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How I Quickly Know If A Man Is Worth My Time (Within The First Week Of Dating)

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Most women spend weeks, even months, trying to figure out if a man is worth their time—dating him, running him by the group chat, hoping it turns into something. I don't do any of that. I know pretty quickly whether a man has even earned a phone call from me, and I never waste three to six months learning what I could have known in the first week.

In this episode, I'm breaking down the exact framework I use to evaluate a man from the moment he speaks to me. You'll find out why "do I like him?" is the wrong question to be asking, the difference between a man who's interested and a man who's actually investing, and how to spot the yellow flags most women wait months to catch.

Walk away able to trust yourself enough to know who qualifies for your time—without the weeks of confusion, second-guessing, or asking everybody else what his behavior means.

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Voice Gone And Hosting Wins

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What's up, Lover Girl? Welcome back to the Date with Sins podcast. I am feeling, I would say powerful, even though my voice is very hoarse. I spent the 4th of July hanging out with Poppy and his family. And um, he ended up taking me to Six Flags as a surprise later on that night to, you know, ride the rides and apparently scary roller coasters. And I'm I'm not a fan. And so I ended up screaming bloody murder on all those things and completely lost my voice. And my voice is almost coming back. But I feel very powerful. I started the week with like all this stuff on my brain, like, oh Tora, you gotta do this, you gotta do this, and you gotta do that. And you gotta plan this with your friends, and you have this upcoming Curve to Cuff launch, and you have this gathering you want to plan. And I'm like, also, Torah, you you also have time to do what you need to do when you need to do it. And so I was able to create me a nice little plan without being anxious about everything, and I'm so happy. So feeling really good about that. And um also I'm feeling very um, I would say accomplished. So I have a tiny little boutique-style house, but the ceilings are really high. And most poles do not work well on my ceilings. And um, the last poll that I had, it was okay. It just wasn't, it was not safe enough for my ceilings. So I finally got me a studio grade pole. And anyone who does poll, you know that new poles are very slippery. And in order to get the grip that you want on a pole, you gotta put a lot of hands on it. Gotta a lot of skin gotta be on it over time for it to get that grip. And so I hosted a poll breaking party where I invited my pole friends and sisters and pole mama. Pole moms are people who, you know, really helped you in your foundational stage of pole. And I hosted an event where I had all the ladies come over. I made them, I had little hors d'oeuvres here, and I had them little gift bags that would um, I know that they would like like self-care packages and stuff like that. And then we popped champagne, blessed the pole, and the girls jumped and swinged like chandeliers all over it all night. So we properly broken broke the pole for like three hours. And um, so that was fun. I had a lot of fun because y'all know I'm in my hosting era. And then come Monday after the party, I had the guy who put the poll up come and check and see if it was still level and it was. So we're good to go, guys. But

Why I Vet Men Quickly

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anywho, this episode is gonna be a great piggyback off of last episode of how I inspire men to pursue me, uh, the bomb experience. So if you haven't listened to that episode, this episode builds off of that. And I'm talking today about how I quickly know if a man is worth my time. Because I don't spend a lot of time trying to figure out if a man is worth me talking to, going on a date with. I don't spend months figuring it out. I don't spend weeks even dating him. I don't spend weeks doing that. I don't need to wait a lot of time for me to figure that out. I don't need to call my girlfriends and run things by them at all. I don't need to ask them what they think. Like, hey, girl, like he he said this. What do you think about that? I don't need to do that. Okay, and I definitely do not need to spend three to six months dating a man just to realize what I should have known within the first few weeks. Okay. I know pretty quickly, and I develop a framework based upon how I vet if a man is worth it. And I teach my clients the same thing. I teach my clients the same thing. And so I want to cover this on this podcast. One thing I do not do is ask myself, do I like him to consider moving things forward or consider uh another date with him or consider taking his phone call? I don't ask myself that. And I know a lot of women are thinking about, oh, I like him, so I'm gonna go out with him again. Oh, I'm attracted to him, so I'm gonna go out with him again. Oh, I felt chemistry, so I'm gonna go out with him again. Oh, I feel butterflies, so I'm gonna go out with him again. Those are the main things that a woman are looking for. And because the answer is yes to a lot of that, like they feel the chemistry, they like him, or they're attracted to him, or does he look good on paper? Is this a good man? They will keep dating him. Meanwhile, this man doesn't actually qualify for her even paying a little bit of attention to him. And

