here's what I hear

Relationship counselor and coach Jesse Huebner shares from his experience working with individuals and couples as they navigate the challenges, difficulties, and barriers of being in relationship. In this podcast you'll hear themes that are sure to resonate with your own relationship journey - whether in a romantic relationship, a career, family or friends, or even the relationship you have with yourself - this podcast is for you. I talk about relationship issues, personal development, and connection. You'll learn simple, yet effective skills and techniques to better communicate, navigate conflict, build deeper emotional connection, and best of all obtain thriving relationships.

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Why Do We Keep Fighting?

March 23, 2023 • Jesse Huebner • Episode 22

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Fighting in relationships can be exhausting, defeating, and decrease the satisfaction in the relationships. So why do couples fight and continue to fight? In this episode I share three of the unique factors in romantic relationships that contribute to the perfect breeding grounds for frequent fighting.

And guess what? It's actually a GOOD thing that you fight! Of course, there is a difference between healthy and unhealthy fighting - kind language, respect, and not cutting down - but something I often tell couples is that if you are fighting, at least you are communicating.

I adapted the concepts in this episode from this Ester Perel Video

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