62. Learn about Signs & Synchronicities with New Paradigm Guide, Jessica Lynn Parillo.

Welcome to the episode where we explore Signs & Synchronicities with Jess Lynn Parillo! This is where we dive into the cosmic mysteries and decode the universe's subtle language. I'm stoked to take you on a journey that blends mystical insights with down-to-earth wisdom.

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Speaker 1: 0:00

I am so excited for you to be tuning in to today's podcast episode because I had the privilege of interviewing Jessica Parillo, who is a new paradigm guide. So if you're in a manifestation law of attraction, more of the spirituality and, dare I say, quote, unquote woo stuff, this is an episode for you. We talk about signs and synchronicities, how to start working with your spirit. Guides could be presenting itself in your life, how to look for them, how to work with them and, ultimately, how to walk around and live a more peaceful life, because you know you are 100% taken care of by the cosmic forces that are beyond us in 5D and above, that literally have your back, love you and only want the best for you. It is so freaking good. I cannot wait for you to hear more of what Jess says. She is brilliant. I have worked with her one-on-one before. I've gone to almost every masterclass that she hosts, because I always take something away from it. As I've gotten into this more woo spirituality journey and my life has changed because of it, and I think this is how everyone is actually supposed to be living with the universal laws, the cosmic forces that have our back and want the best for us, not in the state of fear, lack, scarcity or anything like that. So if you want to find a way to build your dream life, have more money that you know what to do with, work with the energetics that is in the world, this is the episode for you. Tune in now and you'll be able to learn so much goodness from Jess and find other ways to work with her. If you feel called, all right, let's head into it.

Speaker 1: 1:35

Welcome to your inner CEO. I'm your host, katie Smith. I'm a business mentor, wife, mom, manifesting generator Enneagram 3, scorpio, and I love helping women scale their business and make more money Around. Here, I believe, you can have it all the business, the income, the schedule, the family, the freedom. Take it from me, a daydreamer who didn't think it was possible to write her own rulebook on how to reach success, but here I am, creating massive impact while having fun, and my cash flow is increasing because of it. I'm here to show you it's possible for you. I believe when you mix energetics and strategy, you can have everything you desire, and quicker than you would expect. If this is your vibe, hold on, because we're about to become business besties, let's dive in. I'm so excited that you are here with me, jess, like this is something that's been on my heart to ask you to be a guest on this podcast because you have helped me so much. But thank you so much for being here.

Speaker 2: 2:36

I'm so excited. Thank you so much for having me. I love you and I'm just so honored to be here and that you asked me to come.

Speaker 1: 2:45

Oh yeah, absolutely. I want to talk about all the things that you are just so I want to say masterful at, if that's a word. But before we get into all of that, I'd like to get everybody on the same page. Why don't you give us a rundown of who you are, what you do, how you got started, and then we can kind of see where the conversation goes?

Speaker 2: 3:05

Okay, so my name is Jess Perillo and I am I've called myself a few different things, but I am a new paradigm guide, because I feel like that is all encompassing for the time and space that we are in as a collective, and so I fell into this role probably, I would say, about three years ago, when my life took a little bit of a shift and I really had to lean into my intuition and rely on making decisions from a space of tapping into that internal guidance and really trusting that everything that I was doing was as it should be and really trust that I was making the right decisions, because I didn't know exactly what the next right step was.

Speaker 2: 3:55

So I started moving, trusting my intuition, and it led me to a place that is just absolutely magical, and my life has shifted and taken so many different twists and turns and it's actually the life that I've always dreamed of, and so when I began really thinking about what got me here, it really started with the ability to listen to our own intuition and our internal guidance, and so I just started talking to people about that concept, and so it's kind of snowballed from there, and it's been a conversation that a lot of people seem really interested in having, and so it definitely leads me to believe that there is just a massive shift going on collectively. So I'm sure that you can feel that a little bit.

Speaker 1: 4:42

Oh yeah, oh yeah. Everything you just said I can relate to a lot because I was raised Catholic. So I'm kind of actually how, what were you raised with anything like this when it comes to paradigms and energy and that kind of conversation?

Speaker 2: 4:57

No, I was raised Roman Catholic, so it was very much that. Okay same.

Speaker 1: 5:03

Same same.

