Build Your Happier Marriage
A happy marriage is what every married couple wants. They want to feel loved, supported, heard, respected, and desired.
This does not mean a perfect marriage; a marriage that doesn't have problems.
No!
But it's one where you feel safe, secure, and satisfied. Right? How to get there is the challenge.
And this is where I, Kingsley Grant, come in.
I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Relationship Coach, and Communication Expert, and has been married for almost four decades.
I believe a happier marriage results from you and your spouse committing to creating an emotionally safe space as the starting point and then building toward a happier marriage.
This happier marriage is possible using a scientific and Christian-based healing approach. This may involve marriage counseling, coaching, or live or virtual conferences.
The ultimate goal is to Make Marriages Happier Again. Let's eradicate unhappiness from marriages globally!
Build Your Happier Marriage
BYHM138 | The Secret to Communicating Your Needs Without Conflict
Do you ever feel like no matter how you try to express your needs, it only leads to arguments, silence, or defensiveness?
You’re not alone.
Many Christian wives struggle to communicate in a way that their husband truly hears—without it turning into conflict. But what if I told you there’s a secret to getting through to your husband without nagging, avoiding, or walking on eggshells?
In today’s episode, I’ll share a Christ-centered approach that helps you express your needs in a way that draws your husband closer rather than pushing him away.
We’ll explore why traditional communication methods often fail and how embracing the mind of Christ can transform your marriage.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ Why your husband sometimes seems to tune you out—and what to do about it
✅ The common communication mistakes wives make (and what works instead)
✅ How one simple shift can lead to deeper understanding and connection
✅ A practical, faith-based action step you can apply today
Plus, I’ll be sharing a powerful "it's like..." analogy to make this concept crystal clear!
Bible Verses to Reflect On:
📖 Proverbs 14:1 – "A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands."
📖 Galatians 6:9 – "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."
📖 Psalm 127:1 – "Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain."
Want to Go Deeper?
This is just one of the five pillars I teach in the Happier Marriage by Design Bootcamp! Imagine what your marriage could look like with all five! If you’re ready to take the next step toward a happier, more peaceful, and fulfilling marriage, grab "3 SIMPLE WAYS TO GET YOUR HUSBAND TO OPEN UP (EVEN IF HE’S ALWAYS FOCUSED ON WORK)" —a free resource filled with simple, actionable strategies that align with today’s discussion.
👉 Download it here: www.buildyourhappiermarriage.com/freeguide
Until then, may the Lord bless you and give you His peace. Take care, and I’ll see you on the flipside!
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