The Confident Swinger Podcast
The Confident Swinger is BACK! The Lifestyle can be challenging, with all the thoughts and feelings it can bring up. The Confident Swinger helps you navigate that, while also focusing on YOUR personal journey. It's time for YOU to build your confidence and embrace YOUR badassery!
The Confident Swinger Podcast
The Secret to GREAT Sex is...
Hey guys, I recently figured something out for myself, and I thought maybe it would resonate with some of you.
For me, the secret to great sex is desire. I HAVE to feel real desire for that other person, AND I have to feel desired BY that other person. ME. Not my body, not my lady parts, but ME.
The problem with that is sometimes for guys it can be hard for you to differentiate between you desiring HER and you desiring SEX. They are NOT the same.
And, lots of women are intuitive, so we know, in our guts, when it's being faked. We may not know that we know in the moment, but we know when the sex isn't GREAT!
So, if you want to have GREAT sex, you might want to rethink the concept of desire, It just might change your life.
Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level by Pryces for intro, and Take the Reins by Hey Pluto for outro