Introducing The Royal Method

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I'm about to give you a framework that I use and I teach my clients called the Royal Method, that literally helps me evaluate men on five different things, and I can start gathering this information from the moment that I meet him, from the moment that he speaks words to me. Okay. And just a heads up, this framework I'm about to share, this is not to vet for a husband. This also isn't to vet for exclusivity. This is to vet whether you should even pick up the phone, whether you should go on a date, whether he should be on the roster. Okay. The big question you need to be asking yourself while you're dating men casually is does this man deserve more of my time? You don't have to fight, you don't have to figure out if he's boyfriend material, exclusive boyfriend material material, or husband material. You just need to ask yourself the question, does this man deserve more of my time before I get into the framework? Dating becomes a lot easier when you stop trying to figure out whether you can spend time forever with this man and start deciding whether this man has even earned a phone call from you or another date. So

Real-Time Investment Over Talk

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the first thing that I look for when considering dating a man, adding him to my roster, uh even talking to him on the phone is real-time investment. And that is the R in Royal. Is this man consistently investing? Is he investing his time? Is he investing his energy? Is he investing his money, his resources? Because as I mentioned in the last podcast, when it comes to a man pursuing you, a man can be very interested in you and invest very little. He can text you every morning, he can send you memes, he can watch every Instagram story that you post, he can tell you how beautiful you are, he can say, hey, we we can get together soon, or we need to get together soon. You can spend three weeks talking to this man and feel like something's happening, feel like there's a lot of chemistry, feel like there's a lot of connection. For me, I am looking at real time investment. Number one, within the first week, I am looking for this man to initiate plans. So, for example, I talked to my subscribers about this guy that I met at my private club. It's actually a second guy that I met. Last week, I was watching the USA play against Bosnia. It was a watch party, and he was at the club bar, saw me there, followed me out, asked me, was it my husband sitting beside me at the bar? I know it was just somebody that I connected with, and he slipped me his card. And I found out he was a vice president of operations of a major company. And um, I sent him a message. When did I send him a message? I sent him a message yesterday, even though we met last week, because I was just like, I don't want to talk to him before the 4th of July, and I wanted to verify, you know, where he lived. I wanted to take his number and verify his living situation, his property ownership. I wanted to verify um his first and last name, all the things. I wanted to do all of that before I reached out. When I verified everything that I needed to verify, I reached out to him. And so I'm looking at that point. Is he gonna initiate plans? He sent me a message today and initiated plans to go out. He wanted to go out for a certain time. I told him, I actually suggested another day and another time and a specific place that I wanted to go. But that's within, that was within a day of me reaching out. That is what I'm looking for, real-time investment. Now, if he would have kept texting me throughout the week, if he would have texted me for two days, then I would have been like, oh no, absolutely not. You're texting me for two days. You're a grown-ass man, you're a leader. Mind you, I'm gonna give you less grace. The more high up you are in society, I'm gonna give you less grace because you know better. You are a leader. You understand how this stuff works. And so if he would have kept texting me for two or three more days, actually two days, then I would have been like, oh, this man is not investing. He's not initiating plans. Okay, so now I'm gonna watch, is he going to follow through on this plan? I'm going to look for him confirming these plans. I'm also going to be looking for him remembering the things that I tell him. That's going to be emotional investment. When a man remembers the stuff that you tell him, that's very, very important. Okay, is this connection actually building momentum? So, for example, if this man simply sent me a message yesterday talking about he wanted to see me, he does not get credit for that at all. He only gets credit for the plan investment put into place and him executing on it. When I see the execution put into place, then he gets points for that. That's the real-time investment that happens. Okay. So he has to choose a like he has to make sure the reservations are made. The date actually has to happen. I'm evaluating what's happening in real time. I'm not evaluating what he wants to do. I'm not evaluating what I hope he'll eventually do. I'm not evaluating, let's just say we went on three dates and then he stopped planning them. I'm not evaluating him on what he did three weeks ago. I'm only looking at what is this man investing right now. That is the R in the Royal framework because a lot of us, we're looking at, okay, what he could invest, what he could be doing, or we look at what he used to do in the past. And so we allow a man to stay in our lives and texting us and calling us because of what he used to do or what we think he's gonna do. Okay. And also this real-time investment includes financial. So when this man wants to take me on a date, for me, I am going to be also requiring financial investment outside of a date. Because whatever a man invests outside of the date that he doesn't benefit from, that is actual true investment. Or should I say, that's that's a next layer of investment that shows, okay, I'm actually in this. I'm actually not looking to take from you. I'm actually looking to add to your life, whether that is uh flowers, whether that's a small gift, whether that is him doing something with his resources that would help connect you to something or help elevate you that does not benefit you. Like I said last week, the guy that spent the $600 on dinner for us last week, to me, that does not count as an investment. And the reason why it doesn't count as an investment is because he probably was gonna spend that money anyway. He has it like that. He frequents a place like that. It benefited him eating there. It benefited, like he was benefiting from me being there with me, with him. So that's not necessarily that next level of financial investment just because a man spends money on you. If he spends money on you and it doesn't benefit him, that is the next layer of investment that we're looking for. Okay. So I use that to determine if I'm going to continue to date a certain kind of man. Another

