Build Your Happier Marriage
A happy marriage is what every married couple wants. They want to feel loved, supported, heard, respected, and desired.
This does not mean a perfect marriage; a marriage that doesn't have problems.
No!
But it's one where you feel safe, secure, and satisfied. Right? How to get there is the challenge.
And this is where I, Kingsley Grant, come in.
I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Relationship Coach, and Communication Expert, and has been married for almost four decades.
I believe a happier marriage results from you and your spouse committing to creating an emotionally safe space as the starting point and then building toward a happier marriage.
This happier marriage is possible using a scientific and Christian-based healing approach. This may involve marriage counseling, coaching, or live or virtual conferences.
The ultimate goal is to Make Marriages Happier Again. Let's eradicate unhappiness from marriages globally!
Build Your Happier Marriage
BYHM149 | Going Viral Cost Her Everything (Even Her Marriage)
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, Kingsley unpacks the emotional downfall of a viral TikTok wife who shared her raw frustrations with the world—only to push her husband away in the process. This powerful real-life example shows what happens when hurt is broadcast instead of processed.
If you’ve ever felt invisible, emotionally drained, or tempted to air your struggles publicly, this is an episode you can’t afford to miss.
🔔 NOTE: This episode features the audio from a recent YouTube video. For the full visual experience, visit Kingsley's YouTube channel.
💔 What You’ll Learn:
✔️ Why emotionally venting online feels good for a moment—but often backfires.
✔️ How public shame rarely leads to private healing.
✔️ A Christ-centered path to healing without losing your peace or dignity.
📖 Bible Verses Referenced:
- Proverbs 29:11 — “A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.”
- Proverbs 4:23 — “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
- 1 John 3:15 — “Anyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer...”
- Proverbs 15:1 — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
- John 10:10 — “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life…”
🧠 Key Takeaways:
- TikTok isn’t therapy. Hurt shared publicly can cause more damage than healing.
- Unchecked bitterness grows. Guard your heart early before resentment turns into hatred.
- God’s way brings peace. You can rebuild your marriage without giving in to emotional chaos.
🎁 Resources Mentioned:
✅ Join the waitlist for the Joyful Marriage Quest Bootcamp: www.buildyourhappiermarriage.com/waitlist
🙏 Final Encouragement:
If you’re hurting, overwhelmed, or feeling unseen in your marriage—you’re not alone. God still has plans for your relationship and healing is possible when you follow His path. Speak life, not blame. Seek support, not spectators.
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Until next time—may the Lord bless you and give you His peace. Take care.
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