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The Good Girl Voice That’s Ruining Your Conversations
The Good Girl Voice is the tone and energy we use when trying to avoid rejection, keep the peace, or be seen as nice.
You think you're being soft and polite, but you're actually being unclear, unmemorable, and unavailable.
In this episode, I'll show you exactly what this voice sounds like in different dating scenarios and how it blocks real intimacy by keeping you from expressing how you truly feel.
I'll share one powerful question to ask yourself before responding to a man that will transform how you communicate and help you have conversations that actually lead to commitment.
If you're ready to stop watering yourself down in conversations and start having conversations that inspire commitment
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What's up, lover girl? Welcome back to the Date With Sense podcast. And I am feeling. I'm feeling very settled and excited, feeling excited I am putting together some things for clients that are going to make their experience better. I have really been feeding myself physically. That like two weeks ago Well, no, this past week, like I realized no, it was last week, I think it was last week I wanted, I was craving like chips all the time and I was like dang like, where are these cravings coming from? I'm getting enough protein, I'm not really hungry. And like, why am I? Why am I experiencing these cravings? And I realized I had heightened my productivity because I will be going out of town for for like a week. So I was like trying to get a lot of stuff done and um having client delivery and I was working long hours. I was clocking like nine, 10 hours a day and not realizing that it was not leaving me space to like I w I wasn't giving myself space to um work that much harder and still have space for myself. So I'm feeling really excited and very proud of myself because I have gone.
Speaker 1:I've been making sure that I this week that I walk more because I was, I was stress eating because I wasn't having me time. That included physical walking and you know just a way to like be resourced to take care of myself, so I'm really happy about that. And then also I was on this really nice date with my front runner, latin Papi, this past weekend. He surprised me with a really nice picnic date where he bought all my favorite snacks, my favorite fruit, mcdonald's cookies. He bought me some coffee he knows I really enjoy having coffee and cookies and then we also was able to play soccer out there, just enjoy each other to where the sun went down, and that was really really, really nice. I really love the fact that all this time we've been dating, he still plans really nice, enjoyable dates and he likes to surprise me with these dates. So that was great. And then also I'm excited because I got a new review on the podcast Shout out to Amira.
Speaker 1:She says amazing and transformative. This podcast really offers a different perspective on dating and relationships. It's not just about tips and tricks but truly transforming your mind and embodying how you want to show up in the real world. It really requires you to dig deeper than just surface, because all the tips and tricks in the world won't work if you don't truly embody the change. I love it.
Speaker 1:Shout out to you, amira, and, speaking of embodying the change, this upcoming workshop this weekend, the Conversations that Inspire Commitment workshop when you hear this podcast, it will be Thursday and you have about two days to purchase your ticket to come or to purchase your ticket for the replay and it is going to be very transformative, because conversations are the skill that most of us are lacking when it comes to dating, and it's one of the most foundational skills to have, especially if you want to interact with quality men and go deeper in connection. So, for you ladies who are listening to this too, it's not just about moving men off the apps or being able to converse on a first date. It's also how to create a connection with a man so that, like, if you're already attracting quality men but it's never going anywhere, you probably need better conversation skills. More than likely, you need better conversation skills. So, yeah, go ahead, the link is going to be in the show notes. Go ahead and grab your ticket. Conversation skills. So, yeah, go ahead, the link is going to be in the show notes. Go ahead and grab your ticket, come to the workshop, watch the replay.
Speaker 1:And yeah, that being said, this episode is an Instagram live that I did in honor of the workshop and it is called the good girl voice that's ruining your conversations. And, without further ado, here is the episode. And without further ado, here is the episode. Sup, lover girls, I have a great live for you. Today. I'm going to be talking about the good girl voice that's ruining your conversation. So, yeah, let's get into it today. And, fyi, this live is sponsored by my upcoming workshop Conversations that Inspire Commitment Workshop. It is this upcoming weekend, the April 19th through the 20th. If you're interested in attending or snagging the replay, make sure that you type CTIC to learn more about it, the timing, what we're going to cover, and then also, you can secure your seat at that link. So if you just type C-T-I-C in there, you can get in there.
