Compassionate Conversations with Esther Kane, MSW

The pros & cons of two highly sensitive people in a relationship

Esther Kane, MSW, RSW, RCC Season 1 Episode 14

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Have you ever wondered what it would like for 2 highly sensitive people to be in a long-term romantic relationship? Esther Kane, an HSP psychotherapist who helps HSPs thrive, & her husband Nathaniel discuss their own personal HSP-HSP marriage combo. They share the pros and cons of such a union in a humorous & thought-provoking discussion.

00:00 Compassionate Conversations Intro
00:24 HSP Series Intro
02:13 Introduction of Nathaniel Richman, Esther's husband and HSP
03:29 Esther and Nathaniel discuss what its like for two HSPs to be in a long-term relationship (they have enjoyed over 23 years in theirs!)
03:48 What the research says
05:40 What Esther and Nathaniel feel are the pros of being two HSPs in a couple
14:00 Pro #1: Being able to be quiet together and giving each other space
16:30 Pro #2: Understanding each others' needs
17:30 How Esther and Nathaniel are different types of HSPs
27:00 What Esther and Nathaniel feel are the cons of being two HSPs in a couple
27:35 Con #1: Putting others before ourselves as a couple
28:30 Con #2: Boredom and feeling stuck in our routines/Wanting the other person to take charge
31:29 Con #3: Being too serious and not having enough fun
35:23 Why we chose not to have children
35:48 How we socialize with others in an HSP way that works for us


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