Build Your Happier Marriage
A happy marriage is what every married couple wants. They want to feel loved, supported, heard, respected, and desired.
This does not mean a perfect marriage; a marriage that doesn't have problems.
No!
But it's one where you feel safe, secure, and satisfied. Right? How to get there is the challenge.
And this is where I, Kingsley Grant, come in.
I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Relationship Coach, and Communication Expert, and has been married for almost four decades.
I believe a happier marriage results from you and your spouse committing to creating an emotionally safe space as the starting point and then building toward a happier marriage.
This happier marriage is possible using a scientific and Christian-based healing approach. This may involve marriage counseling, coaching, or live or virtual conferences.
The ultimate goal is to Make Marriages Happier Again. Let's eradicate unhappiness from marriages globally!
Episodes
148 episodes
BYHM148 | How to Avoid Divorce Regret (Even If You're Hurting)
In this powerful episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we’re digging into the real and raw emotions that follow divorce… the kind most people don’t talk about until it’s too late.💔 You’ll hear from women who thought the...
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Episode 148
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36:57
BYHM147 | How to Tell If You’re Being Emotionally Misled in Your Marriage
What if your husband says all the right things… but something still feels off?In today’s episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we’re diving into what emotional manipulation really looks like in marriage—and how to rec...
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Episode 147
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26:50
BYHM146 | How to Avoid This One Mistake That Leads to Marriage Regret!
n this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we’re diving into a powerful lesson that could save you from deep marriage regret. Too many wives fall into a painful trap, thinking they’re doing the right thing—only to reali...
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Episode 146
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32:04
BYHM145 | Age-Gap Marriages The Truth No One Tells You
Age-gap marriages can be exciting and fulfilling—until the challenges start setting in. What happens when love meets reality? In this episode, we break down:✔️ The hidden struggles age-gap couples don’t antic...
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Episode 145
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36:02
BYHM144 | How to Stop Feeling Like You’re the Only One Trying in Your Marriage
Do you ever feel like you’re the only one putting in the effort to keep your marriage strong? Like if you stopped trying, everything would fall apart? You’re not alone. In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we’re ...
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Episode 144
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22:29
BYHM143 | The Making of A Joyful Wife: An Interview with the author of The Joyful Wife
What does it truly mean to be a Joyful Wife? In this special episode, I had the honor of being a guest on The Holistic Counselor podcast, where I was interviewed about my new book, The Joyful Wife. We dive...
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Episode 143
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43:08
BYHM142 | How To Satisfy This One Thing Your Husband Is Begging For
Ever wonder what your husband really needs from you? In this powerful episode, I sit down with licensed Marriage & Family Therapist Edvardo Archer to unpack what most entrepreneurial husbands are silently begging for—but rar...
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Episode 142
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40:52
BYHM141 | What No One Tells You About Feeling Safe in Marriage
Do you ever feel like something is missing in your marriage, even though everything seems fine on the surface? Emotional safety is one of the most overlooked yet crucial aspects of a thriving relationship. In this episod...
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Episode 141
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26:07
BYHM140 | The Secret to Being a Joyful Wife When Your Husband Is Too Busy for You
Does your husband seem too busy for you? Do you feel like you’re carrying the emotional weight of the marriage alone? You’re not alone, and today, I’m going to show you the secret to being a joyful wife—even when your hu...
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26:47
BYHM139 | The Power of Appreciation: How Gratitude Can Transform Your Marriage
Welcome to Build Your Happier Marriage! In today’s episode, we dive deep into the transformative power of appreciation. If you’ve ever felt that your efforts in marriage go unnoticed, or that the spark is fading because of ...
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Episode 139
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26:50
BYHM138 | The Secret to Communicating Your Needs Without Conflict
Do you ever feel like no matter how you try to express your needs, it only leads to arguments, silence, or defensiveness? You’re not alone. Many Christian wives struggle to communicate in a way that their husband truly h...
