Build Your Happier Marriage
A happy marriage is what every married couple wants. They want to feel loved, supported, heard, respected, and desired.
This does not mean a perfect marriage; a marriage that doesn't have problems.
No!
But it's one where you feel safe, secure, and satisfied. Right? How to get there is the challenge.
And this is where I, Kingsley Grant, come in.
I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Relationship Coach, and Communication Expert, and has been married for almost four decades.
I believe a happier marriage results from you and your spouse committing to creating an emotionally safe space as the starting point and then building toward a happier marriage.
This happier marriage is possible using a scientific and Christian-based healing approach. This may involve marriage counseling, coaching, or live or virtual conferences.
The ultimate goal is to Make Marriages Happier Again. Let's eradicate unhappiness from marriages globally!
Build Your Happier Marriage
BYHM169 | The Wife the Bible Warns About (But No One Admits Exists)
This one might sting — but it’s needed. In today’s episode, you'll uncover what the Bible really says about the “contentious wife” — the type of wife no one wants to admit exists, but every husband fears becoming the target of.
We’ve all heard about controlling or narcissistic men… but Scripture also warns about wives whose words can wound deeper than they realize.
You’ll learn why unintentional disrespect quietly destroys connection — and how small shifts in tone, timing, and perspective can restore peace and closeness in your marriage.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything to get through to your husband, but he keeps pulling away, this episode could be the turning point you’ve been praying for.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- What the Bible says about the “contentious wife” and why it matters today.
- How unhealed emotions can show up as criticism or control.
- Why your tone can build connection or break it.
- The mindset shift that turns tension into tenderness.
- How to rebuild peace and connection without losing your voice.
Powerful Quotes:
“You can love God deeply and still hurt your husband unintentionally with your words.”
“Awareness isn’t condemnation — it’s an invitation.”
“God doesn’t expose us to shame us. He exposes us to heal us.”
Scripture References:
- Proverbs 21:19 — “It is better to live in the desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.”
- Proverbs 15:1 — “A gentle answer turns away wrath.”
- 1 Samuel 25 — Abigail’s example of wisdom and restraint.
Key Takeaways:
- Awareness brings healing, not shame. God reveals what’s wrong so He can make it right.
- Your words create the atmosphere of your home. So choose peace over pressure.
- You don’t have to correct to connect. You can love him into leadership, not lecture him into it.
Resources Mentioned:
- 💌 Join The Joyful Marriage Quest waitlist: buildyourhappiermarriage.com/waitlist
Get your free guide: Reconnect — A Quick Guide for Wives Who Feel Like They’re Doing It All. - 📘 The Joyful Wife: 7 Connection Skills to Better Understand Your Husband, Rekindle Love, and Deepen Intimacy — available now on Amazon.
- 🎥 Watch the full video on YouTube: kingsleygrant.com/youtube
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