The Imperfect Person

#11 - Sex In A Long-term Relationship

March 16, 2022 Tory Eletto @nytherapist
#11 - Sex In A Long-term Relationship
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The Imperfect Person
#11 - Sex In A Long-term Relationship
Mar 16, 2022
Tory Eletto @nytherapist

Today’s episode is going to be a sensitive one and if you’re in a long-term relationship, whether or not you’re having issues with your sexual relations, this is going to be a great listen for you. Why does your sexual identity go away if you don’t feel your husband or long-term partner desiring you? Do not rely your self-worth solely on someone else, do the inner work, and do not wait for someone else to ignite your intimate, magnetic energy.

Show notes:
[1:22] Some basic info about me and my husband
[3:39] What really bothered me when our sex life declined
[6:04] Feeling shame
[7:50] Something that Esther Perel said that stuck with me
[10:10] Sharing an awkward and vulnerable topic
[12:56] Developing a part in you, for you—the intimacy tank
[15:57] The struggles of a long-term relationship


Find and follow me at: @nytherapist

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Show Notes

Today’s episode is going to be a sensitive one and if you’re in a long-term relationship, whether or not you’re having issues with your sexual relations, this is going to be a great listen for you. Why does your sexual identity go away if you don’t feel your husband or long-term partner desiring you? Do not rely your self-worth solely on someone else, do the inner work, and do not wait for someone else to ignite your intimate, magnetic energy.

Show notes:
[1:22] Some basic info about me and my husband
[3:39] What really bothered me when our sex life declined
[6:04] Feeling shame
[7:50] Something that Esther Perel said that stuck with me
[10:10] Sharing an awkward and vulnerable topic
[12:56] Developing a part in you, for you—the intimacy tank
[15:57] The struggles of a long-term relationship


Find and follow me at: @nytherapist

Please help a new podcaster out by leaving a review and sharing this podcast with anyone you think can benefit from listening to The Imperfect Person podcast. Also, please subscribe so you’ll be notified when I drop a new episode.