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Confessions of an Amazon: Fetishes, Fat Desire & Power
Chrystal and Merf welcome back Amazon Amanda, towering fetish icon, professional Amazon, and founder of BBW XXX Adventures, for Confessions of an Amazon: Fetishes, Fat Desire & Power.
Amanda takes us inside her world of fetish, where “no nudity, no sex, no release” still means high intensity. From lift-and-carry sessions and scissor holds to the creation of BBW XXX Adventures, she shares how she built a career that celebrates fat desire, supersized BBWs, and true body diversity in porn.
We also dive into boundaries, burnout, softness in a hypersexualized industry, and why representation matters. And just when you think it couldn’t get wilder, we drop in a Listener Mail Break featuring one of the strangest texts we’ve ever received, and Amanda’s unfiltered reaction says it all.
✨ What you’ll hear in this episode:
- Confessions from Amanda’s 20+ years as a professional Amazon
- Launching BBW XXX Adventures and spotlighting supersized BBWs
- Burnout, boundaries, and keeping space for softness
- Listener mail: when kink meets chaos
- Fetishes, fat desire, and representation in porn
- Toys, fuck machines, and sex-tech on tour
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- BBWXXXAdventures.com
- Twitter: @AmazonAmanda
& @BBWAdventures
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Welcome to Big Sexy Chat, the podcast where fat joy, pleasure and real talk take center stage. In this episode, crystal and Murph are joined once again by the legendary Amazon Amanda, a towering force in the fetish world and the visionary behind BBW XXX Adventures. Bbw XXX Adventures, we talked about everything from boundaries and burnout to why representation of all bodies in adult entertainment matters, plus a juicy listener mail break that had us all shaking our heads.
Speaker 3:Let's just in time for a little something juicy with Crystal and Murph. Dark and fat sex, big feels, hot takes and kinks. We're breaking all the rules, babe.
Speaker 4:What you think. It's Big Sexy Chase. Say it back now. Big Sexy Chat, let's go.
Speaker 5:Welcome back to Big Sexy Chat. I'm Crystal. I'm excited to have a special guest here today with us Amanda, Amazon, Amanda and of course, my beautiful co-host is here, Murph Hi, Murph Hi. And if you're new to Big Sexy Chat, we're thrilled to have you, and if you're a regular listener, you're going to recognize Amanda's voice and her beautiful face. She's been on with us before and it was so much fun having her, so we're excited to get back to it and see what's going on with her business. She's got all kinds of fun stuff going on, so we're so happy to see your face and thank you for coming back, Amanda Well thank you guys for having me.
Speaker 3:You guys are freaking amazing. I mean, you guys have grown so much just since that first episode and now up for awards and it's been quite the ride.
Speaker 4:We have a really good stat, though, for your episode.
Speaker 5:I think it's the most watched on youtube for our videos yeah yep, she's like 7 000 downloads, I believe, of your video with us. Yeah, let's see if we can top it all right, I like that. That's some good energy so, amanda, tell us, what have you been up to? What's going on with you right now? I know you still have the adult film movie business and you're still doing your. Um, what do you call your business, your amazonian?
Speaker 3:so I have multiple plates. I'm a professional amazon. Amanda is how I started almost 23 years ago as professional amazon. Throw on some six inch heels, b6869, tower over guys. More the fetish, as there's no nudity, no sex, no release, strictly fetish. You know I get to live to carry smother, sit, crush, leg, scissor, foot, uh, foot fetish all over it cbt, ball kicking, tickling, nipple, torture, role play, like all that. But then, seeing that there was a okay, I personally viewed it as a huge hole in the bbw porn per se videos.
Speaker 3:Um, I started bbw triple x adventures to show that there is more diversity, there is more than the status quo. You're 24 and you're this perfect size, 12 BBW, no, so BBW Triplex Adventures focuses more on, you know, supersized BBWs, your everyday beautiful women, thick curves, bbw, supersized BBW, alt. We even have a couple trans like just to cover everybody that every size is beautiful, every person is beautiful and every person is sexual like. So, yeah, that's been keeping both ends busy. Um, I'm getting up gearing up for a europe tour, but I'm also bringing big, big cherry, my social media manager for adventures, over with me Because there are a lot of international BBW babes that need some recognition.
Speaker 3:So we're meeting up with some over there and then gearing up for Exotica that's coming in New Jersey in October. That's like the largest one of the year. So it's yeah. And then we already got avian prenoms and getting boosts. Oh, and I'm moving. But you know, hey, let's just toss that into the when are you moving to? I'm actually going to have a place in Vegas for adventures and for my personal life. Seattle.
Speaker 5:Very cool, awesome, hey, so I didn't know that you do behavioral therapy right. Cbt, right Cockball torture, oh yeah, cockball torture oh, that's the other kind of therapy.
Speaker 3:But it is therapy.
Speaker 5:I know, I know You're right, it is especially for the person giving and the person receiving.
Speaker 3:Actually, Very much so. It's like true behaviors for sure. Would you like me to reinforce this behavior, or would you like to try and just wait?