Own Your Attraction Without Guilt

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thing is I gotta be attracted to him. The O in the Royal Framework is owning attraction, and I gotta be attracted. I can't, like I actually have to feel attraction for the man, not oh, he treats me good. And I know this is where a lot of high-achieving women get stuck is we meet a good man who's really consistent. He has a great job, he has a great good career, he makes great plans, he's emotionally available, and he's everything you've been saying that you want. But the problem is you don't want him. And instead of admitting that you don't want him, you start negotiating with yourself. You start thinking, oh, maybe attraction will grow. Oh, he's such a good guy, or I should give him another chance, or maybe I'm just so used to toxic men. And then six dates later, you're still trying to convince yourself to like this man because you believe you should. For me, I never, ever, ever, ever do that. Number one, I own my attraction. And when I say that, this man doesn't have to be classically attractive to everybody else. He just has to be attractive to me. I have to genuinely be excited about seeing this man. I have to genuinely look forward to when he texts me. I have to genuinely be curious about him, genuinely enjoy being around him. I refuse to date somebody that I'm not attracted to because what happens is you do you both a disservice. It's not a kind thing to do. It's not a kind thing to do for him because it's a way of stringing him along and making him think that you actually desire him in that way. And you'll never be fully devoted to a man like that. You'll never fully give yourself to a man like that. And he will feel it, even though he goes along with it. There's a be there's a part of him that will know deep down inside that you don't really want him like that. And it'll either activate his anxious attachment or it will cause him to seek to end it, right? But a lot of times we we have the anxious attachment guys and we'll string them along and they get more attached and more attached, or they find out too late that, okay, like, yeah, this girl, she's not even checking for me. And it calls resentment, possible bitterness. Not saying it's your fault that a man gets bitter or resentful, but you ain't helping when you do that. It's also not kind to yourself because you should be dating somebody that you like. You should be dating somebody that you are attracted to. There's plenty of men in the world where you could be able to have access to that kind of man. You just have to give yourself enough options to be able to do that. That's why in Curve the Cuff, we help you build your options so that you're not settling for somebody just because he looks good on paper. We show you exactly how to create a pipeline plan so that you're able to consistently meet men on a daily basis, on a weekly basis, and also help position yourself in the proper rooms so that you are meeting men that are actually on your level. Okay. So you can meet men that you actually like. All right. You should be able to appreciate a man without dating him. A good man, we should always appreciate, but that doesn't mean you need to date him. And so I don't, he's not worth my time dating if I cannot own the attraction there. So that's the O in the Royal Framework.

