The Conscious Couples Podcast

#103 - Are You Afraid of Being "Not Enough" or "Too Much"?

January 29, 2024 Alan Lazaros and Emilia Smith
The Conscious Couples Podcast
#103 - Are You Afraid of Being "Not Enough" or "Too Much"?
Show Notes

Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts and real-life couple Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. They explored a familiar relationship dilemma many face: the pervasive feeling of being either ‘too much’ or ‘not enough’ for one’s partner. This intricate emotional terrain often leads individuals into a maze of insecurities, questioning their worthiness and the balance of affection within their romantic connections.

Show notes:
(2:05) How to overcome insecurities in relationships
(7:04) Openness leads to progress
(8:43) The concept of turtle puff
(10:11) Grace, space, and acceptance
(13:07) Bonnie has this to say about Alan and Emilia’s Relationship Talks.
(14:28) Identify and confront the root
(15:40) Which one of these kind of hurts? Worthiness, loveability, and defectiveness
(18:04) The importance of creating that safe space
(19:15) Applying the real or not real method
(24:31) Outro

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