The Ben & Jamesa Podcast: Conversations about Compassion, Curiosity, and Courage

Ep. 132: Netflix's Adolescence and the HVO Cycle

Ben and Jamesa Season 8

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In this episode, we dive into Adolescence, Netflix’s hit series on toxic masculinity, disconnection, and the Manosphere. We break down how the show illustrates the Hero-Victim-Offender (HVO) Cycle—the pattern that keeps men trapped in harmful identities—and what it reveals about power, control, and connection.

We also answer a key listener question: What’s the difference between therapy and therapeutic coaching? 

Tune in for a deep dive into Adolescence, masculinity, and breaking free from cycles of harm.

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