Speaker 1:But yeah, let's talk about the good girl voice that's ruining your conversations with men. As you know, what I teach as conversations is the foundation for connection. It's the foundation for a committed relationship. It is a foundation. If you are not, if your conversation skills are not up to par, you are going to find it hard to have to have a consistent dating life that excites you. You're going to find it hard to connect with men that you really like and you're going to have. You're going to find it hard to connect with men that you really like, you're going to have. You're going to really find it hard to move, or to have the option to move, into exclusive relationships. Okay, you're going to find it really difficult if you don't have this skill down. And so what I've noticed this is something that I went through, too, in the past. This is something that I've noticed with my clients that come to me.
Speaker 1:What I noticed in my audience, when I either read your text messages or I hear conversations that you're having with men, especially with this push to be, like, more feminine and I say that with quotes it's like we think that we're being soft, we think that we're being polite and we think that we're being very easy to talk to. We think that we're being feminine and poised, and this is what. This is how we need to operate in order to inspire men to like us. But actually we're being unclear, unmemorable, if that's a word, and unavailable. Okay, and it's the good girl voice. It's the one that talks like a woman who is led by fear of rejection, fear of being misunderstood, fear of she has, fear of confrontation and mostly, like she has fear of not being chosen and so, because she has these fears, she avoids being fully seen. Okay, that's what I want to talk about today. Let me paint a picture. Let me paint a picture very quickly on on what that looks like.
Speaker 1:But but first, like the good girl voice, is the tone and energy that we use when we're interacting with men, when we're trying to avoid being rejected, when we are trying to keep the peace, when we want to be seen as nice or what people would say is feminine. And it's not necessarily what you say all the time. It's also why you're saying it, not wanting to rock the boat, not wanting to like, not expressing how we feel. We are not leading with our feminine desire, our feminine intuition. We are complying with what we think men want from us, and that is how we're ruining our conversations. Okay, if you just met a guy, this looks like texting back very, very quickly because you don't want to seem like you're rude.
Speaker 1:Okay, it looks like asking questions just to keep the conversation going, not because you actually truly are invested and care about the questions that you're asking. It's because you think it's supposed to move the conversation along and or you don't really express or make it clear that you're super interested. You're just making conversations, you're trying to play it safe to see, okay, is he going to lean in? Is he going to say what I want him to say? Is he going to show me that he's excited? Is he going to show me that he likes me? Is he going to do this? Is he going to do that?
Speaker 1:We're so concerned this is the good girl, right we're really concerned about what he thinks and what he wants that we're not really expressing how we actually feel about this man and what we actually desire from this man. So we're really not connecting with men. We're complying with what we think they want. Again, we're not connecting with them. We're complying on what we think, what they want Okay, based upon what we think men want. And so what that will lead to is men walking away from us thinking, oh yeah, she's cool, you know she's beautiful, she's a cool girl, like he might even say, she's wife, material. But at the same time, he doesn't really feel drawn to you because he doesn't know who you are, he doesn't know what you want, and that's that doesn't create connection. That actually creates neutrality.
Speaker 1:So if men are constantly men are consistently uh, attractive to, attracted to you, at first, you know, attracted to your looks, wanting to take you on dates, wanting to reach out to you, but then he starts pulling away and you don't know why, and it's a consistent thing. A lot of times it's because there's a lot of neutral energy in the air, because you're being very neutral, you are not being extremely clear about what you want to experience and how you want to show up or how you would, how you desire this man to show up, and that does not create connection. If you're casually dating a guy and you know that you want more from him, the good girl looks like you know she's dropping hints and just hoping he'll notice. She'll drop hints here and there in conversation Hints that she wants to call, hints that she wants to date, hints that she wants to see him more. She'll just throw out hints instead of just being very clear.
Speaker 1:I want to see you, I want to go on the phone. I don't like that this is happening between us. I don't like that you're doing that Like. I don't like the way we're interacting right now. I want this conversation to look differently. I want to have a different kind of conversation.
Speaker 1:I actually don't want to answer these questions. I would prefer to do this instead. I actually would not like to go on this kind of date. This is the kind of date I would like to go instead. I'm not a fan of those dates at all.
Speaker 1:Okay, I desire, if I'm going to go on this date, this is what and this is how I would love for you to show up. This is how I would love for us to to interact, but instead we'll keep. We're either keeping quiet or we're dropping hints. That is the good girl. Okay, the good girl is like oh, what you know, whatever whenever you're free, is fine, just call me when you're free. No, I don't want you to call me when you're free.
