The Connected Wife
Most wives don’t want a perfect marriage.
They want to feel close again.
They want to feel heard, supported, respected, and emotionally safe — especially when their husband is driven, hardworking, and focused on providing.
The Connected Wife is a podcast for wives who love their husbands but feel distant, confused, or unseen at times. It’s for the wife who wants deeper emotional connection and better conversations — without losing herself or walking on eggshells.
Hosted by Kingsley Grant, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Relationship Coach, and communication expert with over two decades of professional experience and nearly four decades of marriage, this podcast helps wives better understand the heart and inner world of their husbands.
Instead of chasing a “perfect marriage,” this podcast focuses on what actually brings closeness:
- emotional safety
- understanding how men think and respond
- simple, wise ways to communicate
- and faith-based guidance you can use in real life
Each episode blends biblical wisdom, real-life stories, and practical insight to help you become a connected wife — a woman who knows how to bring more peace, warmth, and closeness into the marriage she already has.
If you’re tired of trying harder and ready to connect wiser, The Connected Wife is for you.
Episodes
184 episodes
Ep 184 | When Culture Teaches You to Doubt a Good Man
What happens when nothing is technically wrong in your marriage…but something still feels off?In this episode of The Connected Wife, we explore a quiet but powerful force that affects many modern marriages: the way...
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Episode 184
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20:29
Ep 183 | Why Culture Gets Marriage Connection So Wrong — And Why You Shouldn’t
Culture has a lot to say about marriage.It tells wives what connection should look like… how closeness should feel… and what a “healthy” marriage should give them.But for many wives, following cu...
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Episode 183
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25:15
Ep 182 | Why It Feels Like You’re Living Parallel Lives (And What’s Really Happening)
Do you ever feel like you and your husband are living side by side… but not really with each other?Same house.Same routines.Same season of life.And yet—very little emotional overlap.In this episode of The ...
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Episode 182
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18:33
Ep 181 | Jada Smith Sounds Like She Has Moved On From Will Smith (Is This It?)
What does real connection in marriage actually sound like?In this episode of The Connected Wife, we listen closely to a recent interview featuring Jada Smith—not to criticize, but to discern.Because sometimes a marri...
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Episode 181
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19:19
Ep 180 | The Real Reason Your Husband Gets Defensive (And It’s Not Your Tone)
Have you ever tried to share your heart with your husband—calmly, gently, honestly—only to watch him get defensive?He explains.He shuts down.He pushes back.Or he goes quiet.And you’re left wondering, “What did I sa...
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Episode 180
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17:50
Ep. 179 | What Long Conversations Feel Like to Your Husband (Not What You Think)
Have you ever wanted to slow down and really talk with your husband — only to watch him shut down, get restless, or try to end the conversation quickly?If that’s been your experience, this episode is for you.In today’s conversatio...
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Episode 179
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25:11
TCW178 | I’m Reaching for Him… So Why Do I Still Feel Far Away?
Have you ever reached for your husband — through affection, eye contact, or gentle effort — and still felt the distance between you didn’t change?If so, this episode is for you.In today’s conversation, we slow things down and talk...
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Episode 178
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19:28
Ep 177 | Why I’m Leaving “Build Your Happier Marriage” — And Why The Connected Wife Serves You Better
This episode marks an important shift.After years of helping wives build happier marriages, I am officially transitioning this podcast to a new name and a clearer mission: The Connected Wife.Not because the heart of the work has c...
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Episode 177
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17:36
BYHM176 | Why He Gets Defensive So Fast — And How to Talk So He Finally Listens
If your husband gets defensive the moment you share how you feel…If he shuts down when you’re simply talking…If he explains himself like he’s being accused…this episode will finally help you understand why.Because his defensi...
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Episode 176
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23:02
BYHM175 | You’re Not Criticizing Him — So Why Does He Act Like You Are? (The Hidden Trigger)
If your husband gets defensive when you’re simply talking…If he shuts down the moment you share how you feel…If he reacts like he’s being attacked even when you’re calm and gentle…this episode will finally give you the clarity you’v...
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Episode 175
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23:24
BYHM174 | The One Thing Your Husband Never Tells You (But It Drives Everything He Does)
If your husband feels distant…If he shuts down when you’re emotional…If he gets defensive even when you’re being calm and gentle…today’s episode will help you understand why.Because there is ONE thing your driven, provider-mi...