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Episode 138
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38:47
BYHM137 | How to Overcome Resentment in Marriage Before It Overcomes You
Welcome to another episode of Build Your Happier Marriage! In today’s episode, we’re tackling a critical issue that affects so many marriages: resentment. If you’ve ever felt like the weight of unmet expectations, unresolv...
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Episode 137
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22:35
BYHM136 | How to Rekindle Intimacy When Life Feels Too Busy
Life can get so busy that intimacy with your spouse feels like a distant memory. In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we explore practical, faith-centered strategies to reignite the love and connection in your marria...
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Episode 136
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24:32
BYHM135 | How to Handle Conflict Without Breaking Your Connection In Your Marriage
Welcome to Build Your Happier Marriage, the podcast dedicated to helping Christian wives of entrepreneurial husbands rekindle love, connection, and intimacy—without losing your peace and joy.In this episode, we tackle a challeng...
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Episode 135
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17:02
BYHM134 | Why Feeling Invisible in Your Marriage is More Common Than You Think
Are you feeling unseen in your marriage? Do you ever wonder if your husband notices the love and effort you pour into your relationship? You’re not alone.In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we tackle a topic that hit...
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Episode 134
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18:40
BYHM133 | How do you encourage your husband to grow closer to Christ without making him feel pushed or judged
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we tackle a topic many Christian wives wrestle with: How do you encourage your husband to grow closer to Christ without making him feel pushed or judged?We explore:<...
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Episode 133
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20:12
BYHM132 | Navigating the Holidays with a Narcissistic Husband: Finding Peace Amidst the Chaos
The holidays are supposed to be filled with joy, but what happens when your husband’s narcissistic traits seem to steal the spotlight? In this episode of Happier Marriage Secrets, we’ll tackle this sensitive is...
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Episode 132
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24:34
BYHM131 | Lonely in Love? Simple Steps to Feel Seen, Heard, and Connected Again
Does your marriage ever feel like two ships passing in the night? You love each other, but the connection feels...off. You might even feel lonely, even though you’re together.In this episode, we’ll talk about why that happens and,...
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36:42
BYHM130 | The Quiet Crisis: How Modern Feminism Impacts Husbands and Families
In today’s episode, we’re diving into a topic that’s shaping modern marriages in ways many don’t realize. We’ll explore how modern feminism while empowering in some respects, has also created unexpected challenges for husbands, fam...
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27:16
BYHM129 | How to Understand Your Husband's Thoughts and Strengthen Your Marriage
Have you ever felt like your husband’s thoughts are a mystery you just can’t solve? Does it seem like he’s shutting you out, leaving you to guess what’s really going on in his heart and mind? In this episode of Build Your ...
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24:50
BYHM128 | Does Your Spouse Feel Valued? The ONE Question to Transform Your Marriage
In today’s episode, we’re tackling an essential but often-overlooked question: Does your spouse truly feel valued by you?Episode HighlightsThe Power of One Question: Why asking “Do they feel valued?” ca...
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Episode 128
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18:13
BYHM127 | How to Move Past Old Wounds for a Stronger and Happier Marriage
In this episode, we’re diving deep into a topic many couples struggle with but don’t often talk about: moving past old wounds to build a stronger, happier marriage. For wives of entrepreneurial husbands, especially, those unres...
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Episode 127
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22:19
BYHM126 | How to Make Sense of Your Husband’s Actions and Bring Back the Spark
Ever felt like you’re speaking a different language than your husband? You’re not alone! In this episode, we dig deep into the mystery behind his actions and how understanding them can help bring back the spark in your...
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Episode 126
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29:00
BYHM125 | How to Stop Misreading Your Husband (and Strengthen Your Marriage Instead)
In this episode of Building Happier Marriages, we’re diving into how misreading your husband’s actions can unknowingly create emotional distance in your marriage. It’s easy to feel like your husband is distant, especially ...
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31:19
BYHM124 | How Playing the Mom Role in Your Marriage Is Hurting Your Husband
In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into a common struggle for many wives—feeling like you have to mother your husband by constantly reminding him of things, organizing his schedule, and being the one to keep everything on track.&nbs...
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