Speaker 1: 5:03

And so when I no one ever, actually ever, even talked to me about this but I got intuitive hips as well and I've talked about that a lot on this podcast that was back in May and I have I feel like I have quantum leaps in terms of mindset and emotion and everything mental since that moment.

Speaker 1: 5:25

And it blows my mind because if you had asked me this at the start of the year, like I don't even recognize myself of, like the decisions I would make, how I operated, because it was such in a you know what society kind of teaches us, where it's like don't listen to your intuition and what they say is right, and all that stuff. And you know, I used to be so fearful of God because I'm like I'm not being good enough, so crazy. So it's funny how you said all that, where you're like I just started getting these intuitive hits, because I can very much relate to that and I do feel a shift and I want to talk all about these things. So let's switch over to like, as you started to kind of like have these intuitive hits and talk to people, what did you find next? Because I know you're saying like you're living this like completely different life with which I can kind of relate to just from my own experience, but like, why don't you elaborate a little bit about that?

Speaker 2: 6:16

So what I found this happened for me personally. This was my experience, and what I found in talking to people is there's a general sense of restlessness, and if you haven't already started to feel this, then you most likely will in the next upcoming weeks, months, even then in the next couple of years. But there's a general sense of restlessness. There's a feeling of people that they're just craving more things that were okay for a very long time or just not okay anymore, and they don't understand really why you could be so in love with, say, your job, one minute and then all of a sudden it's just not fulfilling you anymore and you just don't really understand why nothing's really changed except it has.

Speaker 2: 7:02

We're changing, we are evolving and we are expanding, we are ascending and we are walking towards this entire entirely new paradigm, this new way of being as humans. And so this is really just the conversations that I've been having is just how do I navigate these changes? How do I? What is this restlessness? How? How do I walk towards my purpose? What is my purpose? And all of these sort of conversations. And it really comes back to coming back into your own inner guidance and trusting that you always know what the next right step is and trusting those intuitive hits, like you mentioned. But, as you said, we are so conditioned to override our intuition always.

Speaker 2: 7:53

We are so conditioned to not listen to ourselves and to listen to external, external input, whether that's just friends and family or even greater, as experts and leaders and things like that are always going to tell us what to do, and so we can always take that in as our truth, or we can start to reevaluate what exactly our truth is, and so it really just comes down to coming back into ourselves and really trusting the guidance that we're always given.

Speaker 1: 8:30

I love that. When I had that, when I found that out and I started thinking about everything, the way that I live, the way that life is society, school, everything we are always told what to do instead of ever looking at in ourself, you know, people will say you know, go with what your gut says. Like, go with your gut. What does your gut say? That's like at the like, the most surface level, what we're talking about. But we're talking much deeper. I just try to paint a better picture if somebody is not familiar with this stuff, even though I talk quite a bit about this stuff on my podcast. Where it's like your gut is your inner intuition, it's your inner I like to say, ceo, like the name of this podcast your inner guidance, where you really don't have to look anywhere else but within. So where would you say that you'd have people start in exploring this? Like, if they're feeling restless, what would you advise them to do? Just like on the room for exploratory purposes?

Speaker 2: 9:24

Yeah, the very first thing that I would suggest doing is start taking an audit of your life and where you are being distracted. So that is going to be the very first step is clearing the noise and clearing the distractions in a lot of different areas in your life, because we are so distracted that we don't even realize that we are distracted and so we are constantly giving our energy to things in the external, when every time we do that, it's siphoning energy that we could be putting into developing ourselves, leaning into ourselves, coming back into stillness, spending time with ourselves, building that relationship with ourselves which is the number one relationship that we can ever foster before we can foster other relationships. So I would definitely recommend just starting to take an audit. Take a look at where can you clean up and clear out a lot of noise and distractions. That would be where I would start, for sure.

Speaker 1: 10:27

Yes, I always say self-awareness is everything. Without self-awareness, you don't know how you react to things, you don't know what calms you, and so I love that. You said that. It's funny.

Speaker 1: 10:35

I got heavy into this stuff over like June time, june, july, and I created a course all about it, and there's a module it's my Lucky Babe Academy course and there's a module in it that literally says Ditch the Strategy, and it's all about only listening to your inner intuition, your inner guidance to make the right moves, because that will be the best strategy for your business or your life than any book, any coach or whatever.