Speaker 5:I love it. So Las Vegas is my hometown. What makes you want to move there? Just because there's so many sexy fat BBWs there and lots of sex going on?
Speaker 3:It's definitely more lively than Idaho. I love Idaho, but with the whole family change here because over the year my mom passed. So it's huh yeah, Because I would tour, come home and see mom, tour, come home and see mom and I'm like, yeah, we're good, let's go full bull into these other two. But yeah, all the conventions, everybody flying in is kind of like the hub and everybody goes to Vegas, so there's just a larger availability and people come in for the weekend.
Speaker 4:They come in. Yeah, I think the Hustler Club there was like the first to do like a whole plus size BW setup. So you know, I think that it's kind of and that's where the BBW Bash is held every year. It makes sense that you know that's kind of like the hub.
Speaker 3:It really is, and so it's kind of known. As for the events, because, yeah, the Excellence Plus had the bbw bash and we sponsored the burlesque evening, uh, with a burlesque workshop so you can come learn some moves, do some strip, and then had a whole, well um, burlesque event. So it before you know that little lull um between okay, here's an event time and before the dance it's like hey, come, we had like eight amazing performers come and do some burlesque and some jip and it was, yeah, it was pretty hot, but you can watch some BBW babes with curves and figure and fat rolls get out and do the whole. Yeah, it was amazing.
Speaker 5:I'm always perplexed why they have that. It's olivier right his his event, yeah, yep.
Speaker 3:Why in july in las vegas it's a pool party, but oh my god, it's so hot there really I think it started around because brie brown, she had, like the original bb Batfest, the BBW bash, and then, well, let's try and have it around the same time. So if you're coming in for one you can stay and linger for the other. But now it's such a different demographic between both and then, really, july is the only month that there isn't anything else going on, because August is FetCon, and then all the stuff in Florida, and then sometimes in September, then you hit the Halloween bashes and then October is. It's just busy.
Speaker 5:I guess I don't have FetCon on my radar. When was FetCon or when it was the first?
Speaker 4:week of August, down down in saint petersburg, fetish con very cool, so I think we need to find when that's going to be in california in vegas.
Speaker 3:Okay, okay, yeah no, these are like all over the the country she's a globe trotter.
Speaker 4:She, she's always on the go stay put one place what?
Speaker 3:there's like some gypsy blood in there somewhere like vagabond.
Speaker 4:So I was thinking about how how do you protect your space with all these kinds of now these huge, you know activities and moving and life changes and all those kinds of things? But also, like I'm just curious, is there like a?
Speaker 3:what Meditation?
Speaker 4:Meditation. Yeah, I'm just thinking like you're so, like you're like almost hyper-sexualized, like on a constant basis, right, and then it can be very like isolating, like traveling and doing that kind of thing, and then you're just kind of stuck in that space, probably a lot. So I'm curious like tell me about meditation and how that works for you, because a lot of people are like oh, I can't clear my brain so I guess I can't do it and then just write it off. So I'd love to hear your techniques.
Speaker 3:Oh my gosh, that is taking me 20, almost 22 years to come, because it is it's. You know, all my emails are oh my gosh, you're so beautiful, you're so this, I can't wait for you to do this. And there's very none of them approached me as hey Amanda, how was your day? Hey Amanda, how was grocery shopping?
Speaker 4:Like there's no mundane task discussions.
Speaker 3:Or it's the that. Oh, when you go grocery shopping, do you wear your heels and do you bend over, and do you really like? Or do you tower over the person in front of you and do you ever just hip chuck some like? So everything as easy as like grocery shopping is fetishized. Or when you go clothes clothes shopping, oh, does it fit? Is it too short? Is it too this Like? Do you rip seams? Do you travel?
Speaker 4:Well, and all the dirty details.
Speaker 3:So it's like it's learning to kind of step back and be like okay, because I actually just had another model. She's new in the scene and she's like how do you do this? Because I've only been at it three months, this could be a full-time job just replying if you let it. And then it's, she found she goes. There's no workplace cooler. It's like there's no place to go and be like hey, you know, girl talk, how was this? Or you know, oh, my God, can you believe this happened? And so there's not that break or that camaraderie. And then she said and women, I've tried making friends and she goes, but then their husbands get jealous because they think she's going to want to do what I do. Or then the woman is jealous, thinking like oh my God, my husband's going to want to do this, this and this. And I was like so it's seeing that like, oh, wow, okay.
Speaker 3:So you know, asking the same question, how Trial and error, and learning that you have to have boundaries. And because you'll have, like I meet a lot of amazing guys, like some I've sessioned with or I've known for 20 years since I started. But then they start to feel like they're your best friend and it's like I love you and we do share a lot, but this is still me, my space. But it was like love you, my space. And just recently it was the meditation of like okay, manifestation, like taking that 10 minutes every morning to like center.
