The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast

Ep. 163: Not Ungrateful, Just Traumatized

Season 3 Episode 50

In this Mini Series episode, I dive into a nuanced conversation around gratitude practices for perinatal trauma survivors. While gratitude can be a powerful tool for healing, it often becomes complicated when paired with the experiences of trauma, grief, and loss.

Whether you’ve felt pressure to “just be grateful” or are searching for ways to reconnect with yourself and your story, this episode offers validation and actionable insight.

🔑 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

  • The challenges of embracing gratitude after birth trauma
  • Why traditional gratitude practices can feel dismissive for survivors
  • How to reframe gratitude to honor your trauma and truth
  • Making space for both/and: joy, pain, grief, and healing
  • Giving yourself permission to feel your full experience

📲 Connect & Learn More:

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