She is Redefined
Welcome to She Is Redefined, the podcast that feels like a chat with your best friend over coffee. I’m Katie Smith, and I’m here to help you break free from all those outdated societal expectations and embrace the amazing woman you’re meant to be!
Each week, we dive into real, relatable conversations about everything from self-discovery and confidence to living life on your own terms. I’ll share inspiring stories, sprinkle in some practical tips, and just have a blast exploring what it means to be unapologetically YOU.
So, if you’re ready to rewrite your story and make bold moves toward a life that feels authentically yours, you’re in the right place. Grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and let’s redefine the rules of success together—while having a blast along the way!
She is Redefined
Season 2 Ep 21: Your Edge Isn’t Missing—You Just Haven’t Been Moving In It
You don’t need more strategy. You don’t need to be more visible. You don’t need to work harder.
🔥 The game has changed.
People aren’t buying from strategy anymore. They’re buying from energy.
Your dream clients aren’t looking for another option—they’re looking for the only option.
And they don’t choose you because you follow the ‘right’ tactics. They choose you because they can’t ignore your presence.
But here’s the thing—your edge isn’t missing. You just haven’t been moving in it.
💡 Inside this episode, I’m breaking down:
✔ Why your power isn’t something you need to create—it’s something you need to unleash
✔ The biggest ways women mute their own power without even realizing it
✔ How to shift into full power & own your presence without ‘trying harder’
✔ The exact moves that make everything start responding to you differently
This isn’t about forcing. It’s about refining. It’s about showing up as the woman who knows it’s hers.
🎧 Listen now and recalibrate your energy instantly.
🔥 Ready for the next level? Grab my free activation ‘Born For This’
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Welcome to She Is Redefined, the podcast that feels like a chat with your best friend over coffee. I’m Katie Smith, and I’m here to help you break free from all those outdated societal expectations and embrace the amazing woman you’re meant to be!
Each week, we dive into real, relatable conversations about everything from self-discovery and confidence to living life on your own terms. I’ll share inspiring stories, sprinkle in some practical tips, and just have a blast exploring what it means to be unapologetically YOU.
So, if you’re ready to rewrite your story and make bold moves toward a life that feels authentically yours, you’re in the right place. Grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and let’s redefine the rules of success together—while having a blast along the way!
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Welcome to she is Redefined, the podcast where we break free from societal expectations, redefine our identities and step fully into the woman we were always meant to be. I'm Katie Smith, your host and guide on this journey of transformation. Here, we're all about embracing change, cultivating confidence and living life on our own terms. Each week, we'll dive into topics that inspire, challenge and empower you to redefine what it means to be you. Dive into topics that inspire, challenge and empower you to redefine what it means to be you. So if you're ready to rewrite your story and live life that's bold, authentic and unapologetically yours, let's dive in. Hello, welcome back to another episode of she is Redefined.
Speaker 1:I hope you are having a beautiful, beautiful day wherever you are, whatever you're doing and all the things. The weather in Texas. You got to love how quick it changes because it was so beautiful the last time I recorded this, which was literally two days ago, and now it's like tornado weather, like woo, but honestly, I find the weather in Texas to be completely entertaining. If I'm being totally honest with you, a couple of updates. We have potty trained our two-year-old Like what? When did that? Like I'm done with diapers, what, what? And I know what you're thinking Are you going to have any more kids? Never say never. But I've been a little preoccupied. I moved my family halfway across the country. My horse had major, major emergency stuff over the past like two and a half, three months. So like I don't know, know, but do we feel done? No, but also we're out of diapers. That's also kind of cool.
Speaker 1:But let me tell you boy moms out there, can I get a freaking amen? Is that even the right word? I have no words. It's the end of the day and I'm hanging on by a thread. They are each other's best friends, worst enemies, wrestling, fighting. One needs this thing that the other has. All the time, all the live, long day, like full, real, anyways. But I love them. God knew I could handle it and honestly, deep down, I always knew I was going to be a boy mom. But like dang, this stuff is hard, I'm not kidding. Anyways, okay, what do I want to talk to you about? A freaking awesome topic actually, I want to talk to you about your edge, how it was never missing. It's just you have not been moving within it.