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Episode 174
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22:20
BYHM173 | The Real Reason Your Husband Gets Defensive (And It’s Not Your Tone)
Why does your husband get defensive — even when you’re calm, gentle, and just trying to share your heart? Why does he explain, interrupt, shut down, or act like your feelings are an attack?In this eye-opening episode, you'll discover the...
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Episode 173
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22:52
BYHM172 | The Secret Reason Your Husband Shut Down (No One Told You This)
Does your husband pull away right when you need him most?Does he get quiet, shut down, or suddenly seem emotionally unavailable?In this powerful episode, you'll discover the hidden reason driven, provider-minded husbands withdraw ...
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Episode 172
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19:51
BYHM171 | Doctors Gave Up on Him… But His Wife Fought for His Life (When Everyone Else Walked Away)
This is one of the most powerful stories of covenant love you’ll ever hear. When her husband suffered a massive stroke and doctors said he would never walk again — and might not survive — this wife refused to accept the diagnosis. She saw the r...
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Episode 171
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27:31
BYHM170 | Everyone Attacked JD Vance for This… But They Missed the Biblical Point Entirely (Even Though It Was Right There)
When JD Vance publicly shared that he prays for his wife Usha Vance to one day come to faith in Christ, the internet exploded. Some labeled him controlling… others said he “disrespected” his wife… and almost everyone missed the bibl...
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Episode 170
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23:36
BYHM169 | The Wife the Bible Warns About (But No One Admits Exists)
This one might sting — but it’s needed. In today’s episode, you'll uncover what the Bible really says about the “contentious wife” — the type of wife no one wants to admit exists, but every husband fears becoming the target of.We’ve all ...
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Episode 169
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22:32
BYHM168 | He Exposed His Cheating Wife… But Lost More Than He Knew
What happens when pain takes the mic? In this episode, I break down the viral story of a husband who exposed his cheating wife — in front of everyone — at his own birthday party. It was shocking, emotional, and raw. But what he lost...
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Episode 168
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27:48
BYHM167 | How They Stayed Married For 30+ Years After He Said This!
Discover the secret to a marriage that lasts decades! In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, I share the story of a couple married for over 30 years and the powerful words the husband said early in their marriage t...
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Episode 167
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32:14
BYHM166 | You Can’t Have a King and Treat Him Like a Servant (CAUTION: This Might Sting)
In this powerful episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, Kingsley Grant tackles one of the most misunderstood and controversial topics in Christian marriage today — submission.You’ve heard the cultural narrative: “Submiss...
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Episode 166
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38:23
BYHM165 | Ayesha Curry Said What Most Wives Feel (But Won’t Admit)
In this episode, we unpack Ayesha Curry (Steph Curry's wife), viral confession about her marriage, motherhood, and personal identity.Ayesha’s raw honesty — admitting she never planned to be a wife or mom — shocked the internet. But behin...
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Episode 165
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41:01
BYHM164 | Why Wives Lose Their Husband’s Heart (Without Realizing It)
Have you ever thought something was “just a joke,” only to realize later it actually hurt your husband?In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we unpack a viral clip of a wife who shattered her husband’s two-day puzzle p...
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Episode 164
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26:27
BYHM163 | Why Modern Wives Think Loyalty Is Stupid
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, I react to a viral clip of a woman claiming that staying loyal to your husband during hard times doesn’t make you supportive — it makes you “stupid.”This kind of so-called “wisdom” h...
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Episode 163
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29:32
BYHM162 | How the Diva Mentality (and TikTok Culture) Is Wrecking Marriages Today
Is gratitude optional in marriage?According to one viral TikTok clip, yes.In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, I react to a wife proudly declaring she doesn’t thank her husband for everyday responsibilities like taking out...
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Episode 162
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24:00
BYHM161 | Not Feeling Protected She Left Him… Wife Left Her Husband Over This
What happens when a wife no longer feels safe, protected, or defended by her husband?In today’s episode, we dive into the heartbreaking story of a woman who left her husband—not because he cheated, not because he failed financially, but ...
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Episode 161
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32:34