Yes Energy And Your Nervous System

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The why, I gotta have yes energy. I gotta have yes energy. Does this connection add to my life or does it drain me? So whenever I'm talking to a man on a phone or on a date or even through text messages, I ask myself, like, how do I feel after I spend time with him? Do I feel energized? Do did I have fun? Could I relax with him? Could I be playful? Did I feel like myself? Or did I spend the entire date managing the interaction? Trying to figure out, okay, this man, he likes to debate. One of the things when it came to my ex-husband is this man always wanted to argue. He always wanted to debate my opinion. He always wanted to prove me wrong. He always wanted to show me why his opinion was better than mine. And so when I married him, we would argue, like we would literally be in debates. I remember us debating one time for three hours about oatmeal, about the types of oatmeal. Imagine me, my grown ass with this grown ass man for three hours debating steel, uh steel cooked oats or steel oats, whatever they call them, instant oats and rolled oats. Imagine that. Or debating whether cold water is better than room temp water. Those are the dumbass discussions we would have. Prior to that, there was so much evidence that this man would be debating me because he would even debate scripture with me ahead of time. There's a difference between discussing scripture and debating it, but he would do a lot of debating around that. And so I told myself, there's no way in hell I'm ever gonna be in a connection where I feel drained afterwards. I literally would be exhausted and would have to take a nap because of his ass. All right. So that's what I mean. Like, does this connection add to my life or does it drain? The men that I date now, we can have a disagreement, but it's always energetic. Like the conversations is always enlightening. And I remember Poppy telling me he was like, you know, we disagree all the time. He said, but I love when we disagree because it challenges me. And I feel like no one judges each other in this in these conversations. I feel like we're able to see each other and come to a conclusion, even if we never agree on it. And that's what I consistently want to have with men. We do not have to disagree. I mean, we do not have to agree, but it definitely has to be yes energy in my body. I have to feel energized. I can have fun and disagree with you at the same time. I don't want to spend the entire time managing the interaction. Or I also don't want to spend time keeping the conversation going. If you send me a message that I feel like I gotta keep the conversation going, I'm most likely gonna leave you on red. Okay. I'm most likely not gonna say anything. I'm not gonna decipher. I'm not gonna say, why would he send this? I don't give a damn why he sent it. I don't care. Because I'm I'm not trying to keep this conversation going. All right. There was a man that I texted uh last week. He texted me, he was asking me how I was doing, and I texted him back, and then he sent me like he finished the sentence. So I asked him, oh, he said he relocated to Dallas. I asked him if he's new to Dallas, because of course I did my little background check and his phone number wasn't registering to any property here in Dallas. So I asked him, was he new? To Dallas, and he said, I asked him why did he come here, and he told me, he said, I he said, I'm here for like a life change. Hold on, let me go look at the message. Let me see exactly what this man said to me. Let me look it up right quick. Oh, yeah. I asked him about move, like I wanted to solidify if he lived in Dallas because I could not find the property there. And he said, Yes. Just move four weeks ago. And I said, that's exciting. What inspired the move? And he said, life change, work change. I said, Oh, I'm not saying anything else. I was that was it for me. I'm not saying nothing else. Because right now it feels like I'm not energized anymore. It feels like if I continue, I get I would be pulling the conversation. It may have not been that. He could have been busy. He's a busy man. I don't care. I'm not going to say, oh, he's busy. So I need to compensate for this conversation. No, I don't care. So I just left it there. And whenever he decided he wanted to message me back, he could message me back. And then he did end up messaging me back and then inviting me out on a date, asking me if I could get away. It was a last-minute date that I had to turn down, but he did invite me. So again, if I don't feel the yes energy there, I'm not going to be responding. I pay close attention to that. I don't want to feel like I'm a managing, uh, I don't want to feel like I'm worried about saying the wrong thing. The moment a man has me to believe that I can say the wrong thing to him, I'm done dating you. I'm done. The moment my personality is joked about, talked about, or the way that I live my life, it's done. I'm done. I don't want to do it anymore. It has to be yes energy for me. I'm not going to adjust myself for a man. Or if I'm if I have to manage a man's emotions. I'm not managing no grown-ass man's emotions or like, oh, I don't want him to feel bad. Oh, I don't want him to think I'm mean. I don't want him to think I'm not doing that. That is a lot of labor that is not my responsibility. It is his responsibility to handle it. And I think it's why a lot of us women deal with a lot of autoimmune diseases, reproductive issues, especially considering our reproductive center is our emotional center. We don't realize a lot of our emotions are stored in our reproductive system. There's no reason, there's no wonder why we a lot of us have so many problems with it when it comes to fibroids and things like that, is we bit we keep these things, we we start managing other people's emotions and we don't want people to feel this way and feel that way. And it's causing so much havoc in our own bodies. I refuse to not doing it. Or a man leaving me feeling exhausted. No, I pay attention to it. You can like a man and still not like who you become around him. You can be attracted to a man and still leave every interaction feeling worse than you did before. That is information. A lot of women ignore that information because they're only asking, do I like him? This is one of the reasons why we teach pattern recognition in Curved to Cuff, because a lot of women are like, they don't realize that they're in these patterns where they're overextending themselves because they've been doing it all their lives. They don't realize they are doing the labor for men. And so I love doing conversation reviews for women. I love doing um dating conversations, whether it's on the dating apps or text messages, so I can see these patterns and I'm like, oh, you were not a yes to this, or oh, you were overextending yourself in this instance, or oh, like you've done this three messages in a row. You need him to be this way, or you're gonna fall apart. You need him to show up this way. Oh, you're frustrated because you're scared to lose him. That's not yes energy, okay? And so I love how we're able to nip this in the bud and curve the cuff with consistent coaching.

