, can't believe it's been six years, we were sort of helping her look for a new car. And we we went to a dealership and uh was helping her look for a car. And then she was like, This is the car, definitely the car. I want this car, but I'm gonna think about it. I'm gonna ask my guards. And so she she walked away from the car. We thought she was gonna buy it that day, but she walked away from it, waiting for waiting for signs from her guides that this was the right thing to do. So I don't know. I'm just I'm gonna make up a couple things here. I'm gonna, you know, but just to make it just just so apparent what she was doing, because I can't remember the exact things. But let's say like she saw the next day, she saw, she saw a feather, like a big feather that she had asked for, like, show me a feather if if I'm meant to buy the car, you know, and then and then she saw the feather, but then she thought, well, I think I need another sign. I need another sign. And then she saw this is for sure, she saw a license plate that says like buy it or something. She she's in a lot of license plates when when she's asking for guidance. And literally the license plate said something like buy it. And then she's like, I don't know. I don't know. Like, I think I need another sign. So anyway, she goes, she goes, she eventually we're like, what are you doing? How many signs do you need? She bought the car, and while buying the car, she put her name in for a draw for a giant television. And she was like, when she put her name in, she's like, I'm gonna win that TV. Lo and behold, she won that TV. So anyway, you know, it's just it's really, really, really about trust. It really is. And just going with the signs. But I know how that is. You know, you ask for a sign, and let's say you ask for a feather, and then you're sitting on the couch, this happen this happens to me, and I look over, and maybe like one of the pillows, a feather has come out of the pillow or something, but it's a tiny feather, and I'm thinking, well, that's just a tiny feather, you know. I don't know if that's like a real sign from a woman. It's just a tiny one, you know. But yeah, so so in the chat we've got pulling the hermit card when we did the soul circle, it was telling me I am on a new path. Yeah, right. And you could have easily just said, interesting card, that's all right, and then disregarded it. But when we when we listen to the signs, when we start to listen to our guidance system, it can be so helpful, especially when we're making decisions. I know Les said the other day, kind of hilarious, really. I was talking about how I use I I've switched AI systems. And we were talking about that for a minute. And I use AI to like I ask about the business and how you know how would how would I do this if if I was doing that, and what might this look like? And so it can be helpful when you're when you're building your business. And you said Les had something like, Well, if you have AI, like shouldn't you be asking your guides as well, like how to run the business? And I was like, shut up. No, not really, but yeah, I should be asking my guides how to run the business.

SPEAKER_01

Well, I've I've reached a point where I believe now in this crazy world. I think I said this yesterday. In this crazy world, I don't know who to trust anymore. I don't know what information is real, I don't know what information is curated and brought to me. You know, I I opened up my newsfeed kind of the morning that Trump started his war, and there wasn't a hint of it in my news feed. And for me, I had to go looking for it. And I looked for it and then I found it, and then I looked for it some more and I found it. And now there's nothing but in my newsfeed. And so it's like information is being curated for you in a world that has a certain intention for you. And so it's hard to know what's news and what isn't news, what's meaningful, what isn't meaningful, what to trust and what not to trust. News is not written like it used to be with just the facts, it's now written as opinions, it's filled with opinion words. I find it really hard to decipher sometimes what's really going on in the world. And I use my own intellect, but now I also use my guides, who often I shouldn't say often, twice they've said to me, don't ask, it's too complicated. Twice. Don't ask. You're not gonna understand.

SPEAKER_04

I've had clients say when we go into life between and they're talking to their higher self, sometimes that comes through. Not like it's too comp well, like I guess kind of like it's too complicated, but they they come through the guidance system, the the over soul or the higher self or the one consciousness just says like for the human brain to try to understand and wrap its mind around this is just a bit much.