Speaker 1:So here on my podcast, I like to talk about things of power and presence and moving, like you already have it all and I really want to now dive into this game changer that we need to just address. First of all, the game has changed entirely. Obviously, we've been told strategy sells and visibility sells and people buy from visibility and strategy and it's a numbers game and it's changed from that. And I'm here to tell you right now being visible, posting more, following the right cookie cutter strategy is so 2023. I can't even tell you People don't buy like that anymore.
Speaker 1:People buy from energy. Before you even speak, they pick up on your energy and they don't choose you because you follow the right tactics. No, your dream clients, what they actually want, who they actually want to invest in they're not looking for someone who's just another option. They're looking for the only option, and I want that to be you in your niche, in your industry. Your dream clients don't choose you because you follow the right tactics. They choose you because they can't ignore your energy. And this is where most women get it wrong. They're still trying to play by the old rules that tell them to do more, show up more, be more strategic like blah. But what actually works in my world, moving with so much fucking power and certainty that people feel it before you even say a word. That's your edge.
Speaker 1:And if you're not seeing results like the results that you want right now, it is not because you're missing something, it's not because the timing's wrong. It's because you haven't been moving in a power. That means you already have it, the power that it's already yours. So let's unpack this much more before I get all passionate on you, okay? So the truth is, right now, without changing a single thing about who you are, you already have a way of moving, a way of speaking and leading that commands attention. You've always had that. You can even probably remember a time where things just like like dang, I like just crushed that right now, or everybody was like vibing, like everybody was feeling my vibe. It was that just went so smooth. You know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1:But if you're stuck when you're feeling stuck, if you're not seeing results that you know you're capable of, it's not because you don't have power. It's because you haven't been moving within yours. Odds are you've been holding back. Maybe at some point you were told you were too much or that you like needed to tone it down, or you didn't really know what you were doing. Like you know. Calm down there. You know what I'm talking about. Maybe at some point you diluted yourself, or you have been diluting yourself because you don't want to make others uncomfortable with how big you really are, like how much energy and space you want to take up, and maybe you've been playing by someone else's rules.
Speaker 1:Actually, I see this one the most, where you're trying to fit into a mold from a previous coach or from a course and that mold was never meant for you. So I actually had a client one time try to embody a lot of the things that I do and I loved that. But we had to have a kind of a difficult conversation where I was like I love that you're doing these things, but is this authentic to you? Just because you see me doing it, I love that you want to mimic me, but that is not what I'm trying to teach you. I'm trying to teach you to find your edge. What gets you going? If dancing in front of the mirror ain't your thing, you don't have to do it. Do you know what I mean? And it was a beautiful conversation and she looked within and she realized and found her own edge and then double down on it and, oh my gosh, her stuff is blowing up right now. It is blowing up. It makes me beyond happy, okay, anyway.
Speaker 1:So back to this. Is you got to find your mold and stop trying to fit into one that was made for you but wasn't meant for you. You following me and then the worst part that I see is that it's so easy to believe this is just how it is right, like you're holding back, you're deluding yourself, you're playing by someone else's rules. Things aren't totally there and you're thinking this is just how it is. Maybe you've fallen into that, maybe you feel that right now, but let me make this clear the most powerful version of you, the one that magnetizes high level clients, creates massive momentum and scales with ease, my friend, she's not waiting for you to learn more. She's not waiting for you to be more visible. She's waiting for you to stop muting what's already there. She can't even find you. She's waiting for the not watered down, diluted version of you. She's waiting to see you as the only option, and not one of many.
Speaker 1:And the second you do this, everything shifts. So you're probably thinking, okay, well, like how, yeah, well, how do you start moving? Like the woman who already owns the room, without forcing, without second guessing, without chasing a single thing about yourself. It's identify your unique power, your signature power, like what makes you you. You already have a way of speaking, moving and leading that pulls people into you. What is that? Look at where you're naturally magnetic. Look at where people already trust you. They listen to you, they follow your lead. You have had an experience like this. Your power isn't something you create. It's something you recognize and double the fuck down on. You lean in harder.