Agreement Check On Preferences

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The A is agreement check. Does this connection honor how I want to be treated? Does this connection honor how I want to be treated? So this is different from the yes energy. Yes, energy is all about does this connection add to my life or does it drain me? The agreement check is does this connection honor how I want to be treated? Every woman has preference. She has a preference or she should have a preference for how a man should show up in her life, how a man should execute dates, how a man should um consistently show up. And notice I didn't say, does this man have to agree with all of this? He don't gotta agree. He just gotta respect it. I don't, I'm not looking for him to agree. I'm paying attention to whether I have to constantly fight for the kind of dating experience I want. If I express a preference, what happens? Okay, if I say I don't do drinks for dates, what happens? If I say Friday doesn't work for me, what happens? If I tell him I don't text between dates, what happens? Do I gotta convince myself? Do I gotta convince him? Do I gotta defend myself? Does he start trying to push back and saying, oh no, that's not a big deal? Does he start telling me I'm high maintenance because I want an Uber for the first date? Does he try to negotiate me out of what I want? Or does he simply say, okay? Or does he simply say that's fine? Or does he simply say, cool, I'll adjust and make another plan? That's what I'm looking for. I don't want to spend my dating life educating a grown man into treating me well. Absolutely not, or treating me the way I want to be courted. Every woman wants to be courted a certain way. Every woman has different levels of courtship. This is how quickly, this is another reason I know quickly whether a man is worth my time, is because I give men opportunities to respond to me. A lot of women do not do this because we are high-achieving, good girls. A lot of us don't express preferences because we're scared of what's gonna happen. We don't want to rock the boat. We won't do we don't want to be seen as high maintenance, we don't want to be seen as gold diggers. We don't want to say what we want. We don't want to say when something doesn't work for us, we're passive aggressive. We we speak in parables and riddles and hints, and we want the man to get it. And then three months later, we're still trying to figure out why this man doesn't respect our boundaries, why this man isn't giving us the dating experience we want. We haven't given him anything to respond to. Nothing. The agreement check, you need to always be looking for an agreement check. This is why I always teach my clients. I always say you need to be asking a man, sharing a preference for a man within the first week of meeting him and see how he responds to it. If you can't express a preference to a man within the first week, then you have we have a lot of work to do. We have a lot of work to do, which is one of the reasons in Curve the Cuff, we work on slow exposure. Starting slow, starting small with small preferences to build your muscle in expressing yourself and expressing your preferences and expressing the things that you like and the things that you want so that you build your muscles over time to ask for bigger and better things. I'll have a client that will start off simply just asking for phone calls instead of texts. And then she might graduate to asking for flowers, and then she might graduate to asking for a gift, and then she might graduate to asking for Ubers, and then she might grab, it just keeps graduating, right? But we're building the muscle over and over and over and over again. As I'll have ladies and they ask me, like, Torah how do I get good at doing this? It's you being able to exercise that muscle on a weekly basis, on a daily basis. Not just, so not only do you need to attract the man, but you need to be able to express your preferences to the man. And then you also need to be able to stay in agreement with yourself and not abandon yourself so that you're consistently building that muscle. It's kind of like staying in the gym. As long as you stay in the gym, you're gonna build the muscle. But the moment you're like, oh, oh, the last time I went to the gym, I got sore and I got tired and I slept longer the next day. So I don't want to go back to the gym, you're not gonna build the muscle. So a love and how and C2C, we work with building that kind of muscle. And