Writing, Sharing, And Keeping The Vibe

SPEAKER_01

So, you know, uh the other day I was talking to them about all kinds of stuff and uh and really about just how the world works and how things come about, and not too dissimilar from what I was just talking about. And uh at one point they said to me, you know, don't ask, just accept our answer. And then I asked, Well, what kind of mental vibrational state should I be striving for? And they said, That's the best question you've ever asked. And then they told me and they explained something to me that at first I didn't quite understand, and I had to go back and reread. And then when I read it to Hillary, I got really emotional. The point being that you can go from recognizing signs and acting on inspired ideas to all the way to conversation, specific questions seeking specific answers. And the hardest thing is that our own mind wants to jump in. Our own mind likes to solve the problem. Our own mind likes to think it's in control, our own mind likes to control things even when it doesn't know what it's talking about. You know, that little six-year-old, deep down in my subconscious mind, is in charge most of the time, and it's always got something to say. And uh our one of our friends who's with us today is going to remember this because we we had this conversation the other night. You need to be able to ask a question and listen for the answer. You have to be able to pause your own mind. And the example I use is when you ask a question that you have no idea of, right? No idea what the answer is. You've got no choice but to wait for an answer. Now, most of the time we think we have an answer, and that subconscious mind says, no, no, no, I know, I know, I know, let me tell you. And and you're going to get that kind of thing where ideas flow into you. And it's going to be sometimes hard to decipher and say, was that me or was that my guides? And there'll be that kind of question you might face now and again. But the thing to practice is how to wait for an answer. So the example I used with with our friend the other night is I said, Ask me where I was born. And she asked me, and I just sat there. And then she realized what I was talking about because she had to wait. Like she she couldn't make up an answer, she didn't have any information to rely on. She is nothing she could think out or think through. It was, here's a question, and I need an answer. And I can't move forward without the answer, right? So think about a question that you don't know the answer to. And you know, if if you were to ask me, what's the population of Zimbabwe?

SPEAKER_04

You probably don't.

Guides Offer Options, You Make Choices

SPEAKER_01

The point is you just gotta wait. Yeah, you just gotta wait and you just gotta listen, right? So think in terms of first of all, becoming aware that it's happening anyway. It's happening anyway, allowing yourself to trust it and act on it and see the benefits of that, and then engage it. Engage it with the joy of wonder, and in engaging it, invite them to be part of your life. Invite them to be a more active participant in the way you think. Trust what comes to you as from them, if it's loving and caring, and leaves the opportunity to choose with you, they're never gonna tell you what to do, but they're gonna point your attention in different places, right? If I say, should I buy a car, I don't know that I'm gonna get a good answer. If I say, I want to buy that car, will it work out well for me? I'm more likely to get an answer. So thinking in terms of they're not gonna take your choices away, because that's why you're here. It's why you came here to make choices within the situation that you find yourself, and then live those choices out and see what the results are. And don't feel bad about that because this is just one of a thousand lifetimes. You're gonna get lots of choices, they're not all gonna work out. Randomly speaking, they're not all gonna work out. Yeah, so yeah, and at that point, practice listening, put your attention somewhere. Uh, a lot of the people who teach this really encourage you to start with a pen in your hand, start with a book, write down the things that come to you. I'm at a place now where I don't know what to do because they talk way faster than I can write. And I'm going back and saying, tell me that again, and and I can I can, you know, even kind of hint, don't worry about writing it down. But I want to write it down. I want to write it down. I want to go back to it because my vibrational state is so different when I'm listening to them than it is when I'm living my life. Um, I'd like to make them the same. I'd like to raise them both up, but I'm you know, I'm just a human being right now and I'm I'm I'm struggling with that. But anyway, so think in terms of just practice and let the information come. And if the information is curious or kind of doesn't make sense, all the better, because it's much less likely that came from you than it came from them. Write it down and then go back and read it. And I think Sarah Landon talks about that is that it's good to read it, to share it with somebody. Have somebody that you can share it with that's really worth doing because that that will also bring your mind back to that vibration, and it'll actually make it a more of a learning experience for you.

