3 Second Selling
The 3 Second Selling Podcast shows you how to earn attention, build trust, and spark action in a distracted world. Hosted by keynote speaker and former TV news anchor David Gee, each episode delivers practical insights on human connection, influence, and growth—without sounding like sales.
3 Second Selling
Clicks Are Optional. Trust Isn’t.
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Let me ask you a question that will make every marketer, speaker, and business owner slightly nauseous: Have you ever Googled something… got the answer… and never clicked a link? Of course you have. Congratulations. You’ve just met your new customer behavior. And here’s the punchline: your audience might never visit your website… but they will absolutely form an opinion about you. In the first three seconds. We’ve officially entered the era where the summary is the product.
Let me ask you a question that will make every marketer, speaker, and business owner slightly nauseous:
Have you ever Googled something… got the answer… and never clicked a link?
Of course you have.
Congratulations. You’ve just met your new customer behavior.
And here’s the punchline: your audience might never visit your website… but they will absolutely form an opinion about you.
In the first three seconds.
We’ve officially entered the era where the summary is the product.
People don’t read your full article.
They read the snippet.
They don’t watch the full keynote.
They watch the ten-second clip… with captions… while standing in line for coffee… half listening… and fully judging.
And now, with AI summaries and “answer-first” search, the internet is basically saying:
“Hey, don’t go to their site. We’ll tell you what they said.”
Which is adorable.
Because if you’ve ever played the telephone game, you know how that ends.
Hard pivot:
So if your message doesn’t survive compression, it doesn’t survive modern attention.
This is exactly why I teach 3 Second Selling.
Because your audience makes three lightning-fast decisions:
- Attention: “What is this?”
- Trust: “Is it real?”
- Contrast: “Why this and not the next thing?”
And here’s the new twist in 2026:
Your audience might not meet you first.
They might meet a summary of you first.
A snippet.
A quote.
A bullet list.
A screenshot.
A repost with half the context and all the confidence.
So today, I’m giving you a 15-minute tool that makes your message “summary-proof.”
Not perfect.
Not poetic.
Not padded.
Summary-proof.
And by the way, if you’re thinking, “This feels unfair,” you’re right.
Marketing in 2026 is like trying to convince someone to marry you…
…based on your driver’s license photo.
But we don’t whine. We win.
This is the framework for today:
The 3-Second Trust Stack.
Four parts.
And if any one of these is missing, people hesitate.
And hesitation is the silent killer of sales.
Part one: Identity in one breath.
If someone lands on your profile, your website, your bio, your intro…
They should instantly know:
Who you help.
What you do.
What changes because of it.
Not your job title.
Not your mission statement.
Not “passionate about synergy.”
Here’s the simplest formula:
“I help [audience] get [result] without [pain].”
Let me give you examples:
- “I help sales teams win attention fast without sounding salesy.”
- “I help leaders communicate change without losing their people.”
- “I help brands get remembered without spending like a Fortune 50.”
If you can’t say it in one breath, your audience can’t repeat it.
And if they can’t repeat it… they can’t refer you.
Hard pivot:
Clarity isn’t a nice-to-have. It’s your admission ticket.
Part two: Proof that fits in a tweet.
Not a resume.
Not a biography.
Not a 14-paragraph “About” section that starts in childhood and ends in trauma.
You need a receipt.
Because trust in 2026 is suspicious.
People assume you’re exaggerating until proven otherwise.
So you need proof that’s:
- Small enough to travel
- Specific enough to believe
- Simple enough to remember
Examples:
- “Keynotes for 40+ conferences.”
- “Helped cut churn by 12%.”
- “Grew inbound leads 3X in 90 days.”
- “Coached execs at [industry / recognizable tier] teams.”
Don’t overthink this.
Your proof should sound like you’re telling a friend the truth—not pitching a panel of judges.
Repeatable one-liner #1:
“If your proof can’t travel, your credibility can’t either.”
And please—this is important—don’t hide your proof in paragraph seven.
That’s like proposing on page nine of a PowerPoint.
Part three: A point of view that creates contrast.
Because the enemy isn’t your competitor.
The enemy is “sounds like everyone.”
Your audience is drowning in “we’re innovative” and “we leverage solutions.”
That language doesn’t build trust.
It builds naps.
So you need a simple contrast statement:
“We don’t do X. We do Y because Z.”
Examples:
- “We don’t sell features. We sell relief.”
- “We don’t chase attention. We earn trust.”
- “We don’t make messages longer. We make them land faster.”
This is what makes you recognizable.
And recognition is the first cousin of trust.
“If you sound like everybody, you’ll be treated like anybody.”
Hard truth:
Most marketing doesn’t fail because it’s bad.
It fails because it’s forgettable.
Part four: One frictionless next step.
One.
Not three.
Not “book a call, download the guide, subscribe, follow, join my newsletter, and adopt my dog.”
Your audience is already overwhelmed.
Your CTA should be so easy it feels like cheating.
Examples:
- “DM me the word ‘TRUST’ and I’ll send the checklist.”
- “Watch the 59-second reel—link in bio.”
- “Reply ‘STACK’ and I’ll give you my template.”
This matters because…
If you don’t tell people what to do next, they do what humans always do next:
They leave.
“Confusion doesn’t create customers. It creates exits.”
The “Summary-Proof” Test
Now let’s make this practical.
Here’s your test.
Take your LinkedIn headline, your Instagram bio, your homepage hero, your speaker intro—anything.
Now imagine it gets compressed into a summary.
Can a stranger tell in three seconds:
- What you do
- Why they should believe you
- Why you’re different
- What to do next
If the answer is no, you don’t have a marketing problem.
You have a clarity problem.
And clarity is solvable.
Let me tell you where this shows up in real life.
You’re at a conference.
Someone says, “So what do you do?”
And you go:
“Well… it’s kind of like… I help brands… and teams… with messaging… and strategy… and storytelling… across platforms…”
And while you’re still talking…
Their eyes do that thing.
That polite smile that says:
“I support you as a person… but I will not be purchasing anything today.”
That is not because you’re not talented.
It’s because your message didn’t clear the three-second bar.
We are entering a credibility economy.
AI can generate content.
Everyone can look “professional.”
Everyone can sound “smart.”
So the separator isn’t content volume.
It’s trust signals.
Consistency.
Specificity.
Receipts.
Point of view.
And the companies and people who win are the ones who stop trying to sound impressive…
…and start trying to sound true.
Because truth travels.
Here’s your homework—two minutes, right after this episode:
Write these four lines:
- “I help ____ do ____ without ____.”
- “Proof: ____.”
- “We don’t do ____. We do ____ because ____.”
- “Next step: ____.”
Then paste that into:
- Your LinkedIn headline and About
- Your website hero section
- Your speaker intro
- Your IG bio link page
And watch what happens.
Not overnight miracles.
But something better:
People finally understand you fast enough to trust you.
Here’s the takeaway:
Clicks are optional now.
But trust isn’t.
If your message doesn’t win attention, it never gets a chance at trust.
If it doesn’t win trust, it doesn’t matter how good you are.
And if it doesn’t create contrast, you get filed under “nice… but forgettable.”
So build the stack.
If you want my 3-Second Trust Stack template, DM me the word “STACK” and I’ll send it to you.
I’m David Gee, and this is 3 Second Selling.
Go earn attention—fast.
Then earn trust—faster.