Leadership Response When You Say No

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then the L in the Royal framework is leadership response. I always ask myself, can I express my desires and boundaries and stay soft in my body? Can I express my desires and boundaries and stay soft in my body? When I tell the man, when I tell this man that I noticed that he planned a date, but he didn't, he told me he wanted to plan a date, but there was no time location, what happens? If I bring up a concern about him texting me after a certain hour in the night, does he listen? If I set a boundary around being unavailable to text him throughout the week between dates, does he respect it? If I disagree with him, can he stay in the conversation or does he need to defend himself? Can I be honest without being punished for it? I don't just care about how a man treats me when everything is easy. Lots of men can treat you good when everything is easy. Most humans don't know how to be pleasant. I mean, most humans know how to be pleasant when you're agreeing with them. They do. That's why we be like, oh, the real him came out. That's because the real you couldn't put up with his shit anymore. And so, yeah, the real him came out because the real you finally decided that you had to lay some groundwork down. You had to call him out, you had to note certain things, you had to put certain boundaries into place. I need information about what happens when I have a desire, when I have a preference, when I say no. And so I need to know if this man can lead his emotions, if he can lead or get defensive, if he can lead or withdraw, if he can lead or punish me. Does he make me feel like I'm too much? One of the things that came with my ex-husband is I literally could never, ever stay soft in my body. I was always tense till I was grinding my teeth, and I always had knots in my shoulders, and I had no idea that my pelvic floor tightened, causing me to have to go pee every 25 minutes because his leadership response was so chaotic. I did, it was a lot of tension in there. Okay. A man needs to be able to hear me, respond to me, and continue pursuing me. That's the information that I need. And this

Using Royal To Build A Roster

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is how I decide. So, again, how I verify if a man is worth my time? Is I look at real-time investment. Do I have attraction for him? Is there yes energy? Is there agreement check? And there's a leadership response. And that leads to me asking myself the questions in the royal framework. Is this man consistently investing? Do I actually want this man or do I just like how he treats me? Does this connection add to my life or does it drain me? Does this connection honor how I want to be treated? And can I express my desires and boundaries and stay soft in my body? You can use this framework on any man that you are talking to romantically, whether you just met him today or y'all been dating for three months. This is not about determining your husband. This is not about determining your future exclusive partner. You don't need him to be any of these things for you to use this framework. This is about building a roster. This is about dating. This is about gathering information. This is about knowing who qualifies for you to jump on the phone with him or go on a date with him. A lot of us are not evaluating men. We're simply experiencing him. We meet him, we like him, we get excited, we start talking every day, we become emotionally invested. And then once we're already attached, we start actually asking: is he a good fit? I do it in the opposite order. I am evaluating from the beginning, but it's not in an interview format. It is not me asking a bunch of damn questions, trying to get to the bottom of things. It's me paying attention in the present moment, watching how my body responds to certain things, watching how this man shows up. Is he investing? Am I attracted? Does he add the connection to my life? Does the way we're dating honor how I want to be treated? What happens when I express my desire and boundaries? This is why I don't spend weeks confused about a man. I'm not waiting for one giant red flag to tell me to leave. It could be a good ass yellow flag and I'm gone. Okay. If it doesn't fit this framework, I'm gathering information every time we interact. Meeting more men is not enough. Getting pursued is not enough. You can have five men asking you on dates and still will wait six months on the wrong one if you do not know how to evaluate your options, which is why inside of Curve the Cuff, we teach you how to create consistent opportunities to meet men, how to inspire the right men to pursue you, how to build a roster so that you actually have options and how to evaluate those options without settling for a man just because he's available or sabotaging a good connection because it doesn't feel the way you're used to. And the Royal Method is one of the frameworks we use to do that. I don't want you spending another six months asking your girlfriends or the group chat and in the comment sections of all the dating coaches on TikTok asking what a man's behavior means. I want you to know how to evaluate the man in front of you. I want you to know what information matters. I want you to be able to make decisions about your dating life without needing weeks or months of confusion before you finally trust yourself.

Waitlist And Review Request

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And if that is what you want, girl, stay tuned. The doors of Curved the Cuff is about to be open very, very soon. So keep your eyes looking and a watching. And uh, if you go to the link in the show notes, um I'll put the wait list there. And uh I will see you next time. If you enjoyed this episode, go ahead and write us a review on the podcast. Those are love notes to me. I know you love me if you write a review on the podcast. And until next time, bye.