Thrive Solo
Let’s be real — being single and child-free? It’s pretty damn awesome. Don’t believe me? Stick around. I promise you, by listening to this podcast, you’re going to start seeing your solo life in a whole new light — one that feels empowering, exciting, and full of possibility.
I’m Lucy Meggeson, and I’m here to help you stop seeing singlehood as a consolation prize and start embracing it as the incredible opportunity that it is. Because the truth? Being single isn’t second best. It’s not a waiting room. And it sure as hell isn’t a life of lack. In fact, when you lean into it, it can be just as fulfilling—if not more so—than being coupled up with kids.
And besides, no matter what our relationship status, what we all really want is to feel good in the here and now. So instead of focusing on what’s ‘missing,’ let’s focus on what’s possible. The freedom. The adventure. The extra time and headspace to create a life that’s truly our own.
Because here’s the thing: you are so much more powerful than you realise. Your thoughts shape your reality. And when you shift your mindset, you shift your life. My mission isn’t just to help you feel better about being single—it’s to help you recognise your own agency. To help you see that you are the creator of your own experience. And that you, and you alone, get to decide what your life looks like.
So join me here every Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday, and let’s build lives that feel joyful, meaningful, and wildly fulfilling — on our own terms.
Let’s Thrive Solo…together.
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Thrive Solo
The One Where I Talk To Sociology Professor, Dr Ketaki Chowkhani
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In this week's episode, I talk to professor Ketaki Chowkhani.
Dr Ketaki Chowkhani is Assistant Professor of Sociology at the Manipal Centre for Humanities. Single and childfree herself, Ketaki designed and teaches India's first ever course on Singles Studies, and her writing on singlehood has appeared in the New York Times, The Hindu, Psychology Today, and Square Peg UK, among others. Her writing and teaching on singlehood has been mentioned in The Guardian, the New Statesman UK, and The Hindu.
Topics that Ketaki & I cover are:
- her story around being single and childfree;
- how her conviction about single life being right for her has been a gradual process;
- how both of us feel as though we’re ‘single at heart’;
- how Ketaki came to create and teach India’s first course in single studies;
- the one main difference between being a single woman in India and being a single woman in the west;
- how Ketaki’s parent have responded to her life choices in terms of being single;
- the pressure she has had to deal with from her extended family;
- her essay in Angelica Malin’s book, Unattached;
- being a trailblazer for single women;
- some of the ways in which singles are discriminated against, and the common stereotypes;
- Ketaki’s research into what is making single hood possible / easy or not, i.e. housing, laws, and what can be done to improve things;
- how provisions for single people can affect whether or not someone stays in an abusive relationship, and how important it is to make singlehood desirable;
- reclaiming the term ‘spinster’ which Ketaki also uses in her Instagram handle!
Follow Ketaki on Instagram:
@spinster.adventures
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@chowkhani
Read Ketaki’s essay in Angelica Malin’s book, Unattached (UK Link):
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Unattached-Essays-Singlehood-Angelica-Malin/dp/1529110394
US Link to the book:
https://www.amazon.com/Unattached-Essays-Singlehood-Angelica-Malin-ebook/dp/B0946G7RX7
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