SPEAKER_04

As we wrap up here, I do I do want to say this because it I think it's great. It's in the chat. It was to my question of have you had any synchronicities? And what came through was I do my best to tap into my guides anytime I'm unsure about a decision. And when I get out of my own head, they always lead me to the right decision. Even with buying tires for my car, and I went into Toyota to buy them, and as I stood in line, I just got a big no go to Canadian tire. So I did, and I got the tires I wanted and installed and a minor repair for half of what Toyota quoted. Sounds crazy, but it was definitely guided. Now I do want to ask you when you got that no go to Canadian tire. Do you remember if you had any little extra thoughts after that? Like, what are you thinking? You know, the the the critical part of part that is going, what is this? Or or were you just like you turned around and left? Did you have any thoughts of because absolutely like we get messages and they feel clear and then we start to doubt them, right? It was so clear, it was like a voice. So I just went, isn't that wonderful? That's amazing. I love that. It was like someone was standing behind me. Amazing. So yeah, I just I wanna put it out there that in the school today, if you're around, I'm actually holding a channeling workshop. And we're going to pull some cards together, we're gonna write together. You're just gonna learn little bits and pieces of how to trust, basically, how to connect with guides and energy. And I think it's gonna be a lot of fun. And I think Les should teach it too. Because he's really good at it. But if you want to come out, it's in the it's in the calendar. And I hope to see you both there. Yeah, it's in the calendar. And if you're listening to this after the fact, it will be a replay in I think I'm gonna put it in the Infinite Soul classroom as a replay. So anyway, any last thoughts or guidance on this?

Forms Of Guides And Closing Thoughts

SPEAKER_01

There was something in my mind there for a second. Obviously, it wasn't from me. Remember that you're a team, right? Remember that the I I believe that the highest level of success, in whatever terms that is, right? Success is nothing more than doing what you said you would do. And I think that that's really important because you s you made a plan for this life, what you were going to do. So I think that success is living that plan, for better or worse. And you're a team accomplishing that. Your guides are there, they will participate as much as you invite them. And they've already been there, right? They've already been helping, and they will always be there. And when you ask a question and you don't seem to be getting an answer, it's because you're asking them to make the choice for you, and that's not their job.

SPEAKER_04

Oh my gosh, that just that just brings so many times and sessions. Can you say that again? Can you remember it?

SPEAKER_01

Well, it's just it's it's what I've learned. They're not, if you ask a question of your guides and you don't get an answer, it's because they're not going to take the choice away from you. Your job is to make the choice. So they're not going to take the choice away from you.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

That doesn't mean they won't make suggestions. It doesn't mean they won't have ideas. And it might be at a critical juncture that you don't realize the impact or the import of what you're about to decide. Yeah. And that's why they hold back. And that's when you twist the question around, right? Because you can ask them anything and hope for an answer.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

And then you can simply, if you asked a question and you don't get an answer and you realize it's about a choice, then try to listen deep inside yourself to the choice you think you might want to make, and then ask them, what can I expect from choosing this? Yeah.

SPEAKER_04

And just to cap that off, anyone who's had a session with me and probably less, whenever we bring in the support system, if that rings a bell for anyone, the support system is that guidance system, is that channeling system. And it's bringing through wisdom and understanding and connection.

SPEAKER_01

So Yeah, I mean, we should do a whole podcast on this. I I will in in whenever I'm working with someone more than a couple of times, it always gets out here into the abstract, into the woo-woo people call it. But it's just the way things work, and you just embrace it. But there are times when I will uh take my client into a trance and invite in their guidance system, and I will use the client have a conversation with me and their guides, and I'll I'll just quite literally say, Okay, what do you want them, what do you want to do next with them?

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

And or I'll say, are there are there more that you want to is there more that you want to show them? Right. And then the client in the chair will say yes, and I'll say, Well, go ahead. And then I just sit there. Hope I might hear about it, but sometimes it's you know, sometimes the guides want to share stuff that's just really personal. And so I don't, I don't probe. I just ask the client in the end, is there anything you want to share? Yeah, yeah. So yeah, sometimes in session, I just hand it over to the guides.

SPEAKER_04

Absolutely. And that could be a whole other podcast. I feel like we could just go on and on and on.

SPEAKER_01

Well, we could probably do a podcast on the guides. Yeah, yeah, and talk about that. I mean, just being familiar with the fact that they're there.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, yeah. And that they don't have to come through as like forms of beings or anything. You know, I've I've had people have animals come through as guides, have light orbs come through as guides, have I I've had a lot of fairies. I know this sounds kind of funny, but people recently have been bringing through like a fairy as a guide, which is really fascinating. But anyway, they can be anything as long as they're there for your highest good and can receive information from but anyway, we'll get going here. And I hope everyone has a beautiful day and enjoy. Well, if you're if you're in Ontario, enjoy the rain and the almost 20 degrees tomorrow. Yeah, have a wonderful day, and we will see you later.