The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast
Birth trauma is the dark and sometimes scary side of pregnancy & postpartum that no one wants to talk about. But, we're here to change that! I'm Kayleigh, a licensed therapist and birth trauma survivor, determined to bring birth trauma out of the shadows and into the light. When we talk about birth trauma, we take away its power and leave space for healing. Your birth trauma does not need to “happen for a reason." Birth trauma sucks and it’s okay to admit that. Join us as we navigate what it means to heal from birth trauma. You’ll hear from experts in the field as well as others who have experienced birth trauma. Storytelling and education are keys to raising awareness and better understanding how we heal trauma. We don’t do toxic positivity in this space, but you’ll definitely hear some dark humor. You’ll laugh and you’ll cry, but, most importantly, you’ll learn that you’re not alone and that healing is possible. Birth trauma is bullish*it, but your healing is not.
The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast
Ep. 231: Part 1 When an ER Nurse has an AFE (and is conscious for most of it) feat. Olivia
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On today’s episode of The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast, Kayleigh is joined by Olivia, a nurse, Navy veteran, and fellow AFE survivor, who shares her powerful and truly unique birth story.
Olivia walks us through her experience of an amniotic fluid embolism (AFE) during the birth of her son, Theo, including the unimaginable reality of being awake and aware during much of her own resuscitation. Her story is both medically complex and deeply human, highlighting the layers of trauma that can exist even when lives are ultimately saved.
This is Part 1 of Olivia’s story. 🤍
In this episode, we discuss:
✨ Olivia’s background as an ER nurse and Navy veteran
🌍 Deploying during COVID and the impact of repeated medical trauma exposure
🤰 A challenging pregnancy while working night shift and relocating alone
⚠️ Early warning signs like vision changes and rising blood pressure
🏥 Electing for induction at 39 weeks and questioning that decision afterward
🫁 The sudden onset of shortness of breath — a key symptom of AFE
🚨 Rapid deterioration and emergency C-section under intense circumstances
😳 Being awake and aware during her own medical emergency
🩸 Developing DIC (disseminated intravascular coagulation)
🏥 Massive transfusion protocol and ongoing resuscitation efforts
⏳ A prolonged, 23-hour decline leading to ECMO
🫀 Understanding how AFE can present without full cardiac arrest
🫁 Being placed on VV ECMO for lung support
😨 Experiencing awareness while paralyzed in the ICU
👂 Hearing conversations, procedures, and care while unable to move
💬 The importance of how providers speak around patients — even when they appear sedated
Olivia’s story is a profound reminder that trauma is not just about survival — but about what is experienced during those life-threatening moments.
Her perspective as both a patient and a medical provider offers an incredibly rare and important lens into birth trauma, critical care, and the lasting impact of these experiences.
Be sure to tune in next week for Part 2, where Olivia shares her recovery, mental health journey, and what it was like to go on to have another baby after AFE — something rarely discussed. 🤍
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