Speaker 1: 11:02

And that's I just would bring that point home of like that's what you and I are talking about is really get to know yourself better and start listening to those little like hints and stuff. I also know that you're really big on teaching people about science and synchronicities and you've helped me tremendously with mine how I have figured out that a hawk is my spirit animal. I actually got that confirmed, which was so wild and it makes a lot of sense. So for backstory, I've seen a hawk every day, if multiple times a day, since May, like it's wild, and one was stopped on the trail when I was riding my horse on the fence and I got like four feet away from it. It didn't even fly away, it gave me goosebumps. It was crazy. But can you touch a little bit on science and synchronicities, because you also have held some awesome masterclasses about that.

Speaker 2: 11:49

So, in my experience, science and synchronicities are the way that the universe or your higher self, your spirit, guides, always communicate, and it's just really attuning our awareness to recognize these signs and synchronicities that can show up every day, multiple times a day, to understand how loved and guided and supported we really are, especially when we are trying to navigate some of these changes and things that are a little bit uncomfortable. It could be a life change, it could be a small change, but so often those are the times that we're looking for validation Are we making the right decision? Are we doing the right thing? Because we don't quite trust ourselves yet. That's something that comes with a lot of practice and it comes with a lot of intention.

Speaker 2: 12:35

So science and synchronicities, in my experience, show up when we're needing that love and support and reassurance a lot, and so this is something that I teach, as you mentioned, a masterclass on free masterclass.

Speaker 2: 12:49

I usually run it every month and I talk a lot about how you can learn to experience science and synchronicities for what exactly they are, which is validation that you are exactly where you are supposed to be always, you are divinely timed and you are perfect in the situation that you are in in every decision that you're making is the right decision.

Speaker 2: 13:13

And so once you start to realize that you are receiving this constant support, then imagine how free you would feel, knowing that every decision that you make is the right decision. And then you receive these signs, these synchronicities that just confirm that, and it begins to you begin to build that trust muscle with yourself, so that when you feel a download or you feel an intuitive ping, you can just move and you begin to move faster, and then you're validated, and then that's how time collapses and that's how you find yourself in a very short time and living a completely different life, almost. And that doesn't mean that what you, where you currently are, is good or bad. It just means that we're constantly walking towards that next version of ourself, and that is the way to get there faster.

Speaker 1: 14:05

You just said so much. That just like just hits me because it's that has been my experience. You know I I played around with these things. I've done a podcast episode about asking my first sign and, and I got it, and then it was like this new game and I feel exactly what you're saying is like I now walk around with more confidence and trust that I fully supported. You know how many times do you think like, do I go this way or that way when you're driving home, like traffic or whatever, and then all of a sudden you choose a way and then you see a license plate with 444 or 111, or for me, I see a hawk and I'm like I knew I was exactly supposed to be where I was and where this is even crazier is we're moving to Texas in at the time of me recording this, in two weeks from today, which is like wild and that's a big move. I don't have family out there. We, like I have a cousin, but he's young, he's married, they don't have kids yet, so it's a little different phases of life. It's a big move.

Speaker 1: 15:04

And we were at a house and we met our neighbors who were building right across the street from us and by the grace of God or you know, they happen to be there the same time. We did, like these are just vacant, lots being built, their houses are framed and all that. And so they were there and as we were talking them and meeting them, up in the sky was a hawk and I'm like this is all happening exactly as it's supposed to, like you can't make it up, which kind of goes into like the coincidence thing. When I learned that there is no such thing as coincidence, my mind was a little blown and I didn't want to believe it at first. Did you have any of that where, when you started tapping into this and a little bit in you, where it's like this is too woo, this can't be accurate, because I do, I still do.

Speaker 2: 15:46

I mean I, even though I've been doing this for a long time, and I mean this as in like, being intentional, creating space in my day where I can really sit and connect in. That's what's really strengthened my connection with my own internal guidance system, my own spirit guides, my own intuition, and I still sometimes will question myself or I'll still see a sign or something like that and be like Is that the sign? I mean and you know it's just human nature because we still second guess ourselves, even though I've been for a long time. But to your point, it gets to be fun when you are, when you are constantly in the state of anticipation.

Speaker 2: 16:29

It's just a high vibe frequency that you are staying in for a lot of your day which is going to begin to attract these things into your life, because you are anticipating, you are, you are staying in that state of anticipating seeing a hawk, and so every decision that you make, it's almost like you're expecting the hawk to be there, and a lot of times I'm sure it will.

