Aubrey Chaves (Type 2): Death of the False Self

Today our guest is Aubrey Chaves. 

Aubrey is an Enneagram 2.

Just as a refresher, The Enneagram Two is called the Helper. They need to be needed and liked. They are naturally helpful and accommodating, but struggle with feeling unwanted, unworthy or unloved. 

Aubrey’s enneagram journey coincided with a painful crisis of faith. 

She talks about deconstructing her ideas about a God who is constantly disappointed with her, and rediscovering a God that loves her unconditionally. 

Aubrey talks about shame getting mixed into her faith, death of the false self, and discovering God through really truly knowing herself. 

She also gives really useful advice for 2s struggling to figure out what is their to do. 

Also, Aubrey and her husband Tim are cohosts for the podcast Faith Matters. Their podcast has been a really valuable resource for me for years now, so definitely check it out.

Thanks so much for listening, and we hope you enjoy his episode. 

Show Notes:
Faith Matters Podcast
Care of the Soul Thomas by, Thomas Moore
The Road Back to You by, Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile