Big Sexy Chat Podcast
Big Sexy Chat is a bold, unfiltered podcast exploring fatness, pleasure, identity, and the realities of living in a body the world wasn’t built for.
Hosted by Chrystal, the show features candid conversations with guests across the fat, sex-positive, and body liberation communities. Together, they dig into everything from relationships, intimacy, and adaptive sex, to medical bias, media representation, mental health, and the politics of existing out loud.
This isn’t surface-level body positivity. It’s deeper, messier, and more honest.
Big Sexy Chat creates space for stories that don’t get told often enough, centering fat voices without apology, without shame, and without shrinking to fit someone else’s comfort.
Expect real talk, hard truths, humor, and moments that stay with you.
Because pleasure, dignity, and visibility aren’t luxuries… they’re rights.
Episodes
81 episodes
Get Your Ass On The Pole
The gym can feel like a test you’re doomed to fail, especially when the world treats your body like public property. Chrystal sits down with Roz the Diva, a plus-size Black pole dancer, coach, and lifter, to talk about gym intimidation and why ...
Chub Rub: Fat Babes & Crop Tops
In this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal sits down with Candace Frank, the artist and designer behind Chub Rub Clothing, a brand creating bold fashion, art, and accessories rooted in fat liberation and unapologetic joy.
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Merf: After Awhile Crocodile
This episode is a little different.It’s not a typical Big Sexy Chat conversation… It’s something softer, heavier, and a lot more personal.Merf joins Asherlee (co-producer & editor for Big Sexy Chat) for an honest, unfiltered c...
JenX: The Story Behind The Talk
Everyone sees the talk. Few hear the story behind it.JenX: The Story Behind the TalkFan-favorite guest Jen McClellan returns to Big Sexy Chat to take us behind the scenes of
Dare To Date: Meet Hips, Crips & Queers
What if dating apps were built for real bodies? Real needs. Real safety.In this episode, we sit down with Liz Gewirtz, the founder of Hips, Crips & Queers, a new dating and community platform centering queer, fat, disab...
Still Here, Still Fat: What 2025 Took, What 2026 Demands
As 2025 comes to a close, Big Sexy Chat gathers for an end-of-year roundtable conversation about what this year took, what it revealed, and what the fat community is being asked to carry forward into 2026.Joined by
ChitChat with ToyChats: The Reviews Are In
In this episode, we’re joined by Cam Jennings from ToyChats.com, a platform built entirely around user-generated sex toy reviews.We talk about why ToyChats exists in the first place, how the platform actually works, and what makes a revi...
Thrust The Machine
In this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal, Merf, and Asherlee dive piston-first into the wild, fascinating, and sometimes downright hilarious world of sex machines, electricity play, and the evolving landscape of pleasu...
Embodied Sovereignty: Healing, Ritual, and Reclamation with Rawiyah Tariq
This week, we’re honored to sit down with the brilliant Rawiyah Tariq; a Black, fat, disabled, and neurodivergent artist, writer, and healer whose work reclaims space for marginalized bodies and spirits through ritual, storytelling, and embodim...
Mary Lambert’s Tempest of Liberation: Same Love to Self-Love
Mary Lambert joins us for a powerful, intimate, and joyful conversation that bridges music, activism, and radical self-love. From her breakout with Same Love to her new anthem The Tempest, Mary shares how art becomes resistanc...
Jeff Jenkins And The Weight Of Representation
What does it mean to carry the weight of representation as a fat, Black traveler on the global stage? In this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf sit down with Jeff Jenkins, award-winning travel and food personality, speaker, p...
Confessions of an Amazon: Fetishes, Fat Desire & Power
Chrystal and Merf welcome back Amazon Amanda, towering fetish icon, professional Amazon, and founder of BBW XXX Adventures, for Confessions of an Amazon: Fetishes, Fat Desire & Power.Amanda takes us inside her wo...
More Than Just The Tip w/Sheri Winston
This week on Big Sexy Chat, we’re joined by the incomparable Sheri Winston — award-winning author, wholistic sexuality teacher, and founder of the Intimate Arts Center — for a deep, delicious, and occasionally freaky conv...
Leather, Lube & Liberation: BDSM, Fat Joy & Sex Signals
In this juicy new episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf are back with updates, laughter, and deep dives into fat pleasure, power exchange, and the ways we signal our sexy truths to the world.🎙️ Merf shares her exciting new job and...
Hot Thigh Summer: Traveling Fat with Jen McLellan
Traveling while fat? Oh, we’re going there — and we’re taking the aisle seat and the window. In this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf are joined by the incomparable Jen McLellan: author, speaker, certified childbirth educato...