Speaker 2: 16:53

And even when it's not, you've already started to cultivate and build that trust muscle with yourself that the hawk showing up, and I don't want to put words in your mouth, but the hawk showing up is like the icing on the cake. You already know that you are where you're supposed to be because you've received all of these nudges along the way, all of these validations along the way, so you just again get to move through life with so much more ease and flow and freedom, because you don't get stuck in that decision paralysis as much at least that's my experience because I could. I could spend forever in that state, picking one or the other and oh my God, and all the pros and cons. And so when you can just eliminate that as much as possible of course getting rid of it entirely may not be feasible, but eliminating it as much as possible just allows for so much more freedom and flow and fun, which is what life is supposed to be.

Speaker 1: 17:50

And fun. It is supposed to be fun. Not every decision should be life or death. And when you're stuck on making a decision this is what I tell my clients and what I say on this podcast is like have fun with and ask for a sign, or start to know. If you see angel numbers, which is what I'm saying, angel numbers which are the same number in a row, or or a sign, like I had said and then you're going to literally feel like I the best way for me to say is like I feel so secure, like I have a hug like someone's, like right there, which I kind of want to talk about. Guide. So I know that you are. You have a very good relationship, it sounds like, with your spear guides. I I do, but not to the level of you, obviously, but I would love to know how you have like cultivated that relationship and what one can do to tap in and start working with their own guides, because we all have guides, correct, we all have we all have guides, we all have spirit guides.

Speaker 2: 18:43

I mean they, I refer to them as spirit guides, you could refer to them as God, you could refer to it as source. I mean it's all. It's all, in my opinion, the recognition of a force outside of yourself, that it, that it. You know your higher self. It is connected to you, but it's outside of you also. So I know that gets a little bit into the quantum. I know, it's way of thinking? Yeah, it's out there. It is, but.

Speaker 1: 19:09

I also want to. I'm so glad you said that. I want to address that just for the listener. Who who might be like, wait a second, whoa, and I just want to encourage you to stay with us for a little bit because it'll make more sense, especially as you start learning more about it.

Speaker 2: 19:22

So I think what I have experienced is I started really connecting in with my own spirit guides, with spirit team or higher self, when I was really being intentional intentional about creating stillness in my day, just sitting in stillness, and I realized there are so many seasons of life and there are so many things that are pulling us in a lot of different directions, and I myself, last summer, went through this season where I had both of my kids home. It was very difficult. My routine was not the same as when they were in school and I had quiet space in my day. So I found that, even though I was trying to be intentional, I wasn't having the same amount of time to just sit still. But what I have found is, even if it's just for a couple of minutes of really just sitting still, taking a few deep breaths, checking in, inviting my guides into the space, and just even if that was all I could do, if that's all I had time for, I just allowed it to be what it was, and so then I would go about my day and sometimes what I would find is I would be washing dishes, I would be doing my makeup, I would be folding clothes and I would receive these little, almost like whispers of guidance, like you should call this person or you should text this person, or you should go listen to this podcast, or things like that. That's how it began to come in to me.

Speaker 2: 20:50

Those are the little intuitive things that when we are so distracted and we're so busy and we're not really tuning in, they're so easy to miss. And it doesn't mean that they'll never come back around they always will. But it's when you are able to recognize them the first time that you're able to move a little bit faster, if that makes sense. And so that's how I began to really cultivate. My connection was being intentional about creating some quiet time in my day, really sitting with no distractions and really just checking in. And then the guidance would start to come. You know, thoughts would would start to flow in, feelings that I hadn't felt in a while would start to come to the surface to be healed, like there's so much that goes on in the stillness space that that's really. It's really a point of creation. It's really where you can tap into a lot of different things and really create magic from that space.

Speaker 1: 21:44

Oh yeah, oh yeah. I agree and I want people to know who listen to this that everyone has guides and they will listen to you and they will actually try to really help you if you start to become open to it. I found that is like the second. I asked for a sign. I asked for two signs. I didn't even know what the heck I was doing. I literally looked up Gabby Bernstein and I talked about her on this podcast and she walked me through how to ask for a sign and I was all over the place. I asked for two and I thought the one almost an hour later because our guides want us essentially, like.

