Build Your Happier Marriage
A happy marriage is what every married couple wants. They want to feel loved, supported, heard, respected, and desired.
This does not mean a perfect marriage; a marriage that doesn't have problems.
No!
But it's one where you feel safe, secure, and satisfied. Right? How to get there is the challenge.
And this is where I, Kingsley Grant, come in.
I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Relationship Coach, and Communication Expert, and has been married for almost four decades.
I believe a happier marriage results from you and your spouse committing to creating an emotionally safe space as the starting point and then building toward a happier marriage.
This happier marriage is possible using a scientific and Christian-based healing approach. This may involve marriage counseling, coaching, or live or virtual conferences.
The ultimate goal is to Make Marriages Happier Again. Let's eradicate unhappiness from marriages globally!
Build Your Happier Marriage
BYHM139 | The Power of Appreciation: How Gratitude Can Transform Your Marriage
Welcome to Build Your Happier Marriage! In today’s episode, we dive deep into the transformative power of appreciation.
If you’ve ever felt that your efforts in marriage go unnoticed, or that the spark is fading because of everyday stress and busyness, then this episode is for you.
Discover how a simple shift in perspective—embracing gratitude—can radically change your relationship and bring you closer to your husband.
Episode Highlights:
- Understanding the Struggle:
Many wives feel emotionally disconnected when appreciation is missing in the daily grind. This lack of acknowledgment can lead to growing frustration and distance. It’s like trying to water a plant with an empty watering can—the nourishment simply isn’t there. - Why Appreciation Matters:
When you lead with genuine gratitude, you unlock the door to deeper intimacy and connection. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 14:1, “A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.” You have the power to build up your marriage by choosing to express thankfulness even when it seems small. - A Christ-Centered Shift:
Embracing the mind of Christ isn’t just a lofty idea—it’s a practical way to infuse every day with love and joy. Instead of waiting for your husband to show appreciation, learn to give it freely. It’s like planting seeds of love that eventually blossom into lasting connection.
Key Bible Verses to Reflect On:
- Proverbs 14:1: “A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.”
- Galatians 6:9: “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
- Psalm 127:1: “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.”
What You’ll Take Away:
- The Power of a Grateful Heart: Understand that appreciation is not just a kind word—it’s a bridge to deeper emotional connection.
- Practical Steps to Express Gratitude: Learn how one small shift in your daily interactions can reset the dynamics in your marriage.
- A New Vision for Your Home: Imagine breaking old negative patterns and creating a nurturing, joyful environment for your family, where gratitude leads to lasting love.
This episode is just ONE of the five pillars I teach in the Happier Marriage by Design Bootcamp. Imagine what your marriage could look like if you embraced all five! Dive deeper into these transformative strategies by joining the Bootcamp and see the remarkable changes it can bring.
Call to Action:
If you’re ready to transform your relationship, download A Christian Wife’s Guide to a Happier Marriage packed with simple, actionable strategies at www.buildyourhappiermarriage.com/guide.
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