Build Your Happier Marriage
A happy marriage is what every married couple wants. They want to feel loved, supported, heard, respected, and desired.
This does not mean a perfect marriage; a marriage that doesn't have problems.
No!
But it's one where you feel safe, secure, and satisfied. Right? How to get there is the challenge.
And this is where I, Kingsley Grant, come in.
I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Relationship Coach, and Communication Expert, and has been married for almost four decades.
I believe a happier marriage results from you and your spouse committing to creating an emotionally safe space as the starting point and then building toward a happier marriage.
This happier marriage is possible using a scientific and Christian-based healing approach. This may involve marriage counseling, coaching, or live or virtual conferences.
The ultimate goal is to Make Marriages Happier Again. Let's eradicate unhappiness from marriages globally!
Build Your Happier Marriage
BYHM144 | How to Stop Feeling Like You’re the Only One Trying in Your Marriage
Do you ever feel like you’re the only one putting in the effort to keep your marriage strong? Like if you stopped trying, everything would fall apart? You’re not alone.
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we’re tackling what it means when you feel like you’re the only one investing in your relationship—and how to shift that dynamic in a way that actually works.
If you’ve been feeling emotionally drained, unseen, or frustrated with the lack of effort from your husband, this conversation is for you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ The hidden reason why your husband seems disengaged—and what’s really going on.
✅ The #1 shift that will make you feel less alone and more empowered.
✅ A simple step to create momentum and inspire real change in your marriage.
Bible Verses to Reflect On:
📖 Proverbs 14:1 – “A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.”
📖 Galatians 6:9 – “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
📖 Psalm 127:1 – “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.”
Action Step:
This week, instead of saying, “We need to talk,” try saying, “I really appreciate when you [insert something positive]. It makes me feel closer to you.” Small changes in communication can lead to big shifts in connection.
🔥 Want more? This is just ONE piece of one of the five pillars I teach in the Happier Marriage by Design Bootcamp! Imagine what your marriage could look like with ALL five.
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👋 May the Lord bless you and give you His peace. Take care, and I’ll see you on the flipside!
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