Speaker 1: 22:14

I heard this term and I was like, oh, that's pretty accurate. This might go over some some of your heads, but you know, essentially we're all like sleepwalking and then it's once you become to awaken that there is spiritual guides and souls and a greater being outside of you that really wants you to have the utmost best life happy, you know, joyous and they have your back, they want to help you see that they're there for them. So, like, if you ask for a sign, you can see it. I actually had at this conversation with an interview I was on and she played around with this herself and she saw it on her drive home. She like asked to see like a young green truck, and she saw a young green truck. It's wild, but it's because they really actually are there to help you. It's not like my guides don't like me. My guides aren't there for me. I'm alone. It's quite the opposite.

Speaker 2: 22:59

It's very much the opposite and, just to go along with the fact that everybody has guides, everybody has psychic ability. Everybody has the same ability to tap into their, to their guidance system. We all do. We all are capable of doing it. Some may have Learned it early on, some may have just been born with that ability and some of us, like myself, have had to really cultivate a practice Around it and really be intentional about building that trust muscle and really connecting in. But we all have the ability.

Speaker 2: 23:31

So, just because you feel like you are quote-unquote not psychic, it it's irrelevant, because we're all being reminded and I'm sure that Some of your listeners may have had this experience where they're they're having like their own Psychic sort of phenomenon, or they have their own their experience, their own intuitive Nudges and things that they've never experienced before, or they're witnessing it in friends and family members. This has been going on with with me and my family and watching some of them come quote-unquote online and it's really fascinating because we we are all. We are all developing this at different rates, but we're all developing it yeah so is that kind of what you mean about as a collective?

Speaker 1: 24:16

a new paradigm shift is happening, because I've heard that and I don't know Exactly what that means.

Speaker 2: 24:22

It means yes, so we're all being. The new paradigm is, in my opinion, one of the ways to look at it is a deconditioning from the old Structures. A lot of the old things that were in place are starting to break down, so you'll notice this in big structures like, maybe, the education system. So, for example, there's so much more Resources, so many more resources, so much more conversation around the concept of homeschooling, then Traditional education, things like that. That's not to say traditional education is going to go away and that homeschooling is the way of the future, but it's just a shift.

Speaker 2: 24:59

A lot of these things that have been in place for a very long time are Starting to break down and be restructured, and so, as a result of that, a lot of us are making decisions from this place of intuition Versus the logical part of our brain, like I have to do.

Speaker 2: 25:18

I have to work 40 hours a week to make this X amount of money and I have to go through these steps to get to this position. Things like that are are no longer going to be the way of thinking in the future. It's going to be much more intuitively led. Your people are going to be moving Based on how they feel about things versus what the logical next step is, and so there's just going to be a lot of restructuring of all of it. It's really going to be a map magical. It really is, because, as you, if you can imagine every, every person making a decision based on how they feel and what they're intuitively being guided to do, can you imagine what the world would be like versus this is what I'm being told to do, so I'm just going to do it this way because I'm told to do it this way. You know, it's just an entirely different.

Speaker 1: 26:13

Exactly, exactly. Yeah, I'm told to do it this way. It doesn't feel right but I have to. If I don't do it that way, I'm going to be shamed or guilt and I'm going to be seen as bad. I'm going to be then be labeled like. That's where I think people become just angry and Because they're not being led with what they really actually want to do. That I think it could lead to a lot of amazing world peace and I think if more people can tap into their spirit guys which are all good, you know, and they're all good and they're meant for you, your journey, who you are, at your, like, soul level that I think would literally add to world peace. So I'm excited for this new paradigm shift. I've been hearing rumors that it's like it's going to be done by like 2027, or is there actually a time for it? Because I know time is an illusion.

Speaker 2: 26:56

I mean, I have read that too and I think, as you said, time is an illusion. I would hate to put strict time parameters, but I think that as the more and more people develop this, as more, the more and more people develop their intuitive knowledge and really strengthen that muscle between themselves and the universe, that it's just going to continue to expand and expand and expand, and it's going to grow faster and People are going to start walking into their purpose and actually living what they're here to do versus what they are not feeling is Fulfilling them and that sort of thing, and so I think that it's just going to be the way of the future. For now, that could be 2027. I don't know, it could be far, yeah, but I think that a lot has happened, because conversations like this are more widely accepted than they were even In five years ago. You know, so I, that that is just a sign of the way things are and where we're headed 100%.