Speaker 1:I would like for you to call me during this time range. I would like for you to call me this time, not just whenever you're free. Or, oh, you know, I'm just checking in, hope you're well. I'm not just checking in, I don't just hope that you're well. Actually, I am sending this message because I would like to make sure that say this instead, to make sure that say this instead. I am connecting with you, or I'm reaching out because I actually would love for you to take me on a date, right, I'm reaching out to let you know that I'm unable to stay connected because I haven't heard from you, for whatever reason. Right, I'm not just checking in. What am I checking in for? I'm actually sharing something that's important to me that I would like for you to hear, and some women are like well, tora, a real man, he would just know, and you shouldn't have to say things to him if he really liked you.
Speaker 1:This isn't about the man. This isn't about forcing a man to do anything. It's not even about him forcing him to show up a certain way. This is about you staying true to your own desires and making sure that they're fully expressed, so that everybody's clear, so that everybody knows, so that you are clear and that you know.
Speaker 1:A lot of times, we like to stay quiet and say, oh, he should already know, because we feel comfortable not expressing ourselves, we feel comfortable not being responsible for our eyes. I like I don't care. I am not here to force a man to do anything. I am not here to make him want me or for him to chase me, but I am here to show him exactly how to show up for the kind of woman that I am and what it looks like to be with a woman like me. Okay, that's extremely important. So, whether or not he wants to interact in that way, I am very clear. Am I going to keep repeating myself? No, but I'm going to make it clear that that's the expectation. Okay, because every woman does not have the same expectations. Okay, because every woman does not have the same expectations. Okay.
Speaker 1:Also, good girl voice looks like us avoiding asking certain questions because we're scared of the answer. We don't, we don't want to hear the answer. We don't want or we don't want to be asked the question back. Right, so we'll avoid asking the question or we will avoid asking real conversations about how we feel. When a man disappoints us, we'll avoid it, like when he says he's going to do something and he doesn't. Okay, or like when he schedules time to spend time but then he changed his plans at the last minute. Lots of us get really passive, aggressive about it. We throw hints, but we're not really clear that. Hey, I know things plans change all the time, but for me it's important, for it's important that we this not be a habit, because I'm I won't be able to stay connected. If this is a habit for you, you know, and if, uh, plans change for whatever reason, this is how I would like for you to move forward. This is how I would like for you to make it up for me. If you would love to make it up for me, this is this is this is how you can do it. Okay, just being very clear. Um, haven't really seen anybody in the comments yet. Just let me know if you're picking up what I'm putting down. Just let me know. And if you have any questions, make sure they go in the question box so I can answer them later on.
Speaker 1:Whenever we feel nice girl or good girl looks like we feel annoyed, we feel hurt, we feel angry. But instead of naming that, we're annoyed like, hey, I was annoyed when you texted me that. Or hey, I was annoyed when you texted me that. Or hey, I was hurt when you chose to do that. Or, oh, I was. This has me angry. Like I'm angry, instead of naming the emotion, we act like we don't have it. We act like we don't have the emotion. We act like we're unbothered and we or we pull back. Okay, we have some people in the comments shout out to Steph, and then we have Barefoot Bella. All right, miss Farrah, okay, cool, all right.
Speaker 1:So you guys are listening in, cool, and lots of people think that oh, if you, if you have those negative emotions, that's going to push a man away. You should always be positive. No, absolutely not. The intimacy you build with the man is not just built on positive emotions, it's also built on negative emotions. So if you want to be a step-brother, wife and you want to only present to him positive emotions, number one, you're going to attract men who, who, a lot of men who are not emotionally available. Right, because you are. Only they're only able to hold your positive emotions.
Speaker 1:But whenever you're able to share your negative emotions, it can bring you closer together as you work through the problems, as he's able to see like, oh, this woman is able to express herself clearly with me. I can trust this woman because I know where she stands. I'm not guessing, I'm not trying to figure out what's going on in her mind, and it feels weird because the energy is weird, but I don't know what's happening with her. And so, for example, with all the men that I'm dating, I make it very clear. When I'm angry, I make it very clear. When I'm annoyed, I make it very clear. When I'm annoyed, I make it very clear. When I'm hurt and I allow them to meet me there and after the conversations around me being annoyed, me being hurt, me being disappointed, we just regroup. It's like, oh, baby, I'm glad you told me that, I'm sad that I hurt your feelings, and this is how we can move forward and then we can agree on it and that's what brings us closer, that's what makes us feel like we're bonding.
