You’re Not Doing It Wrong—You’re Doing It Alone

You listen.
You nod.
You try to apply what you’re learning.

And still—something isn’t quite moving.

If that’s you, pause with me for a moment, because here’s the truth we don’t say out loud enough:

You are not doing anything wrong.

Most of what you’re trying to change—burnout, boundaries, habits, presence, sustainability—was never meant to be done in isolation. Not squeezed between patient visits, portal messages, and bedtime routines. Not silently. Not perfectly.

In this episode, we talk about what actually changes when women physicians stop trying to do this work alone and start doing it in community.

We explore three powerful shifts that happen when you’re supported instead of self-managing everything:

1. Community changes what feels possible
When you hear someone name your thought out loud, shame loosens its grip. You realize your struggle is patterned—not personal. And suddenly, you’re not wasting energy on self-judgment. You’re solving the real problem.

2. Accountability becomes support, not pressure
This isn’t about being pushed harder. It’s about being witnessed. About having your intentions held with you when your energy is depleted—and celebrating the small, meaningful wins that actually move the needle.

3. Self-kindness grows faster in relationship
Most of us didn’t learn compassion alone—we learned it by being treated kindly. In supportive spaces, we borrow that voice at first… until it becomes our own. And that voice is what sustains real change.

This episode also introduces The Practice—a connected community for women physicians who are done trying to “fix themselves” and ready to practice a more sustainable way of living and working.

Inside The Practice, you’ll find:

• Twice-monthly themed group sessions
• Open office hours for real-time problem-solving
• Monthly 1:1 coaching with me
• A space where your intelligence is assumed, your exhaustion makes sense, and your humanity is not treated as a problem

You don’t need more discipline.
You don’t need to try harder.
You don’t need to do this alone.

🎧 Listen to the episode, and if something in you whispers “this is what I’ve been missing,” that voice is worth trusting.

👉 Learn more about The Practice.