Speaker 3:But really the biggest change for me was actually opening up my personal life to a partner Because, you know, for 20 some years it's been like been like you know the song um, I'm a traveling man, I'm like in every port and when in doubt you gotta buy. So you know I'm busy, I'm tired, I'm just gonna take care of myself, call it good. Um, but yeah, it's, I actually started being involved with someone and over the last four years it it's. I mean like every relationship. First two years were, but this last year is like holy shit, this is what people talk about. This is that where you can confide and talk and like feel that for the first time we're like that safe space that safe space.
Speaker 3:I don't have to be Amazon, amanda, all the time. I can be like you know. Even though that's how we met, it's like no, I know there's multiple sides to you, just like there's multiple sides to me, and so to be able to have that, I'm like oh, we're good, we can keep doing this.
Speaker 4:We're fine. Yeah, I'm so glad to hear that you're happy and and fulfilled in a relationship and it's just it might be your era. Yeah, cougar era. I like that a lot.
Speaker 3:It is a good feeling to have a safe place to go back to and just get yourself centered um, because, yeah, I, I definitely was close to burnout, you know, and I mean, and I would never post online because a lot of models do it's like you guys did this, you did this, or they set up the. I mean, I know this is a hard time for most, but it's the. You know, setting up the GoFundMe and you know it's like like I'm just old school when it comes to that. Like this is your professional persona. This isn't a. I need help paying my car bill, my kids need clothes, my this I mean there is need for that, but it's just knowing. When you need to take a step back is when I don't go on tour. For a couple of months I don't do a lot of sessions because it can be very emotionally and mentally draining. So I had to come back recharge. But now God bless Cherry, she takes a lot of adventures off of me because there now is more demand to film with us.
Speaker 3:When I first started, I could only really shoot with the models that knew me, because I'm not Amazon. Amanda isn't per se in the adult. Like you know, I'm not out there filming blowjobs or, you know, comic shots or any of that. So a lot of the girls in that room. Who are you? Yeah, but now it's like, oh okay, like, can we film? Like there's more demand and requests than my budget allows right now. It's a good problem to have, it really is. It's like, guys, as soon as we win the lottery, we will be shooting. I say, buddy, but Sherry kind of helps, they will then try and direct contact me directly. Hey, so they will then try and direct contact me directly, hey, so, um, so then I'm dealing with my guys and then also potential talent, my, I'm like so, yeah, thankfully for cherry, she kind of helps. You know, there's tears, right, the american idol. You got to make it past this table to get you that's right, the semi-finalist down to the finalist.
Speaker 3:So yes, she really helps me a lot too.
Speaker 4:How do you add softness, like you were talking about, you know the burnout and that sort of thing, like I'm imagining in your role because there's so much power dynamics and you know all the I'm bossing you around and like how do you add in that softness? What does that look like for you?
Speaker 3:Oh my gosh, like um, I. I really had to do a lot of inner work realizing that for what I do, I was coming from a place of more masculine energy and not really embracing my, the true feminine, or like as feminine as I could be, because it's feminine is amazing. It's not what my clientele are here for. They're here for that that assertive, that power play, that masculine, like that role reversal. Asserted that power play, that masculine, like that role reversal. So to learn to be able to, I employ Amazon Amanda, but now I take back that power and embrace who I am. Um, it's been a struggle because you know I can be like, okay in my, but as soon as I get an email, I'm like, oh yeah, right back there, especially when they're like and they know what they're doing. You know when I'm saying customs or sessions or everything like and I was like, okay, pause, and you know I tell my boyfriend like okay, just give me 20 minutes, let me just get out of that mind frame. So then you can have me, not Amazon, amanda.
Speaker 5:I guess, when you say emails and stuff like that, like things that are annoying, or people are upset about something, or they're requesting something that you can't do, or what, is it that's upsetting?
Speaker 3:I no longer offer lifting carries at the moment For your back. I've been doing this for over 20 years and when I started I had no problem lifting Piggybacks firemen over shoulder, like all those. Let me tell you, men are just as bad as women about lying about their weight. So when you say, okay, 200 pounds is my max, because, again, see, they're coming from the aspect of well, but I just want you to lift me. Okay, but there are 20 other guys in this city that also want me to lift them, so, yeah, it's, I had to take a break for that. And then, honestly, I will be totally honest there was a point where lack of hygiene huge, because when you lift them, their armpit is right by your face.
Speaker 4:Oh yeah, that's a no-go.
Speaker 3:And when you get these guys that don't believe in deodorant, because that's my manly musk, or they come straight from the gym and I just don't want that in my face. That's just rude.
Speaker 5:In my industry we say shower within the hour.
Speaker 3:And it really is and they're like, but I took a shower this morning. No, no, it's about 7 pm.
Speaker 5:Balls are stinky, okay.
Speaker 3:And then they want to wrestle and you're like sweaty balls, it's like. And then it's like, um, yeah, and a lot of the well, can I pay you like no nudity. Does that mean for me too? I'm like no nudity period. Can I pay extra? No, no, and it's like, but like, see, there's this thing. You have a penis that does not always behave.