Speaker 1: 27:59

When I started talking about manifestation and spirit guides and I kept like talking on this podcast about like yeah, I've kind of gotten woo and I was so worried that I was gonna lose listeners. But the opposite happened and I think I'm doing my part as my job. My Dharma here is to help be talker and educator about this and if it's, if it makes people think I'm crazy, I it's like I have to release that because I love talking about it. My life has junk, leaps and bounds because of it and like I'm just walking around much more happier, which, like you said, is high vibe. And I just want to say for the listener you know, when you get to this point, that you can trust your decisions and you know you're supporting. In your high vibe, you're literally a magnet for abundance. It's not like you have to do more to make more. You got to do this path because that person did it and she's a bazillion errors, so now I have to do it. It's not that at all. It's actually like take some time, like you said, and I did want to touch on how you said that people are in different phases of their life.

Speaker 1: 28:56

I have a two-year-old, a two and a half year old and a 14-month-old like I don't have quiet time, but I do still find time to do this. When I wake up, you know I wake up to my kids crying, always like they're early risers. But I also do it when I first go to sleep. I just sit in Silence before it goes off to sleep and it's hard to control your thoughts. But if you can just like, like, welcome Any intuitive hits in your spirit guides. That's helped me a ton, and then also in the car Driving has also helped me. So it's not like a total meditative state. I say this because I know I have tons of moms who listen, but you can still Still tempt, you know, to have that quiet time.

Speaker 2: 29:36

I agree. And in the car is where I started recognizing angel numbers, when I would is, of course, yes, we're just bone-out, ish, right. So I would just be thinking of something and then I would notice like it's 444. And I remember being like what the heck? And seeing the same number all the time and then really Leaning into like what does that actually mean? And so that is too I agree with you. In the car is perfect.

Speaker 2: 30:03

And also I've been having this conversation a lot too with some of my private clients on who are in this busy phase of life. And if you can't do it every day, that's okay. Can you do it once a week? Can you find 30 minutes once a week? Start with that, like, just start somewhere.

Speaker 2: 30:19

And this was I started doing that before I even knew what I was doing, when I was in a very busy season of life and my kids Were younger, and it was before I knew that I was really intentionally cultivating this connection. But I would take a bath once a week and my husband would put the kids to bed. That was like my in-home spa night. That was after dinner, it was on Wednesdays when he was home and I would go take a bath and I would bring a notebook in there, and that was the only time that I could fit in during that season of my life and I received a lot of Guidance and I was able to process through a lot of things and really pay attention to Guidance I was given during that time and so, even though it wasn't every day, it was still an intentional practice. It was still honoring what I wanted it to be, and so I would just encourage your listeners that are in a busy phase to just try something like that, even if it's for 30 minutes, 15 minutes, whatever once a week.

Speaker 1: 31:17

I love that. I never even thought of that like even once a week. Whatever you can do, like you just just start right, like with anything, just start get going. Yeah, so you have amazing masterclasses every month. All that I'm going to link in the show notes. But you, I think I've hopped on to like three and I personally worked with you too. She's excellent. But what would you recommend somebody if they wanted to start dabbling in this with, like asking for signs and synchronicities, like where would you have people start?

Speaker 2: 31:44

I would definitely start by opting into the free Signs and Synchronousities Masterclass. I think that we go over what Signs and Synchronousities are, how to ask for them and how to receive them. It's totally free and I usually run this Masterclass once a month. It would be the perfect opportunity to dip your toe in and get some basic information and see if it's something that you resonate with or not. In either way is perfect, but that's what I would recommend just to really get some more information about what the heck I'm even talking about Signs and Synchronousities and to really begin to put it into practice.

Speaker 1: 32:24

Yeah, yeah, I highly recommend that too. You can find that in the show notes. It's every month, which is awesome, but I would also like just trying to silence the mind, silence the thoughts and the chance that you can, and just have fun with asking for a sign. Like I literally asked for three fives and then a Ferrari and I got both of them. It was just wild Two days apart, though, because I was like, oh, it's a one sentence, but it's fun. It's really, really fun. So I got tripped up when I started asking for a sign as well, because I was thinking I was asking a sign for specifically around my business and you probably remember this and there was one day I literally asked for to see a butterfly and I saw 11. I said, if this is going to be my biggest week in business, show me a butterfly. Or I said, show me three, that's right, three monarch butterflies. Now it's coming back to me because I asked for so many signs.

