The Conscious Couples Podcast

#93 - How Your Self-Talk is Affecting Your Relationship

November 20, 2023 Alan Lazaros and Emilia Smith
The Conscious Couples Podcast
#93 - How Your Self-Talk is Affecting Your Relationship
Show Notes

The power of nonviolent communication and its transformative potential in how we communicate, especially with ourselves, and its impacts on our relationships. Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts and real-life couple Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. We talked about how self-talk significantly affects our relationships. We discussed the negative impact of violent self-talk and the importance of adopting a nonviolent communication approach in our self-talk. Nonviolent communication provides a valuable framework for transforming our self-talk and, by extension, our relationships. It's about recognizing and harnessing our words' power to foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships with ourselves and others.

Show notes:
[1:25] Understanding Non-Violent Communication
[3:10] The takeaways
[6:03] Understand & recognize when NVC is happening
[7:15] Recognize and overcome NVC
[10:30] Bonnie has this to say about Alan and Emilia's Relationship Talks
[11:49] How can we be better at NVC with ourselves?
[13:52] The four elements of NVC
[14:31] "When I ___, I feel ___, because I need ___. Would you be willing to ___?"
[18:36] Outro

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