Date with Cents
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185 episodes
DWC REWIND: When You Put In Too Much Effort
If you’re a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating ….but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you. You’re the woman...
DWC REWIND: Launching Your H.O.E. Phase
Part of the reason why you waste time on the wrong men is because you’re EASY.All it takes is for a man to pay you some consistent attention and now you’re his girlfriend. And then you get big mad when you re...
DWC REWIND: How To Show Up As A Quality Woman Who Attracts Quality Men
“There’s not enough quality men out here for quality women.”That’s the lie we tell ourselves when we’re not ready to do the work. The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality women...
DWC REWIND: Why You Keep Choosing The Wrong Man (And Why It’s Exhausting You)
You finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone.Most women thin...
DWC REWIND: How To Drop "Good Girl" Habits To Date Deliciously
Last week, we talked about how Women of Faith tend to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones……and how those "good girl" habits can end up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emo...
DWC REWIND: What If You Try—And Love Still Doesn’t Happen?
That fear of doing all the work, showing up differently in dating, and still not getting chosen is keeping many women stuck in dating limbo…afraid to fully commit to finding love.If you've been consuming dating advice without a...
DWC REWIND: When Dating Him Feels Like a Crack Addiction
Out of all the men we date…there’s always this ONE that we really like…but we find it hard to have him. We wanna hear from him daily We wanna see him all the time. <...
DWC REWIND: The Mis-Education of the Good Girl
We live in a time where women have more choices than ever before. We can buy our own property…we can go to school for whatever…we can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports. ...
DWC REWIND: Delusions & Difficulties Around Attracting Quality Men
Been having a lot of interesting conversations with new clients about why they believe they haven’t been attracting quality men. Funny thing is…when I listen to their complaints during our coaching sessions…summ...
DWC REWIND: Becoming The "Sun" In Your Love Life Solar System
Becoming the sun in your love life changes everything.Most women are floating through dating…Responding to texts because they feel like they have to.Going exclusive because he brought it up.Feeling overwhelmed becaus...
How To Savagely Vet A Man In 30 Days (Before You Get Attached)
You've convinced yourself it's bad luck, that there are no good men in your city, that maybe you're just not the kind of woman men commit to. But you don't have bad luck—you have untrained discernment.In this...
Forgotten Birthdays, Broken Promises, and Valentine's Day Lies - What To Do When A Man Disappoints You
In this episode, I'm breaking down the W.O.R.D. Method…a four-step framework for when men break their word so you stop spiraling, over-explaining, or blaming yourself. You'll discover why security doesn't com...
My 10 Dating Rules for Recovering "Good Girls" Who Want Marriage in 2026
Any woman can get married—that's not hard to do.The problem is the kind of marriages we walk into. Too many good girls are getting chosen because we're "wife material," which really means agreeable, low maintenance, and easy to keep. The...
How to Meet 50 Men Per Month So You Can Meet Your Future Husband By Summer with Kimberly E.
Earlier this week, I made a post about meeting 50 men per month if I wanted to go from no dates to engaged by the end of the year—and the girls lost their minds. "Where are we supposed to get 50 men?" "I...
How To Have 2-3 Men Emotionally and Financially Investing In You In 90 Days
We've been told that at a certain age, especially as Black women, our options dry up. That if you're divorced, over 35, a single mom, or plus-sized, you should just take what you can get. But I'm 38, divorced, and I only date men who invest ...
Delicious Dating Q&A Part 4
You got more questions, I have more answers. Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to know when a man has earned exclusivity (spoiler: it's not about how many dates you've been on) to why you ...
How To Go From No Dates To A Wedding Date In A Year
It's January and you've probably already had the thought: "I want this to be the year I get engaged" Maybe you said that last year too….and the year before that. Every December you look back and nothing really changed. You went on a few date...
My Personal Dating Strategy for 2026
Most women are out here dating without any kind of plan….just swiping and hoping something works out, going on dates and hoping he's the one. But hope is not a strategy. Hope is how you end up years into this with nothing to show for it....
DWC REWIND: How I Fall In Love Without Getting Attached
Most dating advice says to guard your heart, stay unbothered, and avoid getting too emotionally involved. But for me, true connection means being fully open and expressive—I fall in love without holding back, and I do it w...
From Church Girl to Dream Girl with Juliet R.
My client Dr. Juliet went from dating men who couldn't afford to send her an Uber to having wealthy men send her gifts just for rescheduling a date.In two months, she went from less than one date per week to 22 video calls in N...
DWC REWIND: How To Inspire Men To Invest In You
Wondering what it takes to be surrounded by men who invest in you mentally, emotionally, and financially? This episode is full of gems of how to inspire men to adore you and add tangible value to your life. ...
How My BFF Started Attracting Rich, Generous Men After Spending One Week With Me
My bestie Dr. Jasmyne went from never asking men for help with her luggage to having a pilot chase her through the airport offering to buy her whatever she wants. The shift happened in less than one week—and it started wit...
3 Mindset Shifts That Keep Me From Getting Drained on Dating Apps
I can talk to 40 men in a week, carry on conversations with five or six at a time, swipe multiple times a day, run a multiple six-figure business, go to pole class, date, and live my life…all without getting drained or frustrated....
6 Things I Do To Meet Quality Men Every Week On Dating Apps
I've been posting all the evidence this week on my Instagram stories…the caliber of men reaching out to me, the quality of dates I'm going on, the matches I'm getting…and many are asking "Torah, how are you doing this?”In this ...
Profile 2 Pursuit Masterclass: How to Show Up on Dating Apps and Meet Amazing Men
You've been told dating apps don't work, but what if the problem isn't the apps—it's how you're using them? I used to delete Tinder every few months out of frustration until I figured out the skill that changed everything....