Speaker 1:Another thing is stop justifying literally everything and anything. Just stop, stop, stop, stop and just start owning. Like, the second you stop explaining yourself, people will start to listen to you. The second you stop seeking validation, you become the woman who sets the standard. It's just natural. It's the way it goes. This is how this works, even though we want to get up, all up in our heads because we're not doing it a certain way. But this is literally how it works.
Speaker 1:Ask yourself these questions when you're starting to feel yourself justified. Like where am I still over explaining my decisions? Where am I still convincing people of my worth instead of just embodying my worth? Like get real honest with yourself, the last thing I want you to do, or I suggest you do. By all means do whatever you want is move with certainty. Like, instead of waiting for someone to give you certainty, can you give that to yourself in every move that you make and be decisive in your moves?
Speaker 1:Power isn't about the loudest person in the room. Power isn't the one who being the silliest in the room and the loudest and acting out and wanting attention. That does not always mean confidence. There's fake confidence out there. But power it's about the certainty you carry in every decision, every room you walk into, every move you make, where, like, you make a decision and you just know it's going to work out, every room you walk into, every move you make. We're like you make a decision and you just know it's going to work out, even though you don't know it's going to work out. But you have a just embodiment belief system around you. Moving with power and shit just fucking falls into place. The women who own their power do not question, they do not hesitate and they do not shrink. The women in my world right now. They don't overcomplicate, they don't overanalyze, they decide and because they decide, they win multiple times over, every single time, because of the certainty they give themselves.
Speaker 1:This is the shift that no one talks about. Your dream clients don't want the watered down version of you. Your dream clients are scrolling past you because you look at like you're one of many. They want the version of you that is unfiltered and unapologetically you. They don't want the version of you that's been shaped by industry noise Again one of many. They want the authentic edgy you, what is your edge? And the second you start moving in that direction. You stop waiting for permission on anything, you stop chasing results and all of a sudden, it's like results are chasing you. You stop trying to fit into what works for other people and start becoming the woman people look to. You feel me, this is how you shift from pushing for success to attracting it. This is how you go from feeling invisible, like you're blending in, to becoming the undeniable choice. And the best part is, you don't have to change anything. You don't have to buy a new strategy. You just have to start moving in the power that's already yours. Move with your edge, not ignore it.
Speaker 1:If this felt like a wake-up call, good, I love you, but this isn't about adding more to your plate. I want to get that very, very clear. It's about refinement. It's about refining how you move, how you lead, how you show up in a way that makes everything around you respond differently. This is exactly why I created my Born For this, the Identity Shift free audio activation. It's my free activation that shifts you into this kind of energy immediately, like I just snapped my fingers. I don't know if you heard that Immediately. So if you want to go even deeper on this, grab my free activation link in the show notes and just have a try for yourself, see how it feels.
Speaker 1:But women in my world who are coming in, getting the free activation, stepping into power moves all of the above are literally starting businesses, pivoting their businesses, increasing their prices, negotiating contracts Like shit's getting cray cray over here and I freaking love it. And so if you want a taste of what your edge could be, shifting into the identity that's in you, I'm not asking you to be anyone else. I'm not asking you to become someone else. I'm asking you to just remember who you are and own that, however that looks within your edge. That's it, that's the sugar, that's the secret sauce. It's so good. So check it out, see if it's your thing, dm me on Instagram. If you've listened to it.
Speaker 1:I have gotten amazing responses. If you listen to it, will you be so kind to let me know what shift happened for you, what was activated within you? Tell me the goods. I need to know this stuff. I love to know this stuff.
Speaker 1:I want to be cheering for you and everyone who has told me thank you, I love you so much, but trust me, once you start moving like this, you will never play small again. Everything will just unfold so beautifully and you're gonna be like that was it? Like that was it? Yes, that was it. That was it. All right, I love you so much. I will catch you here next week. Bye. Thank you so much for tuning in to this episode of she is Redefined. If today's chat resonated with you, don't forget to hit subscribe so you never miss out. Remember, this is just the beginning of your journey and you've got everything you need to create the life that you want. If you enjoyed this episode, I'd love for you to leave a review or share it with another woman who's ready to redefine herself too. Until next time, keep embracing who you are, because you're powerful, you're capable and you are redefined. Thank you.
