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The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast
Birth trauma is the dark and sometimes scary side of pregnancy & postpartum that no one wants to talk about. But, we're here to change that! I'm Kayleigh, a licensed therapist and birth trauma survivor, determined to bring birth trauma out of the shadows and into the light. When we talk about birth trauma, we take away its power and leave space for healing. Your birth trauma does not need to “happen for a reason." Birth trauma sucks and it’s okay to admit that. Join us as we navigate what it means to heal from birth trauma. You’ll hear from experts in the field as well as others who have experienced birth trauma. Storytelling and education are keys to raising awareness and better understanding how we heal trauma. We don’t do toxic positivity in this space, but you’ll definitely hear some dark humor. You’ll laugh and you’ll cry, but, most importantly, you’ll learn that you’re not alone and that healing is possible. Birth trauma is bullish*it, but your healing is not.
The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast
Ep. 234: What Patients Need to Hear: Trauma-Informed Scripts for Providers
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In this mini episode, Kayleigh is speaking directly to providers, nurses, and healthcare workers about the real-life application of trauma-informed care. Moving beyond the buzzword, she breaks down how trauma shows up in healthcare settings, and more importantly, how communication can either help prevent or contribute to it.
This episode is packed with practical, easy-to-implement scripts and mindset shifts you can use immediately in patient interactions. From validating fears to navigating emergencies and repairing missteps, Kayleigh highlights how even the smallest moments of connection can have a lasting impact on patient outcomes.
Whether you’re a provider looking to deepen your approach or a patient wanting insight into what trauma-informed care should look like, this episode offers powerful, tangible takeaways.
✨ A mini episode for providers, nurses, and healthcare workers on trauma-informed communication
🧠 Why trauma-informed care is more than a buzzword—it’s a necessity for every patient
💬 Real, practical scripts: what to say (and what to avoid) in common patient scenarios
❤️ The power of validation—100% of community feedback emphasized feeling seen and acknowledged
🔍 Why trauma is subjective and not defined by the “severity” of the medical event
🏥 How small shifts (eye contact, body language, reading charts) can transform patient experiences
⚠️ The harm of “empty reassurance” and what to say instead when patients express fear
🙌 Asking for consent: giving patients autonomy in even the smallest moments
🚨 Communication during emergencies—how seconds of connection can reduce trauma
😔 Supporting patients through unexpected outcomes (like unplanned C-sections) with empathy
🔄 Repairing missteps: how owning mistakes can completely change a patient’s experience
📊 The long-term impact of validation vs. invalidation on postpartum healing and support-seeking
🌱 A reminder: your words matter—sometimes one moment stays with patients forever
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Disclaimer - The views and opinions expressed by guests on The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect the official stance, views, or positions of The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast. The content shared is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as professional or medical advice and/or endorsement.