The Confident Swinger Podcast
The Confident Swinger is BACK! The Lifestyle can be challenging, with all the thoughts and feelings it can bring up. The Confident Swinger helps you navigate that, while also focusing on YOUR personal journey. It's time for YOU to build your confidence and embrace YOUR badassery!
Episodes
161 episodes
Chemistry vs. Comfortability
Do you find yourself playing with the same people? If so, have you ever wondered why?Is it because you have good chemistry with them?Is it because you are comfortable with them, and that makes it easy?Or is it somewhere in ...
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Season 4
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Episode 148
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39:29
Getting Things Started in a Group Setting
It can be awkward to initiate the play in a group setting. It seems like everyone wants it to happen, but nobody makes the first move. Jo and Chad talk about what makes it awkward or hard, and offers some ideas and suggestions for g...
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Season 4
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Episode 147
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42:07
TCS: Navigating the LS if You're Overweight
In this episode, Chad and Jo talk about navigating the LS as overweight people.
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Season 4
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Episode 146
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32:46
TCS: Talking to the Partner
In today's episode, Chad and Jo talk about talking to the partner of someone you are interested in playing with. They talk about whether or not it is important or expected, what you should and maybe should not say, and when. They talk about the...
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Season 4
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Episode 145
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39:57
Getting Out of a Not So Confident Slump
Everyone gets into a slump sometimes and feels less than confident. Today, Jo talks about ways to pull yourself out of the slump.
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Season 4
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Episode 144
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14:10
TCS: Am I Too Picky?
In today's episode, Jo talks about being too picky. And she talks about being in your head and overthinking things.
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Season 4
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Episode 143
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20:30
Playtionship Break-ups
Playtionships, or the relationship between play partners, often end. Sometimes they end organically, and sometimes one person or one couple ends it. It's easy to say that it's ok to end things, but the reality is that sometimes it's challenging...
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Season 4
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Episode 142
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30:40
LS Break-ups
Break-ups are a part of life, and when it happens in the LS it's even harder for everyone to navigate.Today, Chad and Jo talk about navigating through the break-ups, whether you are on the inside or outside.
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Season 4
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Episode 141
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36:18
Summertime Shortie Episode
Just a quickie episode, and intro to summer/call out for Jo's birthday.
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Season 4
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Episode 140
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15:05
Closing the Deal
One of the things that people struggle with the most in the lifestyle is closing the deal... actually getting to the play. Jo and Chad talk about their struggles with closing the deal and give some perspective and tips to hopefully make it a li...
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Season 4
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Episode 139
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36:55
Making the First Move
In today's episode, Jo rereleases episode 4 from June of 2022, making the first move. It's a fan favorite, full of great ideas.
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Season 4
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Episode 138
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27:39
Having No Expectations... Easier Said Than Done
Jo and Chad talk about going into LS situations with no expectations. It's easy to say that, but it's a lot harder to do it in real life. Our brains like to create expectations of how the night or the event is going to go, and that can lead to ...
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Season 4
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Episode 137
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37:08
Going from Online to Real Life
People often try to meet LS people online, whether on websites, apps, or social media. And it can be challenging to go from talking to someone online, where it's "safe" to the real world where you don't have a keyboard to hide behind. Chad and ...
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Season 4
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Episode 136
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36:43
Don't Label an Experience as Bad
Not all LS experiences are unicorns and rainbows. Often, they can be uncomfortable, or even what some people label as bad. In today's episode, Jo talks about reasons why you shouldn't label your LS experiences as bad, because it cou...
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Season 4
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Episode 135
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25:09
Putting Together a Meet N Greet
Jo and Chad talk about the challenges of hosting a meet and greet.
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Season 4
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Episode 134
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20:00
TCS: When NOT to Play
The LS can be a lot of fun and can enhance your life and your relationship. But, it can also bring a lot of drama if your own relationship is not rock solid. Don't bring other people into your drama... know when NOT to play.
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Season 4
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Episode 133
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19:48
The Confident Swinger is BACK!
The Confident Swinger is BACK! The show has gone through some changes, but we are back to the original and ready to be better than ever. Thanks for sticking with us and giving it another shot!
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Season 4
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7:35
Taking a Break
Wendy is taking a much-needed break to focus on her own mental health and healing. It's a see you a later, not a good-bye.
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Season 3
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Episode 7
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15:33
I Want to be CHOSEN, Not Needed
Wendy Jo talks about her journey to go from needing to be needed, to wanting to be chosen. And she talks a tiny bit about her struggle with mental health.
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Season 3
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Episode 6
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24:38
The Dark Home of Shame
Warning: this episode is dark and heavy. And real. So, be prepared. I'll do a light episode next week. Maybe lol.Wendy Jo experiences shame, true shame, and feels it fully for the first time. So, if you want, and if you're ready, step in...
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Season 3
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Episode 5
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20:40
The Secret to GREAT Sex is...
Hey guys, I recently figured something out for myself, and I thought maybe it would resonate with some of you.For me, the secret to great sex is desire. I HAVE to feel real desire for that other person, AND I have to feel desired BY that...
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Season 3
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Episode 5
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15:50
I was Wrong
Truth is, I'm wrong a lot. Let me share some of those truths with you today.
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Season 3
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Episode 4
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33:19
Confronting Someone is Confrontational...Duh!
Sometimes, the most OBVIOUS concepts are wasted on me. This time, I'm referring to the face that I JUST recognized that the words confronting and confrontational are the SAME word with different suffixes.Not sure how I missed it, but I ...
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Season 3
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Episode 3
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20:51
YBLB: Asking For Help is a Gift
For YEARS, I struggled with asking for help. I know I'm not alone in that particular struggle.But I've come to realize that, when you understand yourself a little better, and you understand what made it hard for you to ask for help in t...
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Season 3
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Episode 2
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20:33