Build Your Happier Marriage
A happy marriage is what every married couple wants. They want to feel loved, supported, heard, respected, and desired.
This does not mean a perfect marriage; a marriage that doesn't have problems.
No!
But it's one where you feel safe, secure, and satisfied. Right? How to get there is the challenge.
And this is where I, Kingsley Grant, come in.
I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Relationship Coach, and Communication Expert, and has been married for almost four decades.
I believe a happier marriage results from you and your spouse committing to creating an emotionally safe space as the starting point and then building toward a happier marriage.
This happier marriage is possible using a scientific and Christian-based healing approach. This may involve marriage counseling, coaching, or live or virtual conferences.
The ultimate goal is to Make Marriages Happier Again. Let's eradicate unhappiness from marriages globally!
Build Your Happier Marriage
BYHM142 | How To Satisfy This One Thing Your Husband Is Begging For
Ever wonder what your husband really needs from you? In this powerful episode, I sit down with licensed Marriage & Family Therapist Edvardo Archer to unpack what most entrepreneurial husbands are silently begging for—but rarely express.
This conversation will shift your perspective on what drives your husband's actions, how to create deeper emotional connection, and the key to building a marriage where you both feel seen, heard, and valued.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ The one thing your husband craves but struggles to articulate.
✅ Why he sometimes seems emotionally distant—and what’s actually happening inside.
✅ A simple yet game-changing way to bring back intimacy, trust, and connection in your marriage.
Bible Verses to Reflect On:
📖 Proverbs 14:1 – “A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.”
📖 1 Peter 3:7 – “Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect…”
Key Takeaways:
💡 Husbands equate success with provision – Many men measure their worth by their ability to provide, which can cause emotional disconnect.
💡 He wants a safe place too – Your husband needs a space where he feels emotionally secure, just as much as you do.
💡 It’s about partnership, not perfection – When both spouses understand and support each other’s needs, true intimacy thrives.
Action Step:
This week, instead of assuming what your husband needs, ask him one open-ended question: “What is one thing I can do to support you this week?” Then, listen without interrupting.
🔥 Want more? This is just ONE of the five pillars I teach in the Happier Marriage by Design Bootcamp! Imagine what your marriage could look like with ALL five.
📩 Get your free guide: A Christian Wife’s Guide to a Happier Marriage 👉 www.buildyourhappiermarriage.com/guide
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You can connect with Edvardo "Eddie" Archer at www.eddiearcher.com or www.edvardoarcher.com
You can also follow him on his LinkedIn page.
👋 May the Lord bless you and give you His peace. Take care, and I’ll see you on the flipside!
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