Build Your Happier Marriage
A happy marriage is what every married couple wants. They want to feel loved, supported, heard, respected, and desired.
This does not mean a perfect marriage; a marriage that doesn't have problems.
No!
But it's one where you feel safe, secure, and satisfied. Right? How to get there is the challenge.
And this is where I, Kingsley Grant, come in.
I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Relationship Coach, and Communication Expert, and has been married for almost four decades.
I believe a happier marriage results from you and your spouse committing to creating an emotionally safe space as the starting point and then building toward a happier marriage.
This happier marriage is possible using a scientific and Christian-based healing approach. This may involve marriage counseling, coaching, or live or virtual conferences.
The ultimate goal is to Make Marriages Happier Again. Let's eradicate unhappiness from marriages globally!
Build Your Happier Marriage
BYHM128 | Does Your Spouse Feel Valued? The ONE Question to Transform Your Marriage
In today’s episode, we’re tackling an essential but often-overlooked question: Does your spouse truly feel valued by you?
Episode Highlights
- The Power of One Question: Why asking “Do they feel valued?” can radically shift the dynamics in your relationship.
- Simple Ways to Show Value: Practical ideas for expressing appreciation, from daily affirmations to thoughtful gestures that keep the spark alive.
- Building Emotional Connection: How making your spouse feel valued deepens trust and keeps the relationship strong, even through challenges.
Why This Matters
Feeling valued is more than just words—it’s about action, intention, and consistency. When your spouse feels genuinely valued, you create a safe space where both of you can thrive and connect on a deeper level.
Common Objection
“I already do a lot for my spouse—why should I have to do even more?”
It’s understandable to feel this way, especially if you feel like you’re already putting in the effort. But remember, this isn't about adding more to your plate; it’s about focusing on small, intentional actions that really communicate appreciation. Think of it as investing in your relationship’s foundation—it strengthens the connection and helps prevent resentment from building up over time.
FAQ
Q: “How do I know if my spouse feels valued?”
A: Great question! Signs that your spouse feels valued include open, warm communication, willingness to spend time together, and feeling comfortable sharing their needs and dreams with you. If they’re pulling back, it could be a signal that they’re feeling overlooked. A simple way to gauge this? Ask them! Sometimes, all it takes is an open, honest question like, “What makes you feel most appreciated in our relationship?”
Tune In To Learn:
- How to identify and understand what “feeling valued” means to your spouse
- Practical steps to integrate this awareness into everyday life
- Ways to ask your spouse what makes them feel valued without it feeling forced or awkward
Don’t miss this episode if you’re ready to take that one powerful step toward a happier, more fulfilling marriage!
Listen now to start the transformation. And remember, the small steps add up—especially when they show love and appreciation.
Additional Resources:
If you’re ready for more insights and practical steps, grab a copy of the Happier Marriage Roadmap: 5 Proven Steps to a Stronger, Happier Marriage at buildyourhappiermarriage.com/roadmap. It’s designed to give you a solid foundation for creating the marriage you desire!
For meditation, reflection, and prayer: Peaceful Home Prayers
Thank You for Listening!
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“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” — Psalm 127:1
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