Speaker 2: 33:18

And.

Speaker 1: 33:19

I saw 11 and I freaked out and it actually didn't end up happening with my business, and I think this is important to talk about because I don't want you to make the same mistake I made where I asked for a sign specifically around something and you, you enlighten me, You're like it does not work. Like that. Could you kind of like it was a big week for me but it had nothing to do with my business, so do you think you can touch on stuff like that?

Speaker 2: 33:44

So one of the things that I and there's different schools of thought on this, but one of the things that I always say when you are asking for a sign is you is to try to release all expectation of what that sign means. So you asking for a monarch and receiving it didn't necessarily mean that it was your biggest time in your business, but it it was validation that you're exactly where you're supposed to be. And so that is where sometimes we get tripped up, myself included, because sometimes you put a lot of parameters on what, when we want the sign to come in, how we want it to come in, what we want it to look like, and that's not how the universe communicates. And so if you are going to ask for a specific sign, then I always recommend just ask for it and leave everything else up to the universe how it's coming, what does it mean, what does it look like, and so I. One example is I was asking for a sign and I asked for a rainbow.

Speaker 2: 34:46

Well, I live in New York. We see rainbows pretty regularly. I assumed I was going to see a live rainbow, but it was actually later that afternoon, when I was walking through my kitchen and on my daughter's library book that was facedown. There was a tiny rainbow in the corner of the library book, and so that is what I mean. If I was just looking for rainbows in the sky, I would have totally missed it. So it doesn't necessarily have to mean a specific outcome. I usually just encourage you to think of signs and synchronicities, as you are exactly where you are supposed to be in that exact moment, and that is really all the reassurance we ever need, because we're always trying to stay in the present moment, and so that's all we need.

Speaker 1: 35:34

Exactly, and I hope that the listeners take that and like, really like, digest it, because someone who's O, type A, like me, like I, was ultimately trying to control everything. When this is a partnership, we are co-creators, we are not in charge. We can't grind and hustle and like force and control things to happen exactly how we want, because it just doesn't work like that. So I started then releasing all expectations, whatever it meant, and I took it as a warm hug. I'm validated, I'm supported, I'm good. And then, when I completely surrendered to that, everything started popping off, everything, because I stopped being like, okay, universe, I need to see three monarch butterflies.

Speaker 1: 36:15

That I'm going to have a 25K month Like all these things, and it's just don't do what I did essentially.

Speaker 2: 36:20

Right, and that's so true though, because it's and me too, I am so used to being in control, and that's just how we are conditioned to be, and it's supposed to follow a specific order, and if I do this, then this, but so it really is just a reframing of your entire perspective and kind of how you look at things. If you just open your awareness, then you will most likely see the sign that you're asking for on whatever the universe's timeframe is, because it's not always on our timeframe and there's so many things that you know can spring off from that. But that's really, ultimately, really good advice is to just let go of the outcome of the time, yeah, and that it's always for you.

Speaker 1: 37:04

That was the other thing, too I was. It took me a while to believe that because I was like you'd be let down right, especially to start playing around with this. But then to know and trust that everything is happening for you at the right time, like I've talked to us a lot on this podcast, that you can't compare yourself and all that, and just so that if it's on your heart it's going to happen, but like letting go of, like just any outcome and the pace in which it's going to happen, and just know that it's all for you, it's not. Nothing went wrong. Like you, you know, my husband got in a car accident recently and we still it's. You know it's challenging at first, so we're like this is for me, wait a second but like we're just taking the opportunity of like who knows who will meet because of this. Do you know what I mean? Who's going?

Speaker 1: 37:48

to come into my life because of this car accident, because I've got crazy things that I thought were a horrible situation and they turned into something totally different and so, yeah, everything's happening for you and trusting in that, even as something is crazy and it was just a little fender runner, so he's fine. That actually reminds me to bring this up to you is when you started tapping in to science, synchronize more of the quote, quote, woo, stuff like I have. How did your husband handle it? Because I can tell you about mine. So he is so.

