Thrive Solo
Let’s be real — being single and child-free? It’s pretty damn awesome. Don’t believe me? Stick around. I promise you, by listening to this podcast, you’re going to start seeing your solo life in a whole new light — one that feels empowering, exciting, and full of possibility.
I’m Lucy Meggeson, and I’m here to help you stop seeing singlehood as a consolation prize and start embracing it as the incredible opportunity that it is. Because the truth? Being single isn’t second best. It’s not a waiting room. And it sure as hell isn’t a life of lack. In fact, when you lean into it, it can be just as fulfilling—if not more so—than being coupled up with kids.
And besides, no matter what our relationship status, what we all really want is to feel good in the here and now. So instead of focusing on what’s ‘missing,’ let’s focus on what’s possible. The freedom. The adventure. The extra time and headspace to create a life that’s truly our own.
Because here’s the thing: you are so much more powerful than you realise. Your thoughts shape your reality. And when you shift your mindset, you shift your life. My mission isn’t just to help you feel better about being single—it’s to help you recognise your own agency. To help you see that you are the creator of your own experience. And that you, and you alone, get to decide what your life looks like.
So join me here every Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday, and let’s build lives that feel joyful, meaningful, and wildly fulfilling — on our own terms.
Let’s Thrive Solo…together.
E-mail me at lucy@lucymeggeson.com
Thrive Solo
The One Where I Talk To Author & Modern-Day Nomad, Lisa Jansen
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In this week's episode, I’m talking to author and modern-day nomad, Lisa Jansen.
Lisa was born and raised in Germany, but has lived in New Zealand for 17 years. When she was 33, she realised that the ‘traditional’ life path of marriage and babies wasn’t necessarily for her, and she decided to buy a camper van which she lived and travelled around New Zealand in for four and a half years. During her travels around New Zealand, Lisa wrote her first book, ‘One Size Does Not Fit All’, and she has since written ‘Life Done Differently’ which documents the high and the lows of her time on the road. Lisa is happily single and childfree, and is currently housesitting in Auckland, whilst working part-time in marketing which has been her career since she arrived in New Zealand.
Topics that Lisa & I cover are:
- how her 33rd birthday weekend was the beginning of her ‘mini life crisis’;
- how the ‘dream’ of marriage and babies didn’t seem to resonate with her;
- how Lisa initially planned to live and travel in her camper van for a summer;
- Lisa’s journey of personal growth and how important self-awareness and mindset are to her;
- thinking ‘outside the box’ and considering other options when it comes to the 9 - 5;
- the challenges of ‘swimming against the tide’ and how Lisa’s whole life had prepared her for it;
- relishing alone time, and how Lisa has a very rich inner world;
- how the most valuable lesson Lisa has learned from her nomadic lifestyle, is how little she needs to be happy;
- the idea in society that the ‘normal’ path in life inevitably leads to happiness, whereas anything else is ‘risky’;
- how and why Lisa differentiates between being ‘solo’ and being single;
- Lisa’s top three places in New Zealand;
- what can be gained from travelling on your own.
Follow Lisa on Instagram:
@lifedonedifferentlynz
Find Lisa on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/LifeDoneDifferentlyNZ
Check out Lisa’s website:
www.lifedonedifferently.com
Buy Lisa’s ‘Life Done Differently’:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Life-Done-Differently-Journey-Travelled-ebook/dp/B0CD969CXW
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And thank you so much for listening!