The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast
Birth trauma is the dark and sometimes scary side of pregnancy & postpartum that no one wants to talk about. But, we're here to change that! I'm Kayleigh, a licensed therapist and birth trauma survivor, determined to bring birth trauma out of the shadows and into the light. When we talk about birth trauma, we take away its power and leave space for healing. Your birth trauma does not need to “happen for a reason." Birth trauma sucks and it’s okay to admit that. Join us as we navigate what it means to heal from birth trauma. You’ll hear from experts in the field as well as others who have experienced birth trauma. Storytelling and education are keys to raising awareness and better understanding how we heal trauma. We don’t do toxic positivity in this space, but you’ll definitely hear some dark humor. You’ll laugh and you’ll cry, but, most importantly, you’ll learn that you’re not alone and that healing is possible. Birth trauma is bullish*it, but your healing is not.
The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast
Ep. 240: Chronic Illness, Pregnancy Loss, and a Traumatic Birth feat. Megan
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In this episode, Megan shares her journey through recurrent pregnancy loss, chronic illness, medical trauma, and a life-threatening birth experience that led to her son’s premature arrival. Her story sheds light on the complexities of pregnancy after loss, the realities of navigating the healthcare system with chronic conditions, and the lasting impact of birth trauma and a NICU stay.
💔 Recurrent pregnancy loss and the emotional toll of experiencing multiple miscarriages while searching for answers
🧬 Navigating fertility challenges, including diagnoses of lupus, Factor V Leiden, and stage 4 endometriosis after years of dismissed symptoms
🏥 The frustration and harm of not being taken seriously in the medical system—and the impact of delayed diagnoses
🌈 Turning to IVF after loss and holding onto hope while navigating pregnancy after trauma
🤍 The reality of pregnancy after loss—living in survival mode, dissociation, and the fear of not bringing a baby home
🦠 A sudden and severe decline at 30 weeks pregnant, leading to a diagnosis of sepsis and ICU admission
😨 The terror of not being able to breathe, rapid health deterioration, and facing the possibility of intubation while pregnant
👩⚕️ The life-saving importance of provider advocacy and finally being heard during a critical medical emergency
👶 Premature rupture of membranes and delivering a baby at 30 weeks after days of labor and medical complications
⚠️ A traumatic labor and delivery experience, including unmanaged pain, a failed epidural, and lack of compassionate care
🍼 A two-month NICU stay and the heartbreak of going home without your baby while navigating postpartum recovery
🧠 The lasting impact of birth trauma—how it shapes identity, parenting, anxiety, and the postpartum experience
🤝 Finding healing through community, shared stories, and validation after trauma
💬 The power of vulnerability and why sharing our stories matters in breaking isolation and creating connection
Megan’s story is a testament to resilience, advocacy, and the importance of being seen, heard, and supported. If her story resonates with you, know that you are not alone and that your experiences and feelings are valid. 💛
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