Speaker 1:It's not like oh, I'm so happy all the time. I'm never disappointed, I'm never hurt. I'm always unbothered. No, sir, I'm. I've been unbothered several times this week. Okay, um, but at the same time, I also don't take. Take it personal, right? Someone says we here, girl, we taking notes and can't type. Okay, okay, okay, okay. I just want to know. I'm like am I talking to myself here? I just wanted to know, like, could y'all even hear me? Um, your negative emotions are just important, just as important as your positive ones, okay, and your positive emotions are extremely important too.
Speaker 1:Like, we don't want to just hope men get it. We don't want men to hope he. Like. We don't want men to like, assume that we like him. It needs to be very, very clear. Like we've expressed it. I'm so into you, really like you. I love when you did this. I get excited when I talk to you. Man, it's been two days. I really miss you. I really miss your voice, like it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if you've been dating for two weeks or a month. If that's how you feel, then you want to express it. Two weeks or a month, if that's how you feel, then you want to express it. And then again, I talked about the negative emotions, and so we never want to hope. Men just get it.
Speaker 1:Men will not build connection off of you, from your silence. They're not from you holding back. That's not how they build connection with you. They're going to build it through emotion. So you have to really express yourself. You have to really be you. They're going to build it through emotion. So you have to really express yourself. You have to really be open. They're going to build it through feedback from you, whether it's good or bad. They're going to build a connection with you through vulnerability. Okay, if he never hears how you feel, good or bad, then he never gets a chance to get closer to you. He's going to be able to get closer to you through your negative emotions and your positive emotions, but if we're not expressing them, if we're just talking facts and not our feelings.
Speaker 1:Some of us have conversations with men daily and none of them have any emotional aspect. If you're someone who finds it hard to express your emotions, put a one in the comments. Put a one in the comments If you find yourself like finding that like really difficult to kind of like talk about your emotions. What happens, guys, is that we end up in relationships that either stay casual, confusing or convenient for him. Again, we either end up in relationships that are casual, confusing or convenient for him, because we've never really communicated what we've actually want, what we actually desire, how we actually feel, okay, how we actually want to show up. It's like there's a lot of fear behind there. Ok, how we actually want to show up. It's like there's a lot of fear behind there. And so we think that we're protecting the connect, the connection, by avoiding these conversations, but what we're actually doing is blocking intimacy. But that's the good girl. The good girl wants to keep things good. She doesn't want to rock the boat, if you want to build conversations that lead to commitment, you have to want to rock the boat. The boat needs to be rocked, Okay, because it's costing you when you consistently default to good girl energy.
Speaker 1:Your conversations are going to feel safe, very safe, right? You're going to feel like, oh yeah, I can talk to him all day, I can send him messages all day, but they're going to be boring. They're going to get boring. That's why they're going to fizzle out. Your conversations are going to feel very polite, very nice, very polite. Oh, we're nice people in this conversation, but they're going to be very forgettable. Your conversations are going to be very forgettable to the point where it's not hard for men to pull away. It's not hard for men to be like she's beautiful and smart, but she doesn't really do it for me. She's beautiful, she's smart, but yeah, I'm not really feeling nothing here. She's a, she's a great wife, but I'm not the man for her Right. Your conversations are soft, but they're very unclear, very passive.
Speaker 1:You know, I often read client messages and I'll give an example. I had a. I had clients send me screenshots of her communicating with the guy last week and it was like six different screenshots and I was just like why are we doing so much talking? You're not talking about anything. I went line by line. I went line by line in the screenshots with her and I was like why did you say this? Why did you say that? Why did you say this?
Speaker 1:She was like oh well, she told me she was like oh, I was just trying to jumpstart the conversation because I wanted to talk to him. And I said for what? She said oh, I would like to, I would like to see him. I said that is what we say. We do not jumpstart a conversation. Hey, hope all is well. We don't do that. We drill down to what we actually want and we say that. And by the end of the day, she said she was like Tori at work. I was like, of course. End of the day, she said she was like Tori at work. I was like, of course, all that talking is a waste of time. Y'all spent days texting and this is a new class. She just came on a couple of weeks ago. She's learning. She's learning fast though we're getting there. And I was like you need to get straight to the point. We need to get straight to the point. We need to get straight to the point.
Speaker 1:Okay, now, we don't want to just be the girl a man respects but never pursue. I don't want to just be respected, I want to be romanced. Respect me and romance me, okay, or you end up being the woman that he has, a like he likes, but it's never going to really lead anywhere. Okay, some of us think that a man either wants us or not, but we don't really take an account how conversations clear, that conversations create the connection that inspires me, that lets me know like oh no, I want this one, I need this one. I've never really had an interaction with this kind of woman before in my life. I've never met someone who expresses themselves in this way, who was so clear, who was so direct. It's so different, it's so refreshing, because we're so busy trying to think about how to protect ourselves, okay, but that protection is at the cost of connection, it's at the cost of the commitment that we actually want. Okay, it's at the cost of all of that.
