Thrive Solo
Let’s be real — being single and child-free? It’s pretty damn awesome. Don’t believe me? Stick around. I promise you, by listening to this podcast, you’re going to start seeing your solo life in a whole new light — one that feels empowering, exciting, and full of possibility.
I’m Lucy Meggeson, and I’m here to help you stop seeing singlehood as a consolation prize and start embracing it as the incredible opportunity that it is. Because the truth? Being single isn’t second best. It’s not a waiting room. And it sure as hell isn’t a life of lack. In fact, when you lean into it, it can be just as fulfilling—if not more so—than being coupled up with kids.
And besides, no matter what our relationship status, what we all really want is to feel good in the here and now. So instead of focusing on what’s ‘missing,’ let’s focus on what’s possible. The freedom. The adventure. The extra time and headspace to create a life that’s truly our own.
Because here’s the thing: you are so much more powerful than you realise. Your thoughts shape your reality. And when you shift your mindset, you shift your life. My mission isn’t just to help you feel better about being single—it’s to help you recognise your own agency. To help you see that you are the creator of your own experience. And that you, and you alone, get to decide what your life looks like.
So join me here every Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday, and let’s build lives that feel joyful, meaningful, and wildly fulfilling — on our own terms.
Let’s Thrive Solo…together.
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Thrive Solo
The One Where I Talk To Writers Joan DelFattore & Christina Campbell
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In this week's episode, I talk to writers Joan DelFattore & Christina Campbell.
Joan DelFattore writes about living a single life in a world geared towards couples. Following her own experience of discrimination against being single in relation to her own cancer treatment, Joan wrote a peer-reviewed article that was published in the New England Journal of Medicine in 2019, showing that patients with cancer are more likely to receive surgery or radiotherapy if they're currently married than if they're divorced, separated, widowed, or never married.
Previous guest, Christina, writes about invisible illness, singles’ rights, and the inexorable onslaught of entropy. After earning her Master of Fine Arts in Creative Nonfiction from George Mason University, Christina co-founded the singles’ advocacy blog, Onely. The site deconstructs cultural stereotypes about single hood, such as the myth that unmarried people die alone, eaten by their cats!
Topics that Joan, Christina & I cover are
- Joan’s Tedx talk, ‘Sick While Single? Don’t Die of Discrimination’, and what prompted her to do it;
- how her research unearthed the systematic under treatment of single people;
- Joan’s 2019 article, Death by Stereotype, that was published in the New England Journal of Medicine;
- how many physicians can’t get their heads around a set up that isn’t family-based;
- Christina’s thoughts around the cultural expectation that people will automatically receive all the support they need from a spouse;
- the hesitation she sometimes feels around asking friends for help as a single woman;
- how Christina’s chronic tick-borne disease has often be misunderstood and even, at times, disbelieved;
- the discrimination Christina faces with regards her healthcare as a single woman;
- how she went to see a psychologist due to her ‘abnormality’ with regards not wanting to get married;
- Joan and Christina’s thoughts and advice around going through illness as a single;
Christina’s Website:
www.christinadc.com
Contact Christina:
www.onely.org
Email Joan at:
jdel4444@gmail.com
Joan’s Website:
joandelfattore.com
Joan’s Tedx Talk - Sick While Single? Don’t Die Of Discrimination:
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