Speaker 5:So when you get hard, even though you say I think you're gonna have pre-cum, I do not want pre-cum anywhere touching my body exactly we have that problem too in my industry, because if we're working on people's penises, you know we're doing the electrology, you have to touch it, which means and I have gloves on, but we know when you touch a penis, first of all they get confused someone's touching my penis, that means happy, happy times, and then I'm gonna get ready to zap it, but anyway, um, and then, yeah, just by moving it and touch it and stuff, you know, because I'm, I do electrology the blood flow just makes it direct.
Speaker 5:And then you know, even though nobody's really turned on, I don't think there's going to be pre-tractament. It's like, well, I don't know, we put a little tissue over the top like a little hat, so it absorbs it.
Speaker 3:Yeah, and it's like, and even the guys, I mean you'll get the ones like you know, because I say there's no release, no bodily fluid. Well, but what if I can't control it? If you're a 30-some-year-old man and do not know how to, I will help you. Done and like do we have any questions?
Speaker 5:I'm going to learn it, yeah.
Speaker 3:And they're so like uh. So I mean, erections happen, it's totally fine, you just keep going. But it's the ones that try and then wrestle and rub up on you. Yeah, that's just, that's a no.
Speaker 5:Men they're not. They're just not sending us their best stuff right now.
Speaker 4:Okay, so for all the you know, stinky armpits, pre-cum kind of guys, what's like something that really touched you from a fan Like a reaction or like something that really reminded you why this is good like for you.
Speaker 3:I really am blessed with a lot of amazing, amazing guys that I've met. Some of them it's helping through either early trauma, earlyhood trauma, some it's accepting like, okay, I have this kink, I don't know why I have it, where it came from or what, but X, y and Z said I'm bad. X, y and Z said I'm bad. I'm like you are not bad, you are not a bad person, you are not a sinner and it's like I just. You know they love pantyhose and they just love the feel, the smell, the texture and I'm like in my head, okay, well, that usually goes back to a mama fetish.
Speaker 3:You know the time when you last felt comfortable was when your mom was wearing. You know to hear that, but we don't discuss that because I am not a therapist. But yeah, it's just a lot of when they can have that moment and just be like vulnerable and or when they just thank me that. You know I've been watching you for so many years and you know I finally had the ability and like the balls to do this. Yeah, when I can have that connection with them, it's like, yeah, okay, this is, this is why have you ever had anybody get tearful?
Speaker 5:because I had a client recently who got overwhelmed and uh, started crying a little bit and she said I'm just so excited I can't believe I actually found a way to get rid of my, my facial hair and she started crying. I was like I'm so touched, but has that ever happened to you in?
Speaker 3:the weirdest way. Okay, not so much weird way, but I wasn't expecting it. It was a gentleman that came and he wanted a role play session. Like, okay, yeah, that's fine, I'm totally down for role play, but it was disciplinary. I'm sure that in a former life I was a disciplinarian, but he was very specific. He brought a detention note and he got bad grades I, of course, was the mom A bar of ivory soap to wash his mouth out and then did verbal degradation of him for how he humiliated the family, how he embarrassed the family. I'm like this is childhood trauma at the core. I'm like this is childhood trauma at the core. And then he brought his own ruler, because he was, I was smacked with the paint stick and and we went through the whole thing and then it was like tears of thinking and he goes.
Speaker 3:Thank you for allowing me to work through that. It was also to take power over that whole situation, so it was no longer that little boy suffering. But yeah, that was like. That did a trip on me too, because I was like I mean, once we got into it, I'm like this is not a scene, a fetish scene. This is trauma reliving. But yeah, when you can talk through that and it's like or we just reassure them, you are fine. This is because it's like the ones I see. It's not sexual, we're not there for oral, we're not there for sex, it's just, you know, like lake scissors. Okay, you like that feeling of being of crushed, squeezed, and it's to be able to have that release. To be able to have that release, but it's also, if you love the bigger, stronger, thicker women, have that communication with yourself on why you are involved with skinny, thin, petite, weaker women. So this is what your body, mentality, everything cravesves.
Speaker 1:This is who you're with because society says you should be with producers. Note we're adding in a very special listener mail break here because we had a wild text come in that ties in perfectly with what amanda was saying. Here's what that text said okay.
Speaker 2:So I have a girlfriend and she is very nice and very sweet and very beautiful, but she is so skinny and I just love me a big woman Like I'm in love with fat and plus-sized women and I don't mean to waste her time, I just don't have the heart to break up with her. So I wanted to know if you could homewreck me by exposing me to her so she can dump me. I want her to be able to have the power to end things between us so that she can move on and go find herself a real man, because she deserves so much better than a loser like me who fetishes getting dominated by big women.
Speaker 1:Disclaimer we at Big Sexy Chat do not feel that people who have fetishes are losers. Anyway, during the episode I brought this up to Crystal and asked her to fill Amanda in.