Speaker 2: 38:20

So I've always yelled out Agile numbers I mean, that's something too that I go over in the science and synchronization masterclass and what exactly angel numbers are and how and like what do they mean. So I always have yelled out I would say more recently, but it when I was doing my sitting in stillness, when I, when I had time, when my life shifted and I had this time to do this work and I would sit there, he was very much like what the heck are you doing?

Speaker 1: 38:49

Yes.

Speaker 2: 38:50

So and I would like well, I'm communicating with my spirit guides and I'm writing down what they say and like. And he was like, oh, okay, and it wasn't until I started sharing with him some of the information that was was coming through that he really was starting to pay attention because he would start to play around with it too. And so I would say, well, I'm just going to go ahead and share with you a little bit with asking for a sign and then seeing it, and so you know he's, he's listened to me talk about it and how I have introduced my kids to this entire concept, and so very much is a family thing at this point, just a regular way of being, that you're always guided, you're always supported. We always yell out angel numbers. It's just, you know, how do you feel about things? You know, a little bit of a challenge.

Speaker 1: 39:44

Oh yeah, my, my experience sounds just like yours, my husband's like what are you talking about?

Speaker 1: 39:51

Like spirit guides. What do you mean, god? Like, what are you talking about? Very Catholic family he came from, and then he started playing around with it and he started seeing it, and so now we tell each other, like he'll text me, like it's 1111, where it's two to two, and you and I have talked about this, and I think I was the first ever client of yours to have said this, but my oldest son was born at three and three am. Is that not nuts? It gets me chill still and I like I cannot wait to see what he does in this life because, like, that's not an accident and I didn't know a thing about angel numbers.

Speaker 1: 40:22

I actually I can't even believe. I'm admitting this because I lived a very different life before all this. I used to remember thinking is he going to be made fun of? Is that a bad number? Like? What does that mean? Like a 666, although that also doesn't have any negative connotation, that's just what we've been told. Argued that with me, I dare you but like.

Speaker 1: 40:39

And then it's so funny now to see quite the opposite, and even crazier, when we decided we were going to move and build a house in Texas. We're building in a community that has these giant lots and that's what makes it special and we started with one lot first and then didn't really like the builder, and so we had to find a new builder who had separate lots and we settled on this new builder and he's like great, the lot that you guys really like. The address is 3332. Oh my gosh, you can't make it up. I love it, I know so it's just it's wild because, yeah, I don't know where I was going, that, but just my son was born at that time and so I'm like I can't wait to see what he does in this world.

Speaker 2: 41:21

Well, and also, as in, everybody has a different opinion on angel numbers and exactly what they mean.

Speaker 2: 41:27

But I, as you become more aware and as you recognize angel numbers and how they show up in your life, you can tie them to specific areas of your life, and that too is what you start to differentiate between angel numbers for, like, I have a specific number that always shows up around my business versus a number that was associated with my mother in law before she passed away, and so that number, every time that number shows up, it's my mother-in-law is around and she's very much involved in our daily life.

Speaker 2: 41:59

So you can start to really get a lot of comfort out of seeing and recognizing these numbers and how they show up in different areas of your life, and those two can help you just move or validate or make decisions. And it really just becomes so much fun when you go throughout your day and you're looking for animals or signs or angel numbers and you're just expecting to see them because you know that you will. So it's really just a high vibe. It's a place to operate from, especially when you, like you said, especially when you're navigating some big decisions and looking for some support, totally.

Speaker 1: 42:37

Oh gosh, I could talk to you forever, but I want to respect your time. I have loved this conversation. So, people who are loving this, I'm going to obviously send over, or having the show notes, your free masterclass, as well as your Instagram, everything. But like, where do people go first? How should they connect with you? How can they work with you?

Speaker 2: 42:55

The easiest way to connect with me right now would be on Instagram. I'm very active over there, and so I have a lot of fun things going on, but that's usually where I announce things first, and so there's also an opportunity in my LinkedIn bio for the waitlist for the next signs and synchronicities masterclass, so you can opt in there. But definitely connect with me on Instagram, because I would love to hear from anybody who has listened to this and wants to know more.

Speaker 1: 43:23

Yes, awesome. Well, I'm so, so thankful for your time. I trust everyone got something out of this. It's so good and, all right, head over to show notes. Get that information just as amazing, and thank you for listening, catch you next week for having me.

Speaker 1: 43:37

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