You Are Not Crazy

He Controlled the Money — Now What? with Victoria Kirilloff

Jessica Knight Episode 176

Vctoria Kirilloff, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and founder of Divorce Analytics, brings her sharp expertise, and personal experience leaving an abusive relationship, to help listeners navigate the financial side of divorce with clarity and strategy.

Together, we break down:

  • How to start gathering financial information even if you feel completely in the dark
  • Why documenting financial coercion can become one of your strongest tools in family court
  • What a "global settlement proposal" is and why it can save you time, money, and emotional energy
  • How to avoid letting your emotions derail your legal or financial strategy
  • The most common myths survivors believe about money — and how to break free from them

Whether you're still in the relationship or knee-deep in legal battles, this episode will give you both validation and direction. 

🔗 Resources mentioned in this episode:

  • Free Financial Document Checklist: divorceanalytics.com/free-tools
  • Learn more about Victoria’s work at divorceanalytics.com

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