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Inclusive Kink, Fat Pleasure, and Adaptive Sex Gear - with Sportsheets’ Rin Musick
In this juicy, gear-loving episode, Chrystal and Merf sit down with Rin Musick—award-winning road warrior, longtime adult retail expert, and current Brand Ambassador for Sportsheets. Together, they dive into fat-positive and accessible design i...
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Unsupervised Shenanigans With Merf And Asherlee
Chrystal’s out, which means Merf and Asherlee are left unsupervised—and naturally, chaos ensues. But beneath the laughter, we get real. We talk about fat liberation, therapy fails, the touch-deprivation epidemic, and how cuddle therapy can be h...
Building a Bold, Curvy Empire – Marie Denee Gets Real
Chrystal and Merf welcome the incomparable Marie Denee, founder of The Curvy Fashionista, for a real-talk episode packed with fashion, fire, and fat joy. Marie shares her journey from launching a blog in 2008 to becoming one of the mos...
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Fat Con, Kink & Fat Liberation
Chrystal and Merf are back with a bold and juicy new episode diving into Fat Con 2025, kink exploration, and radical fat liberation.💥 Merf shares her journey into kink—including rope classes made for fat bodies, becoming a pleasure Dom, ...
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Fat, Flexible, & Fabulous; Stretching For Better Sex
Are you really old… or do you just need to stretch? 🤔 In this episode, we chat with Vera from Flexibility with Vera, a flexibility trainer who helps folks—yes, including fat folks—move with more ease, less pain, and maybe even spice thin...
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Party in Your Panties – The Hottest Toys with Lovehoney’s Kim Card
💋 *We’re back, baby!* Season 4 kicks off with a bang—literally—as we dive into the world of pleasure products with the fabulous **Kim Card** from **Lovehoney**! This episode is packed with laughs, lube, and next-level orgasms as we put some of ...
Sex, Health, and Fatness: A Look Back at 2024’s Biggest Moments
This episode reflects on the significant milestones and conversations that shaped the fat community in 2024. From exploring the impact of sexual wellness products to discussing the complexities of dating and health, we take a look back at the t...
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The Fat Five Roundtable: Podcasting For Change
In this special roundtable episode, we welcomed an all-star lineup of fat podcasters to discuss the state of fat liberation, the impact of fat-focused media in 2024, and their bold goals for 2025. Featuring Dr. Krista Nabar and Suzy Hooker from...
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Knot Your Average Art: Shibari for Every Body and Identity
Bec, a non-binary and body-inclusive rope artist, shares their compelling journey with Shibari, challenging misconceptions and celebrating its transformative power. Discover how this age-old Japanese practice transcends mere aesthetics, offerin...
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Healthcare Havoc: Breaking Bias for Size-Inclusive Care
Regan Chastain, a powerhouse advocate for fat liberation, joins us to tackle the insidious nature of medical weight bias and the challenges it presents in everyday scenarios, from healthcare settings to holiday gatherings with family. Discover ...
Fat And Fabulous: From Influencers To TV Show Takedowns
Are societal stereotypes about body image and size finally being dismantled in pop culture? Join us on Big Sexy Chat as we celebrate both the triumphs and setbacks of fat representation in media. We kick off with an enthusiastic spotlight on Miche...
Clitoracy: A Journey Through Pleasure’s Hidden History
Discover the secrets and mysteries of female anatomy that will make you question everything you thought you knew. Prepare for a mix of humor and enlightenment as we kick off with a bizarre tale of a book club member with two vaginas, leading us in...
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Psychic, Spicy, Fierce Fatty: A Grim Guide
Ever wondered how reclaiming the word "fat" can become a badge of pride and empowerment? Our latest episode of Big Sexy Chat welcomes Grim, a multifaceted powerhouse and celebrated figure in the fat-positive community. Join us as Grim takes us thr...
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Scale Fail: How Medical Fatphobia is Weighing Us Down
What if your weight didn't define your healthcare? In this eye-opening episode of Big Sexy Chat, we're joined by the empathetic and brilliant Dr. Robert, a board-certified family physician committed to eradicating medical fat phobia. He shares ...
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Poly Want A Throuple? Myths, Love, and All the Feels
What if the love you sought could be found in multiples? Join Merf and Asherlee, our phenomenal producer and editor, as she unravels the complexities of polyamory. Asherlee, who steps in for Chrystal in this episode, shares her personal journey...