Speaker 5:Let's listen to how that went. The gist of it was that this guy took a long time for him to get there, but basically he wanted us to help out him as a terrible person so that his girlfriend would break up with him because she's thin and he's only attracted to fat women.
Speaker 3:I get those. I get them. I hate them Because I stay away from those. I get them. I hate them because I stay away from those because, well, it's on multiple layers. One, they're with the individual and it's are they asking for assistance on how to break up from that situation, which there are, those that don't see the fetish side of it. It's strictly okay. I've been conditionally trained and subjected to I should only be with thin women, society, acceptable sizes, and because of that peer pressure, that is who I continue to see. But then it causes fights, it causes distress, it causes withdrawal, it causes depression. But I see I received more of the fetish side of those guys, knowing full well what they're doing.
Speaker 3:I'm in a relationship. It's successful, it's happy, we're both giving. We have to. I want out, I want you to blackmail me. Here is my wife slash girlfriends, her social media, her picture, her work, her phone number. I want you to go in and like so you're telling me you don't have the balls enough to end it and you're going to put her through this humiliation. It's like that.
Speaker 4:Sorry, like that ceo, that um is now suing coldplay because he got caught.
Speaker 3:like we just can't take any responsibility no, and it's like if you were not cheating period, this would never have happened. You're only suing because you got caught and your whole life went um. It's very, it's very. There's so many levels to that, to that situation, um and then I'm always suspicious, like is this his kink?
Speaker 5:right? It is us telling him, no, we can't do it for him. I assume everything is that anybody reached out to us about is about their kink.
Speaker 3:So I'm like no, no, no you know it might be different that you're like more of a podcast and like educational and informative, like in that aspect, like okay, genuinely asking how can I? But then also he's been told by providers like yo, that's money. I will tell you exactly how to fuck up your relationship, but that's going to cost you. I will tell you exactly how to fuck up your relationship, but that's going to cost you. Yeah, I've dealt with those in the past and I avoid them. That is a lot of money Very rude.
Speaker 3:It was like yo, okay, I have two instances that just happened to me. Regarding that, I have an individual that I film. He's lovely, he's amazing, he's great. We get a lot of great footage. You know, there's again no nudity, no sex, no release, it's all just crushing leg scissors. I get an email from his girlfriend yesterday and it was let me just read it to you do we have time for this? Because this gets juicy absolutely. I'd love tea girl um, okay, where did she go?
Speaker 4:I love that women blame. Well, yeah, they blame. They blame the other woman instead of the man. It's like who's the problem here? The guy, like it doesn't even sound like it's a problem because he's just asking for service from you. It's not like he's cheating on you in that kind of way. You know, oh it gets better.
Speaker 3:Very funny, basically. Okay, where'd she go? Basically, she was saying that she was just made aware of pictures and that I've met with her boyfriend, who she has been in a committed relationship with since 2022. And she was just made aware that he has made multiple filmings with me, blah, blah, blah. And they're this, and here's a screenshot next to two pictures of them, like at a wedding. And I'm like and will you please confirm um dates? You saw him any details that make? Oh no, um, you know other than. But okay, just to give a peace of mind that please know, there was absolutely no nudity, no sex, no release. It was this.
Speaker 3:And then she's like well, what dates? I'm like I'm not giving you dates. I'm like, you know, at that point I just messaged the individual. I'm like I just thought you need to be aware that your girlfriend emailed me and his reply was this is when you know they're jilted, thank you, but we broke up two months ago and you know it was an abusive, toxic relationship, this and those. Because she said he showed the videos to a girl and that girl then told her and he's like yes, those in my personal circle are fully aware of my activities I'm very proud of and I enjoy what I do. So of course they're going to know, but please I apologize. This is very embarrassing and I'm just like move on, lady, just move on.
Speaker 3:Yeah, talk very much, so now she's like I need dates times. I'm like you already broke up. What's the point like other than it was your fault.
Speaker 5:See, this was your fault that and do do they think that he might want to get back together because she's stalking him? I'm like you're really digging yourself. Your hole's getting way way deeper.
Speaker 3:You're not making yourself look better, you're making yourself look ridiculous oh, and he said it was a very evasive, very just like control it.
Speaker 4:I'm like well, guy, I just don't. Yeah, it's. I struggle with those types of things because it's just like what, what are you getting out of that? Like there must be some aspect of codependency that is impacting how you're processing that.
Speaker 3:He was six five blue eyes of finance.
Speaker 5:Ladies, Enos is plentiful. It's everywhere. There's so much of it. It's so easy to find a new one lady, Move on.
Speaker 3:And then I had another who came to me. I had to reiterate I am not a therapist. I will charge you $1,000 an hour if you want me to act as your therapist, because I will tell you what the fuck are you doing. He's like I love the BBWs, I love the bigger, taller, stronger. Blah, blah, blah. But let me tell you about my amazing wife and what she does. I think I actually mentioned her on the last time I was on, so, if I apologize, I took her to all the top Beverly Hills specialists to get her a butt, give her boobs, give her thighs, to make her into what his vision of the perfect woman is. Even though she's perfect, she's this, she's this. She still wasn't good enough for him. And then he's like and she gets mad when I ask her to measure. I'm like because she knows she already doesn't measure up to your standards.
