The Confident Swinger Podcast
The Confident Swinger is BACK! The Lifestyle can be challenging, with all the thoughts and feelings it can bring up. The Confident Swinger helps you navigate that, while also focusing on YOUR personal journey. It's time for YOU to build your confidence and embrace YOUR badassery!
Episodes
167 episodes
Some Good Advice
Jo and Chad are headed on vacation, but we wanted to give you a quickie episode with some of our favorite pieces of advice.
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Season 4
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Episode 154
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21:00
Don't Kiss & Tell
Today, Chad and Jo talk about sex. Or, more precisely, they talk about PEOPLE talking about sex.People are going to talk, it's human nature. They are going to talk about their experiences, good or bad. And in the LS, that often includes ...
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Season 4
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Episode 153
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33:57
Let's Talk about Flirting
In today's episode, Jo talks about one of the things that a lot of people struggle with in the LS... flirting.Flirting is important, especially in the LS. And it can really make or break your success. The most important thing about flirt...
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Season 4
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Episode 152
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42:45
Let's Talk About Sex
Chad and Jo talk about sex in the LS... the good and the bad. They talk about what makes sex so good, and some of the things that make it challenging.
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Season 4
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Episode 151
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42:59
Holding Your Partner Back
Sometimes, it can feel like you are holding your partner back in the LS. Like, maybe, they would have more fun or have more opportunities if you weren't there. In today's episode, Chad and Jo talk about holding your partner back.
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Season 4
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Episode 150
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40:08
Lifestyle Vibe
In today's episode, Jo gets a little vulnerable and talks about her healing journey through the lifestyle. And she talks about her annual girl's trip, and how healing that is for her, too.
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Season 4
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Episode 149
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24:33
Chemistry vs. Comfortability
Do you find yourself playing with the same people? If so, have you ever wondered why?Is it because you have good chemistry with them?Is it because you are comfortable with them, and that makes it easy?Or is it somewhere in ...
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Season 4
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Episode 148
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39:29
Getting Things Started in a Group Setting
It can be awkward to initiate the play in a group setting. It seems like everyone wants it to happen, but nobody makes the first move. Jo and Chad talk about what makes it awkward or hard, and offers some ideas and suggestions for g...
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Season 4
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Episode 147
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42:07
TCS: Navigating the LS if You're Overweight
In this episode, Chad and Jo talk about navigating the LS as overweight people.
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Season 4
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Episode 146
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32:46
TCS: Talking to the Partner
In today's episode, Chad and Jo talk about talking to the partner of someone you are interested in playing with. They talk about whether or not it is important or expected, what you should and maybe should not say, and when. They talk about the...
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Season 4
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Episode 145
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39:57
Getting Out of a Not So Confident Slump
Everyone gets into a slump sometimes and feels less than confident. Today, Jo talks about ways to pull yourself out of the slump.
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Season 4
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Episode 144
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14:10
TCS: Am I Too Picky?
In today's episode, Jo talks about being too picky. And she talks about being in your head and overthinking things.
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Season 4
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Episode 143
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20:30
Playtionship Break-ups
Playtionships, or the relationship between play partners, often end. Sometimes they end organically, and sometimes one person or one couple ends it. It's easy to say that it's ok to end things, but the reality is that sometimes it's challenging...
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Season 4
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Episode 142
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30:40
LS Break-ups
Break-ups are a part of life, and when it happens in the LS it's even harder for everyone to navigate.Today, Chad and Jo talk about navigating through the break-ups, whether you are on the inside or outside.
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Season 4
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Episode 141
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36:18
Summertime Shortie Episode
Just a quickie episode, and intro to summer/call out for Jo's birthday.
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Season 4
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Episode 140
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15:05
Closing the Deal
One of the things that people struggle with the most in the lifestyle is closing the deal... actually getting to the play. Jo and Chad talk about their struggles with closing the deal and give some perspective and tips to hopefully make it a li...
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Season 4
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Episode 139
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36:55
Making the First Move
In today's episode, Jo rereleases episode 4 from June of 2022, making the first move. It's a fan favorite, full of great ideas.
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Season 4
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Episode 138
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27:39
Having No Expectations... Easier Said Than Done
Jo and Chad talk about going into LS situations with no expectations. It's easy to say that, but it's a lot harder to do it in real life. Our brains like to create expectations of how the night or the event is going to go, and that can lead to ...
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Season 4
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Episode 137
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37:08
Going from Online to Real Life
People often try to meet LS people online, whether on websites, apps, or social media. And it can be challenging to go from talking to someone online, where it's "safe" to the real world where you don't have a keyboard to hide behind. Chad and ...
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Season 4
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Episode 136
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36:43
Don't Label an Experience as Bad
Not all LS experiences are unicorns and rainbows. Often, they can be uncomfortable, or even what some people label as bad. In today's episode, Jo talks about reasons why you shouldn't label your LS experiences as bad, because it cou...
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Season 4
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Episode 135
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25:09
Putting Together a Meet N Greet
Jo and Chad talk about the challenges of hosting a meet and greet.
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Season 4
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Episode 134
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20:00
TCS: When NOT to Play
The LS can be a lot of fun and can enhance your life and your relationship. But, it can also bring a lot of drama if your own relationship is not rock solid. Don't bring other people into your drama... know when NOT to play.
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Season 4
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Episode 133
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19:48
The Confident Swinger is BACK!
The Confident Swinger is BACK! The show has gone through some changes, but we are back to the original and ready to be better than ever. Thanks for sticking with us and giving it another shot!
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Season 4
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7:35