Speaker 1:So I want to help you here. I want to help you with a shift. Now that you know what good girl voice sounds like, what do you do with it? How do you actually say what you mean, without spiraling, without overthinking, without losing your softness. I'm going to give you one question that I asked myself before I respond to any man, especially in those little everyday moments when I'm messaging or when I'm talking to them. Especially in those little everyday moments when I'm messaging or when I'm talking to them, when I'm I'm especially like when I'm tempted to shrink, like when I'm when I have resistance to expressing something, or or if I want to sugarcoat, I ask myself one question what do I want to experience in this moment? Do I want to feel seen? Do I want connection? Do I want to experience in this moment? Do I want to feel seen? Do I want connection? Do I want space Like sometimes you might need space? Do I want clarity about something that came up between us? Do I want to feel flirty? Do I want to feel excited? Do I want to feel heard? I ask myself what do I want to experience? Do I want to create something with this man? Do I want to create a date? Do I want to create a phone call? Do I want to create a hard conversation? Do I want to create a shift in the tone of where we're going and I think about? I ask myself that question and then that's how I make a decision.
Speaker 1:I'm not aimlessly typing. You will never hear me aimlessly having a conversation with somebody on the phone. Once I see that it's aimless, I'm getting off the phone. I know sometimes one of the guys on I'm dating Latin poppy. He might call me and then I say what needs to be said. We're on the phone and I'm like all right, I got to go. He was like well, you don't want to talk to me on my on my way home? And I'm like no, I don't want to talk to you. He was like man, why are you like that? And I'm like I don't want to do that. I don't, that's not something I want to do. So I'm going to get off the phone because I don't believe in aimless conversations.
Speaker 1:I understand you want to talk to me because you want somebody to talk to on the way home, but I don't want to have an aimless conversation. I have nothing else to say right now. I may have something for you to say tomorrow. I may have something to say to you tomorrow or the next day. I don't have anything to say to you right now and I love you and I'm still in love with you and I still want to date you and I still want to build our connection towards whatever we're doing, but I do not want to talk to you on your way home. It's not something I'm interested in. Okay, because that's what I want to experience.
Speaker 1:I felt myself like feeling drained a little bit. I was like, oh, I don't want to be in this conversation, no more, I'm done. Right, I'm done. But when I get a FaceTime from another guy Big Body Benzie, facetiming me and I'm ready to get off, I'm like, all right, maybe I'll talk to you later. I know that you want to talk to me while you're making your steak, but I don't want to look at you making your steak right now. I don't want to be on the call. I want to get off the phone and we can talk later when I'm ready to talk, okay, or again, if I'm looking for space, I will communicate that Once I know what I want to experience in the moment, what I do next, it reflects that intention.
Speaker 1:Okay, that's what I want to give to you today. I'm not going to send. I hope your week's going well, because that's not me. Being honest, I don't really. That's not what I care to know If that's that's something someone asks when they really want to. It's comfort, it's familiarity and it's being safe. I don't care to say that. That's not what I really care about. I'm only going to say things I actually care about, okay, and of course, if I'm disappointed, I'm going to express it.
Speaker 1:You don't have to be poetic y'all. You don't have to be perfect, but you do need to be in alignment with what you want. That is how you're going to get the commitment you want. That is how you're going to meet the men that you want, go on the dates that you desire. If we're able to really lean in with our conversations and create really good conversations that are clear, confident and connected, we won't have issues moving forward. Okay, what you say doesn't need to sound cute. It just needs to sound like you and it needs to sound like the version of you who knows what she wants and isn't scared of being too much or not enough. When your voice finally matches your desire, that's when connection will start with you. That's when it will start, and that's exactly the kind of work that we're doing in my upcoming workshop, the Conversations that Inspire Commitment Workshop.
Speaker 1:It's this upcoming weekend, from the 19th to 20th. It's $220 and it's two days of us doing this kind of work. All right, I offer this like one time a year. I did it like last year. You can get the replay and in this workshop, one of the things you learn is you're going to stop watering yourself down in conversations just so that you can seem polite or easygoing. You're going to know exactly how to express what you want and how you feel, without sounding cold, needy or awkward, and you're going to start having conversations that actually lead to men dating, men who respect you, pursue you and know exactly where you stand.
