
Build Your Happier Marriage
A happy marriage is what every married couple wants. They want to feel loved, supported, heard, respected, and desired.
This does not mean a perfect marriage; a marriage that doesn't have problems.
No!
But it's one where you feel safe, secure, and satisfied. Right? How to get there is the challenge.
And this is where I, Kingsley Grant, come in.
I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Relationship Coach, and Communication Expert, and has been married for almost four decades.
I believe a happier marriage results from you and your spouse committing to creating an emotionally safe space as the starting point and then building toward a happier marriage.
This happier marriage is possible using a scientific and Christian-based healing approach. This may involve marriage counseling, coaching, or live or virtual conferences.
The ultimate goal is to Make Marriages Happier Again. Let's eradicate unhappiness from marriages globally!
Build Your Happier Marriage
BYHM152 | You Can’t Call It Marriage Just Because It Sounds Better Than ‘Affair’
How does this even make sense? Husband. Wife. Boyfriend. Jealousy.
It sounds like a tabloid headline—but it’s real. A married woman proudly talks about her long-term boyfriend and even claims her husband is jealous of her boyfriend.
In this episode, we unpack how culture has twisted the sacredness of marriage, giving adultery a new name: “polyamory.”
But let’s be clear—just because you rename something doesn’t mean it stops being sin.
This episode isn’t just about her situation. It’s a cautionary tale for all of us.
When we compromise on God’s design, the consequences ripple through generations—especially our children.
🎯 What You’ll Learn:
- Why redefining marriage as “open” is more dangerous than it looks.
- How emotional and spiritual erosion happens subtly—even in “loving” relationships.
- What you, as a Christian wife, can do to protect your home, your heart, and your legacy.
🔑 “This is just one of the ideas I teach inside the 5 pillars of the Joyful Marriage Quest. Imagine what your marriage could look like with ALL five!”
📖 Bible Verses Mentioned:
- Hebrews 13:4 – “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure…”
- Proverbs 14:1 – “The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.”
- Psalm 23 – “He leads me in paths of righteousness for His name’s sake.”
- Matthew 19:5 – “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”
🧠 Three Key Takeaways:
✅ Just because the world normalizes something doesn’t make it right.
✅ Reframing sin with softer language still leads to destruction.
✅ A joyful, connected marriage begins with reclaiming God’s design—one man, one woman, one commitment.
📣 Links + Resources:
🎥 Watch the full YouTube version:
👉 kingsleygrant.com/youtube
🧭 Join the waitlist for the Joyful Marriage Quest — a 6-week Biblical + evidence-based coaching journey:
👉 buildyourhappiermarriage.com/waitlist
📘 Grab the book – The Joyful Wife: 7 Connection Skills to Better Understand Your Husband, Rekindle Love, and Deepen Intimacy
📦 Available now on Amazon!
🙏 Final Words:
Thanks for tuning in to Build Your Happier Marriage.
Let’s keep building something sacred—something joyful—and something that lasts.
“You are one connection skill away from transforming your marriage.”
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