Speaker 4:And thank you for all the surgery, because now I'm going to go get me a sugar daddy.
Speaker 3:Yeah, and then it was I'm like, well, and I've gone to 12 step and this is an addiction. I'm like, no, it's not, and it's like you know that is you have to work through that. He goes well. Don't you think I'm like I have nothing to do with your situation? Yes, some people just don't know how to take accountability. It's like this is your fault. You offer this. You have the body I crave. You have the body I want.
Speaker 4:It's your fault.
Speaker 3:You exist, it's like damn you Right, like you do. Well, I don't have a surgeon, I just have my mama and Gene.
Speaker 4:I'm curious with BBW Adventures. What is the most downloaded type of Supersized BBWs?
Speaker 5:Supersized BBWs.
Speaker 3:Anything in particular, anything and everything If they are over 300 pounds. We're talking. Vivian Rose, erin Green, though she's retired. Kayla Peach, because, again, these are not your typical BBW bodies that are featured Right. It's because, again, if you're not the 24 year old co-ed with the big boobs, tiny, belly, little bitty, you know it's. But it's also a difference of, I believe, a female produced studio and a male produced studio, because they're, they produce what they want to see.
Speaker 5:For the male gaze.
Speaker 3:And I want to portray that all bodies are beautiful and, you know, it's really by creating that visibility you create awareness, like there are bodies like this that exists, there are bodies like this that are sexual, that are beautiful, that are capable. You know, and that's when we saw the BBW burlesque in Seattle, I told Cherry, we talked like we have to do it, we have to try, we have to do the inclusion because, you know, in Idaho there's nothing like that. Here, you know, or it's that if you don't fit into the burlesque costumes, make your own Ink. So, yeah, you have to make space to exist.
Speaker 5:And representation is very important, and I'm sure that even I mean anybody. If you're a thousand pounds, you can still have orgasms, you can still have sex. It doesn't matter. Our bodies are capable of doing anything a sand body can do. We might have to have some. You know we need some changes and tweaks and stuff, but we are. We can experience just as much pleasure as anybody else. I don't care how much you weigh absolutely, and we're sexy af.
Speaker 4:Like you know what that's what I really love about um, your company is just the diversity of everyone. You know what that's what I really love about your company is just the diversity of everyone. You know that you bring on it's like you're seeing different types of bodies, like I have got. I always say I'm in the itty bitty, titty committee for the fat girls Cause I just got little boobs, you know, but it's like I don't see that a lot. Like you know, not only are you talking about like the um, very thin big girl, little waist, you know that kind of thing. Or big boob, little waist, um, you know, it's like to see different styles, different, um, gender identifications. Like it's just a really neat uh space.
Speaker 3:Thank you yeah, that's something that I really wanted to strive for. There's been times where it's like, well, can't we have more of? I'm like they're coming. But after you know, and I tell Trey, okay, I want diversity and I need more than cause. There's some sites you go and it's like white, white, white, white.
Speaker 5:I'm like we're our stem hot as full like I want diversity of all kinds, not just, you see, ethnic diversity, exactly all that stuff, all that and I'm like, okay, yeah hell yeah, of course, all humans can be hot, or our heart or hot, um. So there's no shortage of actors or actresses that want to work with you, right?
Speaker 3:No, and it's great because now we're actually being approached by more sex toy companies, and I've always personally been fuck machines.
Speaker 5:Oh, I have one. Let me tell you.
Speaker 3:But when they've always been the cheap ones like $24.99, blah, blah and it's like that's going to break. They're sturdy heavy and we put them up against some like, yeah, vivian Rose used one and a couple others, and I mean, it's hard. You might not be equipped, but don't worry, our fuck machines will get it done. Oh baby.
Speaker 5:Yes, it will, that saddle equipped, but don't worry our fuck machines will get it done.
Speaker 4:Oh, baby, yes, it will. If that saddle. That was the first toy that we talked about on the. The first episode we had was the unicorn saddle okay, those are just yeah.
Speaker 5:Yeah, I still want to be on my knees, though, not like that. I mean, I can be on my knees, I don't have to do anything, my knees, I don't have to go up and down. Exactly, the fucking machine is just you, just you, just basically take it, you just take it, it's so funny.
Speaker 3:And the fact that it's like on an app and your partner can be controlling it. Like if you're out of state, out of country, out of town, like you can still have that intimate moment or they can actually be part of it. Like you know you're getting railed, but then you're also oral play or everything.
Speaker 5:Yeah, One of the hosts of Big Sexy Chat has a husband who really likes electronics and apps.
Speaker 4:We can talk Absolutely, app-solutely.
Speaker 5:Yeah, I know he's a big fan, huh yeah.