Speaker 1:If you're interested in attending this workshop and learning more about it, you can put CTIC in the comment section here To receive the link to secure your seat for this weekend. We are going to be doing workshops together, breakouts together. You're going to do work on the call and if you are watching the replay, you can pause and do the work along with us. You're not going to leave the call without doing work and having stuff set up for you the foundation for you to have these conversations out in the world. Oh, thank you so much You're. You're so refreshing doing God's work always. Oh, I love you, girl. Thank you, yes, marina, tell the girls to attend. Marina will be there.
Speaker 1:Any questions about the workshop or what we talked about today? Please put it in the comment section. If you today, please put it in the comment section. If you can, please put it in the comment section if you can. If you have questions about what we talked about in our lesson today or questions about the workshop, I'm not going to be answering questions that have nothing to do with the topic today. So if you're like Tora, what's my what do you think about attachment styles? Please don't ask that. It's not what we're talking about. All right, I'm going to stay for a minute or so just to see if any questions come up and, if not, I will just hop off the call. Any takeaways from today? I'd love to hear any takeaways as well. Any takeaways from today? I'd love to hear any takeaways as well. Okay, I don't see any questions. Oh, I think I have a question here.
Speaker 1:Okay, someone says how can I rekindle a conversation? It's the same thing that I mentioned today. It's asking yourself the one simple question what do I want to experience in this moment? So, if I wanted to, if I wanted to rekindle a conversation, and I'm like, what do I want to experience in this moment? I'm like, oh, I want to, I want to create a conversation, I want to rekindle the conversation and I want to be able to do that. How do I want to do that? How do I want to create that? I just gonna. What do I want this man to know? Oh, like, I think things fizzled out. And I also want to let him know that I'm still open and staying connected with him, if he's open to that. Yeah, I want to say that as well.
Speaker 1:And then I just say that, if I want to rekindle a conversation, I'm not going to say, hey, big head to test the waters. I'm not going to say, hey, hope all is well. I'm going to say the thing. I'm going to say, hey, I was thinking about you and I know that our conversation kind of fizzled out, but it's actually not what I wanted and, to be completely honest, I was holding back and because I was holding that, that's probably why the conversation fizzled out. But I want to let you know that, if you're open to it, I'd love to give it another try. I've had clients do this and they're like and the man was like, oh yeah, let's, let's do this.
Speaker 1:It was because, mainly, it was because they were holding back in the past and that's why the conversation fizzled out and I'm like no, like we're not gonna send a hey big head text, we're not gonna do any of that. We're gonna say exactly what we desire, exactly what we want, and leave it there. That's how. That's how we get clarity, instead of like creating another like conversation. That's weird and confusing and all over the place and people like why the hell did she text me in the first place? What does she want? Say what I want right off the rip. Any other questions? Someone says I ran it back to a 2021 suitor and now I'm back in the brownstone living it up. I love it. Marina says I can be even more vulnerable. Absolutely, queen. You've been doing great work.
Speaker 1:Y'all come to the workshop. If you guys have questions about the workshop, hit CTIC type CTIC in the comment section to get the link to join. Any other questions we have today. Before I hop off, I think this might be one of the shortest lives I've ever done. I'm so proud of myself. I said I'm going to come in. I'm not going to. I'm not going to do too much. Any other questions? We good, I think. So, all right. All right If there's no more questions.
Speaker 1:I'm glad you guys enjoyed today's live. It's the 19th through the 20th this upcoming weekend. If you don't, if you can't attend live, you need to get the replay. You need to sit there and you need to do the work by pausing. And even though you can't make it live, you need to be able to have this information or this transformation, like you need to be able to have it Absolutely. It's my pleasure. Have a wonderful night.
Speaker 1:Bye guys, all right. Lover girl, I know you enjoyed the episode and because I know you enjoyed the episode, I would love, love, love, love, love for you to leave a review on your thoughts. For you to leave a review on your thoughts, if not about this episode, but about the entire podcast as a whole. Either way, and if you want to take this deeper, if you want to take this work deeper, definitely join me in the Conversations that Inspire Commitment Workshop this upcoming weekend, april 19th through the 20th, starting at 10 am to 1230 pm. You can definitely find all of the other details about it at the link in the show notes. For sure, and I look forward to seeing you at the workshop and until next time, bye.