Speaker 4:No, they're fun. I mean, it's really cool that you can. You know, the technology is advancing so quickly, like different patterns and the different motors and the things that you can control on it and, like you said, anywhere you know, it's like it's got to be a godsend to a lot of folks that are in long distance. Relationships to a lot of folks that are in long-distance relationships and also even when you use those toys alone.
Speaker 5:it's like a remote control for you to control the vibrations and the speeds and stuff.
Speaker 3:Yeah, it's a game changer, you know, but it's one where, like with my partner, we had to say no, fuck machines without me.
Speaker 5:I'm like, okay, honey, it's okay, how do you find your male porn stars?
Speaker 4:Those, are easy to find.
Speaker 5:I'm sure there is no shortage, yeah.
Speaker 3:Right now. I personally prefer to work with a lot of already established talent. Now, knowing that not every established male talent is comfortable with working with BBWs. See, there's this little thing called male ego, because it's amazing, when you put even like a six, seven-inch dick next to some thick thighs and a belly, they can still look that big. Next to some thick thighs and a belly, they can still look that big Even though they are packing. They can get the job done Visually. They just can't get over it. So we do try and give some newer talent opportunities, but once we find the ones that work, we kind of tend to stick with them a little bit. Yeah, there's no shores of the fans going. I would love to work with you guys only if I can shoot with this. This not everybody as those three and it's like no that's not how this works.
Speaker 4:Move out of the way. There's somebody behind you that's more than willing.
Speaker 3:Well, and then I remember when I first started the, I didn't fully understand the difference between oh yeah, they're just swingers, that's just swinger sex versus okay, that's a porn star. Like, can you explain this to me? Because I'm like still learning. I have like she's learning curve. Like, yeah, so you see this scene like you're just filming them having sex and it's like you can't really see anything. You can't see the penetration he doesn't open up to the camera. I'm like so this is where kids sorry, teens when they're first starting their sexual like you know exploration, get the false identity of this is what girls want. No, that is a porn scene.
Speaker 5:Okay, that is not realistic I would say we're real, just regular people. We're not the gold medal athletes of porn, yet we just do the normal stuff. You know, I'm not gonna swap semen with my best friend for you sir, no problem, I will or have a plate. I'll not doing that, we're just regular. We're not getting paid. If you want to pay me 10 grand per scene, we'll talk okay no, even then I would go.
Speaker 3:And it's so funny because, like with my um, I have to joke with sherry, because I'm like I have a hard time with the smell of cum if it's not with my, if it's not my partner, because then it's like what they eat if they're on medication, if they're on like all these other things, if they're hydrated, and I'm just like eating garlic and I'm like I actually can't be on set most of our scenes because I am that 13 year old and I'm like for professionalism.
Speaker 3:I will be over here, I will pay you, but just yeah, I think all men think that they could do it.
Speaker 5:They could be a porn star, right, but they have no idea like you have to perform like now yeah okay and they hang on five minutes. Okay, okay now and perform again now. But yeah, not all people can do that and we're switching positions.
Speaker 3:Okay, now I'm going to be over your shoulder looking straight down, or I'm going to be between your legs looking straight up. Yeah, and it's like, okay, don't get shiny key like what and forget what you're doing and then look at me, but you should be the yeah, it's, it takes an adhd kind of person yeah, well and yeah multi, multitask.
Speaker 4:I think that also you run, like the, into the issues of, like I've been doing this for so long. Or you know, like the, I'm like uh, what's his name? James dean. Like, like, and then he ended up like raping somebody or something horrible like whoa the domestic was like. You know, I'm just, this is what I do you know right.
Speaker 3:And now it's, like you know, with the choking and the diss, and now the consent, the um, there's so much more that goes into adult filming. Now you have to actually have the audio of you are consenting. You are consenting to A, b, c, d. You can consent that. Your consent can be removed. You can take your consent back at any point during filming. But yeah, and there's so many laws that they're like they just don't want porn around, so it's, and it's so vague and so broad and it doesn't make sense. And now it's when you have to age verification on your spotify account and like all these, like who's watching me?
Speaker 4:well, it's the thing they want to control the most, you know, because it's like, oh well, if the kiddos get a hold of this stuff and we make it so that they're got to find out what it is, then you know they'll go and look at those things and over sexualize or fetishize or whatever, because they're not supposed to look at those types of things. And you're bad and guilt and shame.
Speaker 3:But for an administration that's going to pay money to have kids. Here's kind of a to-do list.
Speaker 4:Right Hot, this is kettle.
Speaker 3:This will help you get to your mom.
Speaker 5:Exactly yes.
Speaker 4:Wow two, you won't exactly. Wow. Well, usually we end um the show by asking what's your favorite sex toy. I mean, it sounds like the fuck machine takes the cake, but um you travel with it. Exactly I was gonna say you said that, uh, you've got something that you can keep uh on the go, this little number.
Speaker 3:Amazing, he is always in my purse. Who leaks that one? You know, I actually have no idea it was a gift given out at XBiz.
Speaker 5:I like that. It's like a pocket rocket of some kind.
Speaker 3:Yeah, and the little power button, it's got like multiple settings.
Speaker 5:Does it take a battery or is it USB?
Speaker 3:No, it's charged, so it's charged, so it's got. Where's the the? Little power cord magnets does not like those kind of connectors because I also realized that if I ever lose the cord, I lose this, you're screwed.
Speaker 4:Yeah, it's good, it's yeah right. So let's describe what you're looking at.
Speaker 5:So people are listening. Only let's describe what it looks like.
Speaker 3:Oh, so it's about the size of my pointer finger.
Speaker 4:Remember, she's an Amazon.
Speaker 3:It's okay. Don't worry I wrote one, two, three inches long. It's really just for clitoral stimulation. That's it.
Speaker 5:Yeah, Multiple settings you turn on it's silicone you can just knock one out real quick if you need to.
Speaker 4:Oh yeah, it's kind of got like a little singerish yeah a little flat it's flat cool finger pad yeah it's perfect.
Speaker 3:If you need more, you just turn it to get that ridge. Nice, yeah, it's it. Multiple speeds, multiple speeds, and it is a little zip, zip, zip. Why would they even do that? That makes me think like the battery's quitting. I know, me too. I never understood that like no, I want personally, constant, constant.
Speaker 5:I like the one that's the sound of sex, which is like oh yeah, I like that one.
Speaker 4:Since someone said it sounds like mac and cheese. Well, that's the name of your vibrator now, just so you know Mac and cheese. When you're like, where's mac and cheese, I'll wait for somebody to actually bring me some mac and cheese.
Speaker 3:You want to be like.
Speaker 5:Marina, that girl, marina, that we all know. She always know, she always talks about um macaroni sounds, the sounds of macaroni that's right, so true, though it's like moist, moist pasta.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I don't like that one, no stop I always think of david tell when he says um, you know, having this kind of sex where it sounds like a boots boot stuck in mud, only wetter, you know that like slurpy yeah, what's what's going on? For you what's, what's next?
Speaker 5:what's going on, what's new and exciting?
Speaker 3:you're, you're moving, you're going to have your do work, your business there, to make movies and stuff there in vegas yes, so right now I have two weeks home in boise, boise, idaho, and then I then I head to Vegas to do a photo shoot and we have a scene, and then we fly out for Europe for three weeks yeah, that's London, paris, amsterdam, berlin to get the largest sex show. That's actually bigger than Exotica, not Milan, milan, yeah. And then back home in time for one week down to then go to exotica in new jersey.
Speaker 4:Oh, I have time off in december well, that'll be nice a little, a little break before you start the new year. Yeah, yeah, how exciting.
Speaker 5:I'm so happy for you. Oh, thank you. Thank you guys for having me on. You guys are an a little break before you start the new year.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah, how exciting. I'm so happy for you. Oh, thank you. Thank you guys for having me on. You guys are an absolute blast. I love you guys. Yeah we love you too.
Speaker 5:I'm very sorry about your mom, though I'm sorry, I know that's rough.
Speaker 4:Thanks, yeah, that was. Yeah, I can imagine.
Speaker 5:I'm excited, but you're upright, you're looking good. It looks like you're still keeping yourself busy and that's a good way to deal with not having to be focused on the grief. Sometimes it's good and bad, right, but I'm glad that you're doing so well I love to hear that.
Speaker 4:And that you found somebody that really brings joy to your life.
Speaker 5:That's really great that we talked about, I guess, when we saw you a couple years ago, mm-hmm that was Very cool.
Speaker 3:Yeah, and the other one is, yeah, we had some hurdles to go through and then I was like, okay, I was one of those, because I was like, look, I'm cool saying every couple of months of this, but what are we? What is this In my waist? He might like so once we had that, because I mean, he didn't come out, he had his relationship issues and baggage, and so, yeah, we just put everything on the table and was like, all right, let's work through this. And it's been freaking amazing it really has.
Speaker 5:Oh, that is so cool, it makes me so happy.
Speaker 3:Hey, make sure you tell everybody how they can find you I have my website, amazonamandacom, and that's for me, amazon Amanda and all my fabulous friends and fetishes only. Or, if you'd like a little BBW porn BBWXXXAdventurescom, and both respective Instagram is Amazon Amanda. No, sorry, twitter, don't go. Instagram, I'm getting banned every three weeks. Yeah, twitter is Amazon Amanda and BBW Adventures. So come join the adventure. We have a lot of fun.
Speaker 1:So great to see you.
Speaker 5:Thanks, Riff. Do you want to tell everybody where to find us?
Speaker 4:Yes, you can find us at BigSexyChatcom. You can find us at BigSexyChatcom. You can find us at BigSexyChat. On all of the socials. We're not on X, though, or Twitter. Yeah, we don't like Elon, so we just said, no, we're gonna. Yeah, it's the I dissent collar. Love it and it's on my middle finger.
Speaker 2:So when.
Speaker 4:I flip people off. I can be like love it, I'm a congressional stand.
Speaker 5:That's right, fuck you.
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